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How forgiving are you?
1 year 6 months ago
I tend to hold a grudge.. so i'm not very forgiving.. it depends on who the person is
Blackvice is right, it all depends on what kind of betrayal it is... i happened to be in the same situation as you but when i thank about it seriously, the friend had not other choice...its some sort of long story, but i gave him another chance and it strengthened our friendship.... 
It depends on how badly they hurt me or how many times. If it was really bad or too many times then I wouldn't forgive them unless they had a really really good reason. Otherwise I would probably forgive them.
To my own opinion, i'm way too forgiving...
people who do extremely annoying, or do really bad things... over time i tend to forget such things..
for me it seems easy to see good things to a person, rather than bad ones.
sometimes it might be good for people that i don't add it up, cause they'd be in mortal danger already...
people who do extremely annoying, or do really bad things... over time i tend to forget such things..
for me it seems easy to see good things to a person, rather than bad ones.
sometimes it might be good for people that i don't add it up, cause they'd be in mortal danger already...
1 year 6 months ago
I think i'm pretty forgiving... it just takes time for me to understand the other person's situation etc. I probably won't trust them as much as I used to though ![[]-(-_-) emoticon](http://static2.animepaper.net/images/emo/yellowcard.gif "[]-(-_-) emoticon")
1 year 6 months ago
BlackVicewell heres a useful quote i found: Revenge is the greatest act of forgiveness
Haha! Good one! Um, i'm not really the revengeful type and i hardly hold grudges against people...ok, maybe sometimes but they never last long. Well, anybody else thinks this way? That revenge is sweeett? Ever actually take revenge on someone?
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Depends on the people, if it's my friends then yeah that's ok but betray (serious one)? No, I will give just one chance only and that is it, whether it's friend or not. Well if not a friend I might not even give them a chance.
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1 year 6 months ago
DathmarI give everyone 3 strikes and they are out. I forgive, but I never forget. They would have to do something really amazing to get my trust back, and even then I doubt I could give it to them. Sometimes people do change though, but in my experience it's very rare and not really worth the effort on your part.
yes,I also frogive and not forget ,you know the hurt is hrad to forget.I hope the hurt inot happen between someone and me .
I think i've been betrayed once or twice in my youth but, it was a long time ago and i dont really remember it. And i dont know if that was the cause, but i've never really been a trusting person. I mean i'll trust a person more with my actual life than i will with something about my life. I dunno what it is about it, but thats just they way i am. So if you want to sacrifice intimacy with your friends, dont tell them anything about yourself that could potentially be used against you.
I forgive but never forget. >_>
I tend to hold grudges, but it all depends on what the mistake he or she made, really.
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1 year 6 months ago
The Grominator (that's me) gives second chances, but never a third chance. If someone gets on my bad side more than once, I let 'em have it. In fact, the last guy that pushed me over the line didn't look me in the eye for a week after I got through with him. No lie.
1 year 5 months ago
Such forgiveness is always needed
but is it right to not care about that person who betrayed you so badly
maybe not maybe yes
but the main thing is that they are there
but to me i dont know
i would trust that person again...but neither would i not be friends
talking things out is always a good way to get things through
but if that dont work....then i dont know
to be used is the worst thing possible anyone could do
to be used as a thing without meaning is as if being treated like a pice of sh*t
dude why am i even talking like this..
must be this boredom of me -_-
but whatever the cause is....just dont put too much trust in anyone
cause its hard to trust when not being trusted.
but is it right to not care about that person who betrayed you so badly
maybe not maybe yes
but the main thing is that they are there
but to me i dont know
i would trust that person again...but neither would i not be friends
talking things out is always a good way to get things through
but if that dont work....then i dont know
to be used is the worst thing possible anyone could do
to be used as a thing without meaning is as if being treated like a pice of sh*t
dude why am i even talking like this..
must be this boredom of me -_-
but whatever the cause is....just dont put too much trust in anyone
cause its hard to trust when not being trusted.
Someone wouldn't be capable of betraying me more than once continuously, cause to me, if you betray me once that's it. It's done, and you don't earn back my trust. Unless it was by some misunderstanding, or if the person did something that really changes things my trust is taken from them. They might earn a bit back, but I'll never fully trust them again, and I'll always remember. It's not that I keep a grudge or a hate, but one must learn to be wary of someone who was capable of betraying you when you gave them one of the most precious things you could give them; trust.
I have been betrayed a few times, and it's really painful. But it's just made me stronger, cause you learn who you can trust, how to think ahead and all, in the end, I haven't been betrayed since then, and I gotta say, I haven't changed myself, I've just been more careful in the people I trust, that's it.
I have been betrayed a few times, and it's really painful. But it's just made me stronger, cause you learn who you can trust, how to think ahead and all, in the end, I haven't been betrayed since then, and I gotta say, I haven't changed myself, I've just been more careful in the people I trust, that's it.
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Well, actually it depends at my mood and what they do to me.. Sometimes, I give them 3 chance.. When all of it depleted, no fogiveness anymore..
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