My parents argue over every little thing. Most of the time its okay, but they don't even seem to love each other. I mean my mother is telling me about my father's family. How they mistreat her and such. It feels like it may be true, but is she just over sensitive. My mother told me my gradmother once SNARLED at her! What was up with that?
My father would also take money from my mother's bank. He said he was only borrowing and he would return it. When my mother asked if he did return the money sometime later, he would start arguing with, saying things like 'You don't trust me?' Is it just me or is my mother over sensitive to her in laws. My father also tells me that sometimes my mother is too much. He says she too sensitive, believing in the wrong things, making up things about the in laws ill treating her.
They argue at least once almost every two days about this.
I feel utter sick about this. I no longer want to trust both of them. I feel like killing everyone who was ever born. I feel no one should ever live, everyone is better off dead. Or at least that's how i feel right now.

I understand that, because my family is almost like that. How my mother's in laws mistreat her and such, I do agree with my mom because I hate my father's family. Anyway, my parents also do argue over every little things, but that doesn't show that they don't love each other. It goes the same for you and your parents, you gotta believe that they still love each other. Probably, they just need time to talk to each other. It's best not to interfer their own marriage problems even though you are their child. But of course, if things got worst and you couldn't take it anymore, tell them how you feel. No worries, they still love each other. There are times when they both need a rest.

Hey~don't worry..my parents are like that too~always arguing..i'm always the middle-person..my mum will tell me how bossy and noisy is he and dad will tell me mum is forgetful and stubborn..and everytime when they tell me things like that,i will remind that you have married each other so it means you have accept each others personality and attitude.i don't interfere their arguements.i just listen..well,my mom told me how her family treats her her when she's young and i really don't like them for i see their actions with my own eyes..but complaining about in laws does not she does not love her husband..and i agree that if you really can't handle their arguments anymore,speak out about your feelings~don't think too much,they still love each other..

Yes, everybody’s parents fight! Mine are like two wild kids... Always shouting at each other…

Err my parents are divorced because they argued constantly when i was little. nothing i can do about it. end of my story heh

My parents done argue ... they only have LOUD dicussions XD My parents argument from mid-day to mid-night...I think most couples do argue...it's like a way to communicate

They can argue something about rice and dinner to...my school grades to ...lots of random things

Although I argue with my Dad on most days too @.@

Well, seeing that I AM a Parent, I can shed a bit of light on this.
Me and my wife argue as well. Almost 99% of the time it is about Money or home finances.
My wife believes that when something is needed, it's time to grab the purse and fill the gap. However, I believe that you have to be able to afford something before you buy it. That brings about conflict. Big Time.
What really starts to happen is the placement of power. My wife starts to feel like I'm controlling the money, which I don't. She's able to get pretty much anything she wants. But when that practice is allowing $1000's of credit card debt, something has to give. Running up debt is not very smart just to get something now that could have waited till later when It can be properly afforded.

So yeah, Money is the biggest factor when it come to arguing parents. I like the saying above about LOUD conversations. That's pretty much how it happens. But when your parents are fighting, try NOT to get involved, especially if it IS about money. Your involvment only makes things worse, unless your helping your parents pay the Gas & Light bills and have a stake in the financial picture. :) Just leave and ignore. Most of the time financial issues get worked out.

Parents always argue that's just the fact. I mean EVERY SINGLE PARENT argues! There's no such thing that a child's parents always agree, no human being can always agree with someone. But your parent's arguements are quite actully normal among parents. Things they argue can be silly or seriously, depend on what kind of side they have woken up. But I won't lie to you... One they might divorce... seriously, they have already started to argue about the meaningless things... what more can happen? It's this kind of situation that children step in. Tell you parent that you have had enough about there childness and ask them to grow up. The most important thing is truely to care about your child's feeling. If you wonder more, just mail and ask. I'll help you as much you want. =)

Well i am sick of my dad always arguing about money and spititng it in my face that he works his ass off, and then the money is his and he sweats for it and nobody helps him and he always have to think in the house and eveybody is a braindead and shit. i wanted to answer him WTF do you want me to work and pay the rent, and i wanted to throw my bank card at him and say 'he shove it up yo a$$!

My parents scream at each other all time - sometimes they're even outside! Every neighbour can hear them arguing and fighting. It always over the dumbest things - whenever I see them they start yelling at me about everything too in public as well...My parents just like yelling.

Watching my parents fight just made my condition worse. I took the cycle of violence into my own relationships for many years playing the role of the abusee. I eventually made a consious decsion after several abusive relationships to end the cycle of violence taught to me growing up.

Mine too. they fight. almost all parents fight. look, even siblings fight. fighting is just a necessity in a person's life. even though it can be destructive ion a way, it can also strenghen one's character. there is no person in the world who havent fought with anyone. XD

Lol at ~lilacsegawa.....my parents divorced too

but you gotta think positive no matter the outcome, even though its like super hard to go through these things...i've been through all that, it gets pretty emotional but ended up in divorce, hope all goes well though

When I was young, my parents faught and seperated. But- they got back together.. lets see.. 19 years ago, and they have been fine since. They have little arguments, but it isn't much. My grandparents on both sides, while they have their faults and bicker- were/are still together (only seperated by death).

I have been with my girlfriend a long, long while. I could never see treating her the way many of you say your parents treat each other. I just don't understand how you can fall out of love with someone that way. If you loved them at all at one time, won't you always love that person? Maybe not the same way.. but it seems to me people should find it easy to love other people. But, I guess people change.

I think the problem here is lack of respect and others feelings. Many people are too involved in themselves these days.

My rents don't really argue, but the couple next door are always at each others throats. Still they seem to be quite content with each other and argueing saves holding angry feelings in and making it worse. The only thing is it has rubbed off on their children so they yell even when they just have calm conversation.