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Hello everyone. I thought college was a good place to meet girls. I found out that was wrong. And also, muscle somehow doesn't equate to girlfriend. Can someone tell me what does?
I don't want to read things like make good eye contact, be confident, and smile. Been there, done that, didn't work. Some girl actually told me that she didn't want to be on camera. Funny thing because I didn't suggest anything about a camera.
I don't want to read things like make good eye contact, be confident, and smile. Been there, done that, didn't work. Some girl actually told me that she didn't want to be on camera. Funny thing because I didn't suggest anything about a camera.
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3 weeks 2 hours ago
Personality. Arrogance is despised by women. Kindness, helping, caring. All of that. And after talking to many girls, I have been told that really "buff" men are gross to them and unattractive. But not all of them think that way.
Also, get good grades. Act smart, but don't be a snob. Don't show all of your personality at once. Let it unfold with time so that you can keep fascinating and charming them. Mystery is good.
And don't attack them. Don't just go up to them and make a stupid conversation. Get a reason to make one. And don't be angry or whiney when you do because women hate that.
Also, get good grades. Act smart, but don't be a snob. Don't show all of your personality at once. Let it unfold with time so that you can keep fascinating and charming them. Mystery is good.
And don't attack them. Don't just go up to them and make a stupid conversation. Get a reason to make one. And don't be angry or whiney when you do because women hate that.
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Like 4th mentioned already, arrogance is a big no! It is the worst personality trait ever. Muscles seriously are probable the least important thing to worry about. Girls like to laugh and smile. So if you can make a girl laugh thats a good thing. Also obviously, similar interests. You have to find someone that has something in common so you have something to talk about. Whether it be music, art,etc..You dont have to like everything the same because than the relationship might be boring. One thing I love about my relationship with my husband is he is a deep thinker and know alot about things that i didnt. Im more laid back and free going. Its nice to have different views on things so we can have a conversation for hours sharing our different points of views. Yet we also have a few things in common such as we both like art and anime and music. Try joining some groups around school with some of your interests maybe? You might be able to meet someone that way. At least you know you would have something in common. And as always, be youself. =) Fake guys are the worst..females can usually pick up on that right away too.
I just met a cute girl today. We talked for about an hour about our majors, and then more about our hobbies. And you wouldn't believe it, we both liked anime, although I was more heavily involved than her. At the end of our conversation when I asked for her number she told me she didn't want to be a celebrity. 
#908496 Quote Report Edited by $rabbitking 2 weeks 6 days ago
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I just met a cute girl today. We talked for about an hour about our majors, and then more about our hobbies. And you wouldn't believe it, we both liked anime, although I was more heavily involved than her. At the end of our conversation when I asked for her number she told me she didn't want to be a celebrity.
Lol. I dont get it. Didnt you have another girl tell you that she didnt want to be on camera?? Hmmm. not sure how to help you there.
Mysticmom2Lol. I dont get it. Didnt you have another girl tell you that she didnt want to be on camera?? Hmmm. not sure how to help you there.
Despite what it may seem, I am serious. I appreciate the serious discussion.
BE YOURSELF and don't look desperate. That's about it. Being yourself is important though. When you find someone, you will know that they fell for you not someone you made up in your own mind.
Just give it time and don't worry yourself over it.
Just give it time and don't worry yourself over it.
2 weeks 5 days ago
I think everyone has already mentioned the important points. Girls like to laugh and smile so if you're funny and seem like a nice guy, they won't have any problem hanging out with you. I have no clue why some of the girls you've met say some of the most weirdest things but I think that's their way of saying, "I'm not interested." They enjoy a good talk with you but at the end of the day, they'd prefer if you both went separate ways. That happens, especially with girls you've just met for the first time.
I think it's always better to be friends with a girl first before suddenly asking for her number. Typically, I think it's easier to start off by being a classmate with a girl and then find some opportunity to get to know her like you're both in a team for a group project or something. Then you can start off from there. Since you're in a college setting, from what I've seen being in college myself, most girls tend to not respond so easily to strangers who approach them asking about their hobbies, interests, number, etc.
