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What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty  1 week 5 days  ago

What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty 1 week 5 days ago

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Not too much for me to say about this wallpaper that hasn't already been said: Dalarty has provided a descriptive walk through all the way from the concept idea, to its execution and ultimately its fruition. And you can really see how that careful planning paid off. But it just goes to show, good ideas take time---and a whole lot of patience!

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~XXAnime-AngelXX 3 minutes ago
Hey

~namine14 2 hours 43 minutes ago
Woot,go Kingdom Hearts~!

~runashi 4 hours 23 minutes ago
Konbanwa^^

~Utopianite 4 hours 26 minutes ago
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~akiko-yue 4 hours 54 minutes ago
Yes pretty cure 5

^Dias 5 hours 10 minutes ago
Woh... HIP. Shake those hips baby. Okies. Gotta stop now.

$motogp 5 hours 12 minutes ago
Good thanks =)

~hikachin 5 hours 13 minutes ago
Hai, moto... ^^ im fine... u?

$motogp 5 hours 16 minutes ago
Yo hickaa =D how ru

^Dias 5 hours 16 minutes ago
Macross Frontier is hip. 'Nuff said. YACK DECULTURE!!!

True friends dont excist

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!DRaCuMeL
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All my devotion betrayed,I am no longer afraid,I w
Topics: 10
Posts: 16
2 years 2 months ago
Well,i always thought that people loved one another and such b***s**t...
Some years ago after beeing hurt by some ppl,i found out that only true friends can help you and love you as no one else in the world...
These are all b***s**t...
We are all on our own in this world,no one helps others without taking anything,even a worthless thing...
Today i got betrayed by my best friend after telling him what i felt about a girl and realizing that after 2 hours the whole school knew it...right now i hate everyone i see in front of me because i dont trust no one anymore!

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~Nimmi
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Topics: 15
Posts: 145
2 years 2 months ago
Well it do exist real friends, you havent found them only. Thats the thing, i got a best friend that ive know'n for almost 12 years now... Been with him in dirt, sun, water everywere. We dont always agree on some things. But that's abit what friendship is about. To be able to talk to your friend about anything.

If he realy did that, Then he indeed has betrayed you and i wouldent count him as a real friend. Take a closer look on your other friends and i think you will find someone you will cherish as a real friend.

It may be where you havent looked. I found another of my best friends like 2 years ago. I hated him at that time. Then he started to talk to me and i realised we were pretty much alike, tho yet so different.
Trust is built up by time and it requires a GREAT deal of work. I can honestly say i love some of my friends
( not in-love, but love them in a more fammily way)
And there is one thing you forgot about people who love you. Girlfriend/boyfriend, fammily? I think that those persons love you very much.

"A friend comes to bail you out of jail, while the real friend is next to you in the cell and laughing while saying: damn we fuc*ed up mate! Hahaha"
You see what im meaning?

And if you feel lonely just start talking to some stranger. Like in the buss or the train. Sure it will surely feel kinda stupid and weird. But it's nice beacuse you can tell them almost everything about yourself beacuse you will maybe never meet them. And if you do meet them, just start talking again. Making new friends is almost always weird.

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~BloodThirsty
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2 years 2 months ago
Well..True Friends do Exist in this world...Someday for sure!.Well do remember that not all friendships are perfect,there are bound to be problems,even those that would probly want you to kill them but learn to forgive and forget.Even i didnt have them before but i believe now i do.Sure weve been through fights but sure somewhere within our hearts..no matter how cold or black it is...a part of true friendship exist.If you should never to forgive..somehow the problem might haunt you which might lead to regrets.Well if you believe Very positively that they are not worth and you deserve better in life..do remember..there are many people out there.its not wrong to make new friends and you might find yourself in a whole new world.Problems are like a test of frienship..how easy would you break over a simple/hard matter.Well thats just my opinion.you can find it rubbish and not listen or heed any adivce at all.so good luck and hope you find some one day.i believe you would..everyone has potential.

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$jebelbryan
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Jack of All Trades
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Posts: 715
2 years 2 months ago
True friends absolutely exist, though I think a lot of people have a skewed view on what a true friend should be. Most of my best friends live far away from me, but you know you have a real friend the moment you call them up after not speaking for months and talk for hours on end without ever running out of things to say. When you find a true friend, even if you move apart, go separate ways and both change, when you do come together it's like all that time that happened in between made no difference at all.

It sounds like you're young, so keep searching. And probably the best caveat to avoid is expecting a true friend to be the stereotypical "best friend" whom you share everything with. If you require knowledge of every one of your friends happenings, or it is required from you, that is going to be a completely useless and harmful stress on the friendship. If one of you move away, not being able to carry on a friendship with that level of communication and shared experience will make keeping the friendship together impossible.

