Depends I usually "forgive" but never forget and hurt when i look back on it.

I encountered a situation where in the whole section deceived me. I didn't know that they were annoyed of me and if they were, they could have told me to stop because I would happily do it as long as they ask me sincerely. The situation was that they keep on back-biting me and spreading false rumors about me just because they were annoyed of me. Eventhough that happened, I still forgive them. People aren't perfect. After that incident I got sick, hehehhee. Maybe because I was already afraid that the entire section was against me. TASUKETE!!

I tend to forgive everytime they do something bad to me. I don't know the reason why I forgive people so much eventhough they didn't ask for an apology but I don't like having those feelings of not forgiving someone.

Well, I tend to forgive people very easily, but there's a point where I just can't forgive them anymore, so I just don't do it.
A lot of friedships were destroyed this way, but I don't care anymore because if someone makes me forgive him/her all the time, something has to be wrong.

The first time its reasonable to forgive someone in my opinion, everyone can make a mistake, even if it is betraying your trust, if your willing to end any kind of relationship after just one betrayal than was that relationship really that important? everyone makes mistakes and not everyone can or will think them completely through before acting upon them, i've dealt with many situations like that.

There are a number of things that really make me want to get some payback as a sort of forgiveness. For example, while I taunt the other opponents at some random college sports contest, the Event Staff keep telling me, "No profanity," etc., and they even take me out of the event. I told those bloody stiffs, "Hey, I will forgive you if you pay for my tuition; otherwise, you can go scratch yourselves for taking the energy out of the home side." Eventually, the athletic department paid for my tuition for my efforts, and I forgave them.

Sometimes, there are events that have happened more than a year ago that I haven't completely forgave. There was a time when I was banned from a forum for stuff that I still couldn't comprehend. I felt it was all just a conspiracy oust me, in spite of my contributions to the forum. To this day, I would like to see those three killed for their transgressions toward me, because that's the only way I can forgive them.

Forgiveness in my family is something that is difficult to do, because we know that it will happen again. That's the thing: when I apologize, it doesn't have any meaning because I know I might do it again, and they know it too. For me, any wrongs they have done towards me can be forgiven by undoing what they did. There was another forum that I went to where I was banned, but after a time, I was able to log in. I thought I was banned from that place for life, but my account was back, so I have forgiven them for it. So, undoing the damage, and/or giving me cash compensation, to me, is sufficient for me to grant them forgiveness for good. Unless they do it again...

Mmm nobody can be forgiving if that person doesn't deserve it!!

Id forgive them the second they did somrthing wrong and forget 2 days later (short term memory) lol!

I nearly always forgive (except in some very serious case), and over time I usually completely forget about it. That's because I, too, have deceived a lot of people in the past with my silly mistakes, and now I try to be rational

I think it's no use to forgive someone who hurts you badly; you must make him pay in order to give a lesson because when you care about someone you always try to hurt very little. In conclusion, if you hurt without carying, it's that you don't care about the person. Yes, i'm not a very forgiving person and i never forget !
Who is good to me has the good part of me and who hurts me is really in trouble because i don't forgive and i never forget !
I can love as high as i can hate ...

"Forgive and forget" --as the saying goes. But for me. . .NO way.! I dunno but I find it hard to forgive someone. Anyone.

And if I have forgiven that certain someone (which would be very unusual). . .erm, I'll forgive him/her but I will never forgive what s/he did to me.

Of course i would!i think that everyone should be forgive when realise their mistake and is willing to change. if i am that petty.. no one would like to be my friends rite?

Of course now! am i silly?!
i would beat him up instead!

I'm a Scorpio, hence I tend to hold grudges. Sometimes it is hard for me to get over things. @_@ Especially if it really hurt me emotionally. But I do understand that sometimes people change and I am willing to accept that in many cases.

I forgive people pretty easily. They'd have to do something pretty bad for me to hold a grudge. Though a lot of times I think I go to easily on some people who need a little more remorse.

To be Honest about myself, I don't forgive people who hurt me that easily. Neither can I ever forget the wrong the person(s) has done on me. However, as time goes by, I will forgive the person.I will even forget what you did depending on what ground the person had has done the wrong on me. Maybe I did the person wrong in the first place or maybe, I am just unlucky enough to push the person's ego too much that he/she hurt me in the end. No one is ever perfect. But, I cannot forget what kind of a person you are then if what the person did was more then just a great wrong and hurt. I had more of a cautious and defensive mentality. Once bitten, twice shy. Forgiving a big yes. Forgetting, flat no.

It's kind of hard for my case to accept a person who stabbed, betray me all totally at once.The trust isn't there anymore once you broke it. I place a lot of value in honesty. People change all the time so, I can only say, I ain't perfect myself. Which is why I tend to be more forgiving to it. If I can bear hatred for a person, so can I be forgiving. Just that I will need time to digest it. :P