I don't think I care whether if I'm alone or with friends...I think I can manage on my own, but it's a selfish thing to say...I think.
I need my friends but not the kind of freinds that will leave me alone.
And if they do (I doubt that) I'll be ok...

I'm definitely a lone wolf.

It's a touchy subject for me, really. I grew up as an ugly child and pretty much nobody wanted to hang out or play with me. Anybody who did, were made fun of because they were hanging out with someone as hideous as I was. That was my elementary life.

In junior high, I began to watch television shows on beauty and fashion and read fashion magazines while in line at the grocery store. From there, I tried to make the best out of what I had, which wasn't enough. Of course, as I grew up, I was finally given the choice to make my own clothing choices and was even given money during my birthdays so that I could buy my own things at my own discretion. I also lost weight, began wearing contacts (I'm so blind that the strength of my glasses my eyes appear very tiny) and learned what hairstyle looked good on me. It was in high school when I finally started making friends.

Sadly, by then, I was pretty much used to living the lonely life. I had also become very distant and I generally hated people because of their cruelty. I even acted like a bitch towards guys who tried to flirt with me (yeah, I guess you could say I was an ugly duckling who become a beautiful swan?). Of course, there was one guy who swept me off my feet and seemed to be able to relate to me. *sighs* Still with him...hahah. In fact, guys today never believe me when I say I was the ugly child.

Could you say anti-social?

Yeah...

Today, I'm finally beginning to open up. In fact, I even act like a child and do things that children do. It's strange really. I'm pretty sure my subconscious is just trying to make up for my lost childhood. I'm still socially awkward but I'm working on it! :D

My only consolation was the fact almost all of the people who made me suffer so much during my young years are now fat, ugly and idiotic failures in life. Karma is a bitch.

Man...alot of people don't know what a real lone wolf is...

there are those that like to think they are lone wolfs but in reality they are the ones that are shutting themselves out of society, no offense to those that doesn't realize it but your the one who's doing it to yourself so that doesn't make you a lone wolf probably just emo.

A Lone wolf/loner pretty much is the one that gets shut out from everyone or close to it, for example your classmates forget who you are, your friends forget who you are, when you talk in the group it suddenly gets quiet and becomes and awkward moment, when you try your best to make friend on the internet and no one bothers or just forgets about you. That's what a lone wolf is, someone who gets cast aside.

Yes im mostly talking about myself, do I seek attention? yes ill say it...I hate it when people forget about me or don't include in something they like to do it sucks. The worst part is sometimes people even use you what even more sad about is that, sometimes you already know that your being used and yet for some reason you just stop caring and grab onto whatever tiny bit of good thing that comes out of that.

For those that are saying that they don't care about being alone and whatever...BULL SH********** no one wants to be alone no matter what that's what i've learn through all out being ignored in school being forgotten by friends

All in all Yeah I can definitely say im a lone wolf

I think I am. There are just times I prefer to sit alone, drawing or doing something I feel like...
But maybe I'm not a true lonely wolf. I get lonely too fast ^ ^;

Pretty much, yeah. XD My social skills aren't the best so I'm usually ostracised when I'm around groups of people...
It used to really bug me & I was pretty desperate to make friends, but now I just couldn't care less. =P

KidGrave

Yes im mostly talking about myself, do I seek attention? yes ill say it...I hate it when people forget about me or don't include in something they like to do it sucks. The worst part is sometimes people even use you what even more sad about is that, sometimes you already know that your being used and yet for some reason you just stop caring and grab onto whatever tiny bit of good thing that comes out of that.

I totally related to that. *sighs* I eventually stopped caring that people were using me until they found someone else better to hang out with. I resented it for a while but then I just got used to it--it was just a part of my life. -__-

KidGrave

For those that are saying that they don't care about being alone and whatever...BULL SH********** no one wants to be alone no matter what that's what i've learn through all out being ignored in school being forgotten by friends

All in all Yeah I can definitely say im a lone wolf

I like to be alone. People annoy the crap out of me and my boyfriend sometimes annoys the hell out of me too. While I can't say that I want to be alone ALL of the time, you'd be surprised at how much alone time I need each week (heck, each day). We had similar lives but we both turned out very differently. :P I also don't like attention and I get a little nervous and red when I do get it. I don't like it.

Lone Wolf...
Well it depends.. I prefer to work under my projects alone, but this is probably because I have that stupid obsession which forces me to understand everything I have in my projects (programming mostly.. IT and stuff...)... and somehow other people don't understand my code :/
But in other hand I really like going on parties, dances, etc. just to abreact my day to day stresses...
hmm.. loneliness doesn't bother me much... just I like to have someone to talk.. or feel someone presence, and it is enough for me :)

Spaki

I like to be alone. People annoy the crap out of me and my boyfriend sometimes annoys the hell out of me too. While I can't say that I want to be alone ALL of the time, you'd be surprised at how much alone time I need each week (heck, each day). We had similar lives but we both turned out very differently. :P I also don't like attention and I get a little nervous and red when I do get it. I don't like it.

Lol I know exactly what you mean...I've gotten use to being alone so much that I sometimes get nervous whenever im around a crowed of people or even in a group of 8 or more...

wish time can slow down a bit when your having a good time with people you care about...

I am personally very separated from society, for the most part. I can hold a conversation with guests, acquaintances or any ordinary passerby but quickly become small-talky and uninterested. This doesn't stem so much from arrogance as my content in solitude.

Proxima: good post. You're certainly not alone insofar as what you detailed.

I'm a loner when it comes to real life. It seems I only lost contact to friends recently instead of making new ones. I'm alone at home most of my time. And I don't see a problem with that.
On the other hand I neeeed my online acquaintances like on MSN, if no1 is there, and I can't talk to any1 it makes me really upset. @@
So I think I'm not 100% lone wolf and still depend on the ability to talk to some1.
Being on a lonely Island for more than 1 year would probably kill me.

I am so Lonely ,too.I want to makes the girlfriend.

I'm pretty normal then i guess^^"

I love the company of friends, but i guess i can do without them, so long as it's not for more than 3 hours of "alone time" in socialite places like tuition or school >w> or worse, paarrttiiesss... If they ain't there, I'd probably camatose from boredom >w>

But if it's group activities or stuff like homework or studying, I'd very much prefer to be by myself thank you very much too much distraction otherwise. I tend to concentrate better when other people arent around though and don't mind going to the girl's room by myself (though it's become part of the school rules for girls to always go with another friend to the loo...LOL!>w>) Also, group activities tend to end up in some amount of conflict sooner or later >w>

Also, if one was to spend the whole day with friends, would'nt it be tiring to entertain each other the whole day??

KidGrave

All in all Yeah I can definitely say im a lone wolf

In my oppinion, I don't think lone wolf's are like that. That's just plain "loner". Wolves are animals that sometimes travel in packs, but the ones that are stronger usually prefer to hunt alone. Also, female wolves hunt food alone for their cubs. Hence, Lone Wolves are probably describing people who can handle taking care of themselves, doens'nt mind being in the company of others, but prefer being by themselves.

But that's probably only my oppinion^^"

Depends on the situation for me.

Among strangers I'm very quiet. I don't say a single word, I barely move. Among my friends I am a douche bag. I am kind of a lone wolf though. I don't normally say "Hi" unless someone says "Hi" to me and when I'm leaving from a place I don't say a word unless someone says "Bye." But even when they do say bye, I don't actually say bye back. I don't even turn around most of the time, I just stick up my hand.

Yah I would have to say im a loner. I got friends but for the most part I just don't like humans so I generally don't care to interact with them.