Lastly, trust me on the distance aspect...I have more experience than most. With most of my "true" friends living in other states, my fiance living halway across a country, and my family also being in another state, keeping relationships together and strong, despite distance, is something I've successfully worked hard on. It's going on 6 years and I haven't lost a single friend yet and I don't think I will.

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~elleztim
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Welcome to Nightmare
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2 years 2 months ago

DRaCuMeL
Well,i always thought that people loved one another and such b***s**t...
Some years ago after beeing hurt by some ppl,i found out that only true friends can help you and love you as no one else in the world...
These are all b***s**t...
We are all on our own in this world,no one helps others without taking anything,even a worthless thing...
Today i got betrayed by my best friend after telling him what i felt about a girl and realizing that after 2 hours the whole school knew it...right now i hate everyone i see in front of me because i dont trust no one anymore!


my bestfriend did that to me also but for me it was a blessing in disguise.. why? because it reaches out to the girl that i have feelings for and it turns out that she feels the same way for me. well, in your condition, it depends how you feel and i think if he is your bestfriend, then he should know better than that. it may turn out just the way it is for me or not but eventually, it has something to change for, whether it is about your friendship or your trust. but don't generalize, not everybody is like that--

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~trickypriest
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2 years 2 months ago
I think too, that true friends are exist, just hard to find them. Your friend betrayed you, because you didn't know him enough... I suppose, you'll be more careful about hese kinds of things, and you'll avoid them later.

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~Aekaede
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2 years 2 months ago
~DRaCuMeL, you could be right however it's all a matter of perspective because if you have expectations from friends that's when you can get hurt and such; however if you never expect anything from people I can assure you that you will never be hurt. I'd say 'true friends' exist as well, they just make up a small percent of the people you meet so you don't come by them often

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~Ichise-Shinn
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Diva koibito
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Posts: 246
2 years 2 months ago
Yay hate then every single of then little human insects are like that . all they wish is to use you and throw you away like if you were a piece of shit, or fell nothing for then in the end is the same...friends aren't needed :D i think the same way...
oh well the last friend i had died a few years ago and i didn't feel nothing...but for some unknow reason i was happy (something that doesn't happen often on me) normally i just don't fell nothing but well in case i trush the idiot who told me it was a interesting day

~HmRkS
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2 years 2 months ago
How does telling the whole school that you have a crush on someone doesn't make him a true friend? All my friends do such things to me all the time.

~Crackhead
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Come one, Come all!!!!!
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Posts: 342
2 years 2 months ago
Your "bestfriend" should get shot.

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~Lucia-sama
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Undead Marionette
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Posts: 22
2 years 2 months ago
"To know friendship, is to know betrayal." There is always someone that will betray you. It's a part of life. However, decent people do exist. I have experienced many betrayals, but that doesn't stop me from making new and better friends. Hope this helps. Trial and Error, my friend.

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~hitome-sakura
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INIQUIT
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Posts: 699
2 years 2 months ago
Well things are not always as they seem, i know how it feels
like when you trust someone blindly and they betray your trust,
as if they had no concern with you, as if you are of no worth
to them, life is game and it plays with you, your emotions and
feelings are not much of a concern to the cruel world, its really
kind of sad, and its not easy to find a good friend, someone
with whom you can share everything with its surely not easy,
but i guess that is the rule of life,

but i agree with ~nimme here, life doesnt always go the same way,
if you want a friend try talking to astranger, someone like, well you
can make a friend here, i know its not easy, cause if you want to know,
i also dont have any close friends, cause everyone is my friend, i talk
to everyone, but i dont share everything with everyone.
i hope the pain in your heart heals, but its upto you how you would live,

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~jsalazar
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Right on.
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2 years 2 months ago
It's a well known that life is not fair, and all is fair in love and war, but I believe that true friends exists because that

1. they care for you,
2. they believe in who you are and what you stand for,
3. they will support you every step of the way, and
4. they love you.

Tell me one person that doesn't qualify for at least one of these four things. I can name 50 people that can qualify under these four. There are true friends in this world, and in this life. You just have to go out and find them.

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~Kibas333
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Topics: 31
Posts: 830
2 years 2 months ago
Humans are humans. Friend are good but always look out what you want to say. I know your problem i have some of my own with friends. I have foundt one but also with him i had some problems. I guess that it is totaly normale.

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!kazu
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kazu the demon
Topics: 11
Posts: 43
2 years 2 months ago
True friends exist only if you can trust in it you can't just find them by telling some one your my best friend now them for some years now ther back ground ya its true i may not have a best friend becuz i think people are fake bot ther are people that love me for me and try to be like me in other ways the idely's me for what! i dont now bot thy sound like true friends and your friend may be he tolld the school so thy cood help i mean if you like a girl go up to here and say wehats in your heart whats the worst thing that can happen what! the only thing she can say is ok lets go on a date or she can say sry! bot i have some one els in mind bot you can get mad becuz of your friend ther will be some one for you just wait for her............

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