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How forgiving are you?
To be honest it's really hard to get me angry. I don't know it's something in my nature that just shrugs most things off easily.
That is most things. There have been a few times when a friend of mine has put me into a black mood. At that point i have just ceased all contact with them. You may think that may be harsh of me, but i see it as fair.
If you think that that person has done something tomake you angry or upset beyond reason just stoptalking to them, it'll save you bother later on when they may do the same thing again.
That is most things. There have been a few times when a friend of mine has put me into a black mood. At that point i have just ceased all contact with them. You may think that may be harsh of me, but i see it as fair.
If you think that that person has done something tomake you angry or upset beyond reason just stoptalking to them, it'll save you bother later on when they may do the same thing again.
Well I'm not really forgiving and personally i think its a waste of time, becuase it better just to let go of that person and move on with you life. Ignore that person and live your own will, you will be just hurting yourself if you forgive that person and still hang around them, I'm not saying to be mean to them or be ishy towards them, just pretend there is nothing between you and that person and when you see them greet them as you would any INformal person and go do something else or move away from the convorsation.
I don't know. I haven't really been betrayed badly or anything like that before... so I don't really know if I'll be very forgiving.
Mmm... dunno. Depends on my mood and the person in question. If he/she's a good friend, I'll probably whine a couple of minutes and forgive them. As for forgetting the sin, I'm forgetful anyway about everything.
If it's a person I'm less fond of I can get very scary... this one girl ran screaming out the door once when I was five...
If it's a person I'm less fond of I can get very scary... this one girl ran screaming out the door once when I was five...
I'm not a guy to hold a grudge like I'm all ways happy to the person I talk to!
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Well, I`m a very nice person, but Im one of this person that forgive but never forget.
I can hold grudges for a very, very long time. In fact, I'm still holding grudges against people from High School - and I graduated over four years ago.
But it depends entirely on how serious the situation is; if it was a simple misunderstanding then I would be willing to work it out, but if it was intentional, I will completely detach myself from the person and silently loathe them for however long I see fit.
I think I caught onto this attitude after observing all the crap my best friend went through. She is the complete opposite of me, easily forgiving people that hurt her, and because of that she continuously got walked on over and over again because her so-called "friends" knew that she was a pushover.
But it depends entirely on how serious the situation is; if it was a simple misunderstanding then I would be willing to work it out, but if it was intentional, I will completely detach myself from the person and silently loathe them for however long I see fit.
I think I caught onto this attitude after observing all the crap my best friend went through. She is the complete opposite of me, easily forgiving people that hurt her, and because of that she continuously got walked on over and over again because her so-called "friends" knew that she was a pushover.
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I'd say people deserve one more chance, but only once, and if it's serious enough, not even that. Life is too short and there are too many people in the world to waste time on those who are untrustworthy. Why forgive them, when it will only set you up for future pain, especially if you can't let go of what previously happened. If you can't let go, then the relationship has already been ruined by what they did, so there is no good in wasting time trying to make up when their actions will always be in the back of your mind, making you uncomfortable, and your relationship will never be the same.
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Forgiving.. i'll forgive but i'm one to hold grudges.. so i might use the thing that happen to REMIND that person. and if i'm really angry i'm like kirihara akya from POT...i change...
I guess I would say I would be forgiving... but it really depends on how they hurt you... for example, a violent crime.. (not very forgiving at all then). But perhaps a cheating boyfriend, or a friend who betrays your trust, or lets you down... those things I can forgive... however, I am not good at forgetting. In the case of the boyfriend... if its been more than once, we would probably just stay friends.
It really depends... If someone does something bad to my friends or family, I believe I won't forgive them that easily =o...If someone does something bad to me, it really depends...If they are good friends of mine I usually forgive them really quickly...But if it's someone I don't know or someone I hate... It'll be alot harder to forgive, but I think I can do it quickly as well.
Things I can't forgive is people hurting my friends or family.
Things I can't forgive is people hurting my friends or family.
Well, I might forget easily, but I don't forgive. If you've done the same thing to me twice, then you should forget about it...
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Well you can say ive been ultimately betrayed, and i did forgive her
but thats coz she came up to me and said do you forgive me, well she woudlent disappear till i said ok so i did, but the manner in which she asked me pissed me off, if you are looknig for forgiveness you dont come like a damn monkey and strat pestering like its a game
so in my heart i guess i havent, the whole thing that she did still pisses me off even up to now, happened about a year ago
coz because of that certain somepople have a really shit image of me, and all i did was cover the betrayers a$$ only to get whooped
ive never been really betrayed except this one, it hurt like hell since what she said wasent even the damn truth and she didnt mention her damn role in it it was all my crap
err anywa now im just starting to rant lol so ill end it there
damn i hate these kinda low life people >_<
i can be forgivefull if the person approaches me the right way, but to be honest i never really forget thigns easilly, especially if its big or something
but thats coz she came up to me and said do you forgive me, well she woudlent disappear till i said ok so i did, but the manner in which she asked me pissed me off, if you are looknig for forgiveness you dont come like a damn monkey and strat pestering like its a game
so in my heart i guess i havent, the whole thing that she did still pisses me off even up to now, happened about a year ago
coz because of that certain somepople have a really shit image of me, and all i did was cover the betrayers a$$ only to get whooped
ive never been really betrayed except this one, it hurt like hell since what she said wasent even the damn truth and she didnt mention her damn role in it it was all my crap
err anywa now im just starting to rant lol so ill end it there
damn i hate these kinda low life people >_<
i can be forgivefull if the person approaches me the right way, but to be honest i never really forget thigns easilly, especially if its big or something
Sorry if they hurt me too badly they would be dead already. I can't be more forgiving than that.
I think it depends on what kind of betrayal it was and how bad it was. I would never ever forgive my boyfriend if he went to see another girl or something like that. But I am sure that I can forgive betrayal in smaller size but if it where to happen often I don´t think I would be so forgiving because I hate when people betray me.