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If you hate your friands will you tell them?
Im just thinking of these i think until now i dint find a real friend.
would you mind hating your friends?of course not.this topic just pop out on my mind.
if you hate your friends will you tell them?
do you think there are good ways of telling them that you hate them?
in a way that they wont be hurt?
or telling them will just make your friendship
in a bad situation?i wanna know what will it be
bcoz somehow i still cant understand myself if i hate my friends
but i feel happy in a way that i met them.
would you mind hating your friends?of course not.this topic just pop out on my mind.
if you hate your friends will you tell them?
do you think there are good ways of telling them that you hate them?
in a way that they wont be hurt?
or telling them will just make your friendship
in a bad situation?i wanna know what will it be
bcoz somehow i still cant understand myself if i hate my friends
but i feel happy in a way that i met them.
Even Angels Need Parachutes...
Um, if you "hate your friends," what is the point of even considering them "friends" at all?
I guess I'm just a little confused.
And hate is such a strong word; I don't think there is any possible way to tell someone you hate them and not hurt their feelings.
I guess I'm just a little confused.
And hate is such a strong word; I don't think there is any possible way to tell someone you hate them and not hurt their feelings.
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Um, if you "hate your friends," what is the point of even considering them "friends" at all?
I guess I'm just a little confused.
And hate is such a strong word; I don't think there is any possible way to tell someone you hate them and not hurt their feelings.
hmmm thanks to your comment it help me a lot to think about it :))
you have a point
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1 year 3 months ago
"Keep your enemies close", XD. Well, if the are asses, I would tell them i don't want to hang out no more. Then it will go down hill... But Cherry-Soda has a point, friendships die sometimes.
Look!If you really get to the point of having to hate a friend of yours he must have been a REAL a$$...And sometimes things are not as they seem!6 months ago i thought i lost my bestfriend thanks to some other ppl...But no,we just are not together as we were before...
BUT!Everytime we meet we do the same silly things that we did when we were together,saying the same jokes and such things...Remember of the past...
I mean,if you reach to point of having to hate a friend he would probably hit your gf or did something VERY bad to you!
On the other hand there are "friends" that get out with you and try to humiliate you in front of people because this makes THEM look better and more high...These are B!atches(girls) and A$$****s(boys)...
So,think about what your friends did to you and then decide if they must be hated or not...
Hope i helped,
Kushi
BUT!Everytime we meet we do the same silly things that we did when we were together,saying the same jokes and such things...Remember of the past...
I mean,if you reach to point of having to hate a friend he would probably hit your gf or did something VERY bad to you!
On the other hand there are "friends" that get out with you and try to humiliate you in front of people because this makes THEM look better and more high...These are B!atches(girls) and A$$****s(boys)...
So,think about what your friends did to you and then decide if they must be hated or not...
Hope i helped,
Kushi
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Really, if I have a problem with them it is because they have a problem with me...I am not hard to get along with at all...But if I really hated them I would tell them...Why not, just tell them how it is...
"A woman's mind and winter wind change often."
... Well. If you hate somebody, that person can't be a friend now can she?
Of course, you're thinking "There's always a point in time when you hate something about your friend, boyfriend, or husband."
But that's my point. If you hate only "something," not "everything" about a person, especially since you've known the person for quite some time and would like to continue having a relationship at whatever level with that person, in such a circumstance, I would nudge the issue at him/her and if he/she doesn't mind changing for the sake of the friendship, all's well.
If you hate everything about a person for example George Bush (though I have to give him credit for having the ability to make me laugh) then ignoring him would be my, eh, "approach."
Of course, you're thinking "There's always a point in time when you hate something about your friend, boyfriend, or husband."
But that's my point. If you hate only "something," not "everything" about a person, especially since you've known the person for quite some time and would like to continue having a relationship at whatever level with that person, in such a circumstance, I would nudge the issue at him/her and if he/she doesn't mind changing for the sake of the friendship, all's well.
If you hate everything about a person for example George Bush (though I have to give him credit for having the ability to make me laugh) then ignoring him would be my, eh, "approach."
People have a tendency to do the wrong things right and the right things wrong.