I think it's always better to be friends with a girl first before suddenly asking for her number. Typically, I think it's easier to start off by being a classmate with a girl and then find some opportunity to get to know her like you're both in a team for a group project or something. Then you can start off from there. Since you're in a college setting, from what I've seen being in college myself, most girls tend to not respond so easily to strangers who approach them asking about their hobbies, interests, number, etc.
Think you got what it takes to be part of The Paper People?
Maybe there is a rumor or sth about you.That you like to video girls!That's why they respond this way.I am a girl...I wouldn't respond this way if I haven't heard anything.So there must be sth!
2 weeks 4 days ago
Best advice I learned about looking for someone:
Be yourself, no one else.
You find love when you are least looking for it.
Goodluck :3
Be yourself, no one else.
You find love when you are least looking for it.
Goodluck :3
Like said many times before. ARROGANCE is the biggest NO when trying to find a stable relationship with a girl. As a girl who has encountered this many times, i can tell you its the most annoying and hateful thing in a guy.
You know whats cute though? Bashful boys who approach with precaution and are super polite. Not "fake polite" cause we can smell that a mile away.
Also you know what helps? Having good grades. I'll guarantee it works.
You know whats cute though? Bashful boys who approach with precaution and are super polite. Not "fake polite" cause we can smell that a mile away.
Also you know what helps? Having good grades. I'll guarantee it works.
There's a saying: if you're trying, but nothing's happening, then you're not trying hard enough. I also though university would be the perfect place to find a girlfriend, at least at first, but I soon found out it's the other way around. Just because there's a bigger variety, doesn't mean you'll get it, but there's definitely a bigger chance. Fortune for me, I got lucky and now I'm in a steady relationship with one of the girls from my group :) If you really want it, just keep trying and it will happen sooner or later. Cheers
2 weeks 3 days ago
Meeting someone you can actually connect with is a bit of a rare thing these days... Or maybe that's just me. Either way, the best advice i can give goes as follows:
Never be arrogant, but always be confident. Even those shy individuals of the world can exude some form of confidence.
Don't put up a false persona. Even though girls are always saying that they can spot a guy who's "fronting" "a mile away", that's not true. Being fake can work. However, what comes with lies and acting is a hollow, meaningless relationship. So just try to be yourself.
Let life take its course, try not to force it. That's not to say that you shouldn't put yourself out there and apply yourself. The best things in life take work, but will ultimately come naturally.
Try to hang in there.
Never be arrogant, but always be confident. Even those shy individuals of the world can exude some form of confidence.
Don't put up a false persona. Even though girls are always saying that they can spot a guy who's "fronting" "a mile away", that's not true. Being fake can work. However, what comes with lies and acting is a hollow, meaningless relationship. So just try to be yourself.
Let life take its course, try not to force it. That's not to say that you shouldn't put yourself out there and apply yourself. The best things in life take work, but will ultimately come naturally.
Try to hang in there.
2 weeks 2 days ago
Weelllzz, i have never been in that form of a relationship before, but mostly it's cuz the guys i know around me...are...i don't even know how to describe it nicely. But I'm a girl so I'll tell you that: If you sound desperate, you may sound creepy. And some girls don't like clingy guys too, so if you sound desperate, you might end up the clingy type. Or they may think you're just playing around. Also, try not to rush things^^ Like the others said, start out as friends for like, say...about at least a week or so. Then you might find out more about each other =) if all else fails, at least you've gained a new friend?Owo
Maybe you should ask them why they keep telling you that. I think you should reflect on why they keep rejecting you so you'll finally understand the situation and you'll know what to do next time.XD And after finding that out, you can ask us here in AP what else you want to know lol. Because, they wouldn't say that for no reason at all right? So I think the first thing you should do is find out why. Remember to be open to every reason and while thinking about it you should focus on what you did, what you said or how you acted when you talked to them. lol XD
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