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Friendship That Drift Away
4 months 1 week ago
Gaaa~
this made me remember the time when i had a best friend since 4th grade and
then she changed schools in 8th grade. since then (its only been a year) i dont talk to the same people i used to.
And when i do talk to her it seems akward since we dont have many things to talk about :S
though people try to be my friends but i push them apart since i dont want to be attached to anyone.
this made me remember the time when i had a best friend since 4th grade and
then she changed schools in 8th grade. since then (its only been a year) i dont talk to the same people i used to.
And when i do talk to her it seems akward since we dont have many things to talk about :S
though people try to be my friends but i push them apart since i dont want to be attached to anyone.
4 months 1 week ago
This just happened to me pretty recently...
my friend i used to hang out changed a lot, i moved away to san diego for a year and i recently just came back and i was expecting a pretty big hello or welcome back but all they said to me was "you grew taller...", pretty much i became an outcast in the group i used to hang out with, but i still hang out with them because they arent they only people that's changed. i cant deny im a little different so all is well
my friend i used to hang out changed a lot, i moved away to san diego for a year and i recently just came back and i was expecting a pretty big hello or welcome back but all they said to me was "you grew taller...", pretty much i became an outcast in the group i used to hang out with, but i still hang out with them because they arent they only people that's changed. i cant deny im a little different so all is well
Yes, all the time. Ladies and gentlemen that's high school for ya!
There's nothing atypical about that.
I've encountered lot of people who come and go in my life, let alone at this young age.
In the end,
only those real friends will dwell beside you for who-knows-how-long.
I've encountered lot of people who come and go in my life, let alone at this young age.
In the end,
only those real friends will dwell beside you for who-knows-how-long.
"He doesn't see her as a friend. He sees her as the one who changed his world..." -Sun and Moon
4 months 5 days ago
This topic...er...
Some friends always go away from me and make me upset.But I could find the same thing also happens on themselves.I think it's a rule between people.
While,to understand it is a good choice to me.And the important thing is that I will keep the feelings between us forever though the one looks me as stranger when we meet again.
Stupid?
Some friends always go away from me and make me upset.But I could find the same thing also happens on themselves.I think it's a rule between people.
While,to understand it is a good choice to me.And the important thing is that I will keep the feelings between us forever though the one looks me as stranger when we meet again.
Stupid?
4 months 5 days ago
Friends are like seasons... they come and go.
yes, there are exception to that of course :D
yes, there are exception to that of course :D
3 months 4 weeks ago
All the time. It's not something new, it happens a lot to everyone.
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Happens all the time, especially if that good friend is leaving/moving to another place. During that time, that person will be busy trying to fit in/meet new people that he'll tend to forget the friend they already have.
But what really sucks is when you have a friend who just suddenly hangs out with other people just because "he's moved on from his old self".
But what really sucks is when you have a friend who just suddenly hangs out with other people just because "he's moved on from his old self".
I was close friends with a girl from the age of eleven through to sixteen. We were as close as close could be until our final year of mandatory education, when I passed my exams with flying colours and stayed on into higher education whereas she failed nearly everything. Once we weren't seeing each other everyday we very swiftly drifted apart and even worse I noticed how completely different we were.
I miss her now and then, but the friendships I have now are stronger and based on more than convenience.
I miss her now and then, but the friendships I have now are stronger and based on more than convenience.
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3 months 3 weeks ago
Life makes you drift to new places, to do new stuff and so on, same goes for your friends and it is then a natural to drift away from each other, though it is a lot easier to keep in touch via internet or phones, but it is no longer the same, I agree.
Oh.
i have experienced these things.
that's why i don't believe with LONG-LASTING FRIENDSHIP, PURE FRIENDSHIP or whatsoever related to that.
even our closest friends can stab our back.
so, the conclusion is, the best friend in the world for us is OUR FAMILY.
they will never stab our back, never turn us down. they always support us and accept us for who we are.
i have experienced these things.
that's why i don't believe with LONG-LASTING FRIENDSHIP, PURE FRIENDSHIP or whatsoever related to that.
even our closest friends can stab our back.
so, the conclusion is, the best friend in the world for us is OUR FAMILY.
they will never stab our back, never turn us down. they always support us and accept us for who we are.
As far as I know, I only kept in contact with 2 friends, and the rest just sort of drift apart like years and years of neglect would.
Humans are fragile creatures the emotions are even more so.
Every word they say, everything can make some sort of start, but when it ends, not even residue normally remains.
Humans are fragile creatures the emotions are even more so.
Every word they say, everything can make some sort of start, but when it ends, not even residue normally remains.
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I had a friend from high school, I can say that me and her were much more like sisters, she understood me and I understood her, we were always there for each other, we helped out each other if needed, we laughed and we cried for some reasons.
But regrettably, she moved on to a new city due to some problems between her parents, and since her mother divorced from her father she has gone with her mother.
But that doesn’t mean I don’t talk to her or meet up with her, basically friends stay in the heart and live with us by our memories, so no matter how far they are, what really matter is that we still remember and keep in touch with them.
On the whole, I still talk to her by telephone and if I couldn’t we have MSN, so nothing will stop us as friends as long as we believe that our friendship is true!
I would like to say to the ones who have lost some friends, Don’t worry they are still in your heart and don’t ever miss the chance if you get it to keep in touch with them, because nothing worth losing especially when it comes to friends, and remember they are the mirror image of you; who you actually know yourself by knowing them.
But regrettably, she moved on to a new city due to some problems between her parents, and since her mother divorced from her father she has gone with her mother.
But that doesn’t mean I don’t talk to her or meet up with her, basically friends stay in the heart and live with us by our memories, so no matter how far they are, what really matter is that we still remember and keep in touch with them.
On the whole, I still talk to her by telephone and if I couldn’t we have MSN, so nothing will stop us as friends as long as we believe that our friendship is true!
I would like to say to the ones who have lost some friends, Don’t worry they are still in your heart and don’t ever miss the chance if you get it to keep in touch with them, because nothing worth losing especially when it comes to friends, and remember they are the mirror image of you; who you actually know yourself by knowing them.
A good friend of mine who moved to another university told me before his departure:
"Don`t worry, our life is just a game. And very soon you`ll play with other people"
"Don`t worry, our life is just a game. And very soon you`ll play with other people"
2 months 4 weeks ago
Yea- this happen all da time.
No- it doesn't happen to me all the time- but it did happen with several friends after I graduated from high school. When it does happen- it is pretty sad- 'cause it's like man, we used to hang out and be really close or w/e. But like someone sad in an earlier post, it's better that they drift away than they end 'cause of some stupid a-- drama sh--. Ironically enough, I am playing Pokemon Pearl now and I'm in the Lost Tower (a Pokemon graveyard) or something, and one of the trainers was like- throughout your life you'll be saying some pretty sad goodbyes or something like that.
No- it doesn't happen to me all the time- but it did happen with several friends after I graduated from high school. When it does happen- it is pretty sad- 'cause it's like man, we used to hang out and be really close or w/e. But like someone sad in an earlier post, it's better that they drift away than they end 'cause of some stupid a-- drama sh--. Ironically enough, I am playing Pokemon Pearl now and I'm in the Lost Tower (a Pokemon graveyard) or something, and one of the trainers was like- throughout your life you'll be saying some pretty sad goodbyes or something like that.