If i hated my friend i wouldn't tell them, i wouold just keep it a secret!! then later on ask the rest of my friends if they didn't like that person either. If they agreed i would still not say anything, i would probably just keep them there to hate their guts. Or...Give them The EVIL EYE. But i wouldn;t tell them.
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If I hate them, they're not my friends.
simple as that
i'm quite careful in choosing who's a friend, and who's not. I hate it when people whom i've just met ask if we can 'be friends'. you can't decide it by saying that. friendship just happens. and i'd never keep someone as a friend for being rich or something.
simple as that
i'm quite careful in choosing who's a friend, and who's not. I hate it when people whom i've just met ask if we can 'be friends'. you can't decide it by saying that. friendship just happens. and i'd never keep someone as a friend for being rich or something.
I have a situation like this atm. And I'm not even sure anymore if this person loves or hates me. And she's not telling me :/ even if I ask... Ah well, I asume she hates me.
Anyways, yeah, I would tell them if they did something I didn't like, and I will ask if I see they are avoiding or ignoring me. But well, I don't hate any of them XP it's just something you need to talk about sometimes, some people just live on but I can't :/ It keeps haunting my mind so I just need to find the truth. As a cause of that, I tend to tell them straight in their face what I want them to hear, and that might be harsh or really calm and understanding. If this is appreciated or not depends on the person, but I do my best not to hurt them. Problem is, you can't avoid hurting them :( the punchline will be the same anyways.
Anyways, yeah, I would tell them if they did something I didn't like, and I will ask if I see they are avoiding or ignoring me. But well, I don't hate any of them XP it's just something you need to talk about sometimes, some people just live on but I can't :/ It keeps haunting my mind so I just need to find the truth. As a cause of that, I tend to tell them straight in their face what I want them to hear, and that might be harsh or really calm and understanding. If this is appreciated or not depends on the person, but I do my best not to hurt them. Problem is, you can't avoid hurting them :( the punchline will be the same anyways.
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And had the intense feeling of being watched.
The silence forced me to listen to my own heavy breathing.
I panicked.
I knew this was my final destination.
The extreme resistance of my own body, made me pass out.
The dark chamber became even darker.
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Friendship depends upon the personality of the parties involved. Your case, I believe is simply a confused situation, perhaps misunderstandings, perhaps nothing more than an affectation? Though I suppose, to speak truthfully, when resentment begins to fester, one borne out of envy and feelings of inferiority, then it'd be best to examine yourself more closely. Of course, even saying that, it's quite impossible, as one who labors alone labors further into oneself.
1 year 3 months ago
Cant really be a friend if you hate them. =/
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Wow. This is really hard to like... reply to. I guess I'm going through that stage right now. The people I used to trust, I found out I mean nothing to them. The person I told everything to stabbed me in the back and called me the shittalker. She needs to grow up. If I could, I wouldn't just tell her "I hate you" I'd beat the living crap out of her.
So you should try talking it out with your friends and see whats up. Don't make my foolish mistakes. Because I screwed up. Bad. But they're to stupid to realize, that if I hadn't have been there, none of them would have met.
i hate "something" in them but not "everything"
its like they broke my trust.i mean all i can say
is that PROMISES are meant to be broken and they broke my trust...
we're three in my group.those two they said to me and promise to me that
when our school festival is coming we three will be together (:)) im so happy that we three will be together)
but then they left me alone in the school festival,the two of them were absent inthat particular day!is it just a coincidence?and you know after that they didnt say a word to me!!i will accept it if they say sorry and often times in class im the one who left alone.the two of my friends join my other classmates..im really a loner :((
i keep thinking whats wrong with me,and if they hate me they tell me!not that im like finding a way out of a maze...
i couldnt understand them really i think im very childish.am i?
Even Angels Need Parachutes...
No, you're not childish. You're human.
And some humans tend to overwhelm themselves with social matters. Usually because they pride themselves to be "social creatures."
When you see them going out again, just go up to them and say "Can I come?" That's my recommendation to start getting back.
And some humans tend to overwhelm themselves with social matters. Usually because they pride themselves to be "social creatures."
When you see them going out again, just go up to them and say "Can I come?" That's my recommendation to start getting back.
People have a tendency to do the wrong things right and the right things wrong.
1 year 3 months ago
Hmmm..i duno.i hate a friend b4 but sometimes if you look at a positive way..i don't really hate her so much.quite