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How forgiving are you?
I may forgive her but never forget what she did...
Love is beautiful yet so dangerous
1 year 1 month ago
To be honest it's really hard to get me angry. I don't know it's something in my nature that just shrugs most things off easily.
That is most things. There have been a few times when a friend of mine has put me into a black mood. At that point i have just ceased all contact with them. You may think that may be harsh of me, but i see it as fair.
I'm not really forgiving and personally i think its a waste of time, becuase it better just to let go of that person and move on with you life. Ignore that person and live your own will, you will be just hurting yourself if you forgive that person and still hang around them, I'm not saying to be mean to them or be ishy towards them, just pretend there is nothing between you and that person and when you see them greet them as you would any INformal person and go do something else or move away from the convorsation.
If you think that that person has done something tomake you angry or upset beyond reason just stoptalking to them, it'll save you bother later on when they may do the same thing again.
That is most things. There have been a few times when a friend of mine has put me into a black mood. At that point i have just ceased all contact with them. You may think that may be harsh of me, but i see it as fair.
I'm not really forgiving and personally i think its a waste of time, becuase it better just to let go of that person and move on with you life. Ignore that person and live your own will, you will be just hurting yourself if you forgive that person and still hang around them, I'm not saying to be mean to them or be ishy towards them, just pretend there is nothing between you and that person and when you see them greet them as you would any INformal person and go do something else or move away from the convorsation.
If you think that that person has done something tomake you angry or upset beyond reason just stoptalking to them, it'll save you bother later on when they may do the same thing again.
1 year 1 month ago
Well i usually forgive people if they betrayed me in 1 night, a good night sleep will clear up my emotion but its hard to forget it.
1 year 1 month ago
I always forgive.. no matter what. it's not for the person much,it's for me.
Because I don't want to "hold" hate/anger in my body. I forgive to release the anger from myself. it doesn't mean that I'll be their friends,it means that I forgave and each person may take is way, but a way without anger.
Because I don't want to "hold" hate/anger in my body. I forgive to release the anger from myself. it doesn't mean that I'll be their friends,it means that I forgave and each person may take is way, but a way without anger.
1 year 4 weeks ago
I do not easily forgive other people who did a big wrong thing.If it was a small and tiny wan, i will forgive.
I do not easily forgive other people who did a big wrong thing.If it was a small and tiny wan, i will forgive.
I do not easily forgive other people who did a big wrong thing.If it was a small and tiny wan, i will forgive.
There was only 1 person who did that to me and he got what he deserved 
Noone dared to do that anymore 
Noone dared to do that anymore 
I claimed Nagisa-chan!
Depends. There are things I could never forgive... and there are things I forgive after he/she apologized.^^ For usual it's enough if the person who did it really regrets it, whatever it might be. But what I hate a phony apologizes...
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Well if i was betrayed by a friend...i would curse and swear...say i'll never forgive you but 6 minutes later..there i am...talkin with the person about some hot guy...damn,i'm too nice and friendly
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1 year 3 weeks ago
It would all depend on what way the person hurt me. I've been hurt before very, very badly by some people in ways that go beyond the regular 'I can laugh this off' type attitude. Sometimes there are things that one just can't forgive- how does one forgive someone attacking your entire family and everything you believe in, when their entire argument is based on a selfish need for self-narcissism? Now little things, I can see, but... yeah. It would depend on the situation for me.
1 year 3 weeks ago
I am not someone who would hold a grudge.
So i would forgive that person in time.
If all else goes horribly wrong,I would just stay as far away as possible from the one[s] who hurt me.
So i would forgive that person in time.
If all else goes horribly wrong,I would just stay as far away as possible from the one[s] who hurt me.
I am a very forgiving person. I dont think there has been a time were I was unforgiving. Actually there was one time, but it was a very serious and traumatic experience for me and I'll never forgive this person. But otherwise, I'm very compassionate when it comes to this and when people apologize I forgive them very easily. Even if the person doesn't apologize, I can't help but forgive them. I know it can be a fault at times that I do this.
I have had someone sort of betrayed me before, but not again and again.
It is hard to forgive and forget, I do know that but I think its so much better to. You'd feel better and you'll stop feeling so...hurt. Thats why I try, I really do try my best not to hate anyone because I think hating people is so tiring and it just makes you feel worse and worse each day you hate that person.
I also think getting revenge is a bit pointless because it's not going to change what happened. Sure, it might make you feel better for a little while, but it doesn't change the fact that you're feelings were hurt.
And, if the person that hurt you is a childish person, then its just going to continue. He/she is just going to get back at you, and you're going to get back at him/her.
Look at the experience in a different way. Yes, your feelings were hurt, but learn from it. That way, you'll become stronger emotionally and make better choices next time. So, I think its just best to move on and start fresh.
It is hard to forgive and forget, I do know that but I think its so much better to. You'd feel better and you'll stop feeling so...hurt. Thats why I try, I really do try my best not to hate anyone because I think hating people is so tiring and it just makes you feel worse and worse each day you hate that person.
I also think getting revenge is a bit pointless because it's not going to change what happened. Sure, it might make you feel better for a little while, but it doesn't change the fact that you're feelings were hurt.
And, if the person that hurt you is a childish person, then its just going to continue. He/she is just going to get back at you, and you're going to get back at him/her.
Look at the experience in a different way. Yes, your feelings were hurt, but learn from it. That way, you'll become stronger emotionally and make better choices next time. So, I think its just best to move on and start fresh.
It would depend on what that person did. If it was something that would make me angry for a short period then i would forgive him but i wouldnt forget about it.
But if it was something that goes against my belives then i woldnt or rather couldnt forgive him or her.
But if it was something that goes against my belives then i woldnt or rather couldnt forgive him or her.
Personally I'm very forgiving, Infact; I probably would somehow think it was my fault then I would feel bad and cry and ask them to forgive me. I'm very soft-hearted. ^_^ I can be cruel sometimes but it's for good reason and has no evil intent behind it and I don't really like doing . . . it makes me feel bad. Sorry if I seem a little fluffy, I just can't be too cruel, I may say bad things sometimes but their for fun with my friends and they have no evil intent behind them. I just don't like to hurt people and when people hurt me I forgive easily. I also trust easily too.
Falling in Love
I took one last breath
As I began to fall
As long as you’re there to catch me
I fear nothing
-at all
1 year 3 weeks ago
Well, it depends a lot on the situation, the person that hurted you... I don't know, it's not that simple but o___o I think that there are lots of things we can never forget, no matter who was the one that made us suffer.