Well, i've been thinking... there's should be a lot of people have their first love... same as me, my first love is on last year, but just wanna study now so just say to her got no time because want to study... and then... well, you should know that right? anyway, how about you guys? when is your first love and how was it been to? :) have a nice day!

I haven't had my first love. IN my opinion..it seems like a lot of people say that they've foudn their frst love..but they don't even really know what love is..or they just think that an attraction is love. BUt that's just my opinion. I can't really say that about you or anyone else in particular.

I know I haven't had mine because i'm going to think it over and really sort out my feelings before I say i've ever loved anyone. I think it's to important to just..throw around I guess.

Heh...my first love was 2 years ago...however as i got to know him more his attitude started to change..overprotective and yeah...decided to leave him alone...now im single and i guess its alright ^^ just a little piece of advice : just think about it if he suits you or not =)

Ive always said ..oh i love him, no wait i love this guy more,
but thats stupid of me coz i kno i really dont.my first love will have to be a person i cant live with for a day,
and if i go somewhere i wish he was always with me.
you can call theat obsessive but to truely find youre true love
you need to search real deep in youre heart and ask , is he truely the one i call my first love?
its sooo easy to use love in the wrong contexts

I had a my first love about three years ago
and it had a realy hard ending but you have to move on and stuff like that
but when i was with her
oh there is nothing in this world like love it makes you feel alive
and invigartaed and light hearted
it was an amazing and in a way scaring experience
i will never forget her and by the way
if you have your first love and she breaks your heart
you will never forget about her so dont even try
she will always have a part of you with her
or maybe thats just my experince or however you spell that

I haven't been in love yet and I'm not sure I would even recognise love when/if i find it for the first time.
There hasn't been anyone who ii've felt so connected or attached to that I want to spend forever with them.

I don't like having regrets and I know it is said that "it is better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all" but I'm not too sure on this... Things always change and happiness is fleeting... I don't want to be in a postion where I look back and wish for times as they once were.

Oh well, guess you can't make a judgement until you experience something right? Either way something/someone's gonna get hurt. What do those who have loved and lost think?

Maybe I'm just in the wrong mood to be posting about love? I spent the weekend watching Gankutsuou and cried for a while ^.^ now i feel a bit empty (read - souless)

posted by dravakius:
oh there is nothing in this world like love it makes you feel alive
and invigartaed and light hearted
it was an amazing and in a way scaring experience
i will never forget her and by the way
if you have your first love and she breaks your heart
you will never forget about her so dont even try
she will always have a part of you with her

Just like to mention that is a really lovely post dravakius :D very poetic - wants to make me give you a hug!

I have never experienced TRUE love before, and i don't think i ever will. All the guy's a meet, i don't know, always turn out to be real jerks, or they just don't seem to like me. I'm always the one being dumped >_<. But I'm still young, 14, ya..way to young, i have all the time in the world to fall in love..but just not right now, not ready. True love?? That is just so questionable to me. Yeah, anybody can easily say that they are in love with someone. But do they actually even know what love means? I know plenty of people who has said that they have fallen in love, and that they have truely found the right person, but then they break up a month later. Nothings perfect, i know we all want it to be, but this is reality. Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way. When someone loves you, the way the say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth. Love is when someone hurts you, and you get so mad, but you don't yell at them, because you know that it will hurt their feelings. When you tell something bad about yourself and your scared they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, they love you even more. *cough* very mushy mushy stuff...

i had a my first love about three years ago
and it had a realy hard ending but you have to move on and stuff like that
but when i was with her
oh there is nothing in this world like love it makes you feel alive
and invigartaed and light hearted
it was an amazing and in a way scaring experience
i will never forget her and by the way
if you have your first love and she breaks your heart
you will never forget about her so dont even try
she will always have a part of you with her
or maybe thats just my experince or however you spell that

awww..thats so cute!

Hmm nope, I can't say I have. I've never really liked anyone enough to love them before.

Hmm...for me, that was a while ago. since i go to a private school where the students live on campus in student homes of 13 girls/guys. and you always see the same people unless new students come. and you only go home on the holidays/vacations. it's sorta difficult to find someone you love here. but, i grew up with someone since first grade and he liked me ever since i came to the school (he was there before me) and we kept growing up and you know little kids are right? some just think, "ewww, love is icky!" or something like that. i was sorta like that as a child and couldn't realize how much he loved me. but then he left the school and i didn't kno where he was, like where he really lived. then i realized i lost someone that i really loved. he was different from other guys in my school. most guys here (in my school) are plain stupid. they go out with a girl, dump them, go out with the girl's friend. here, girls and guys just switch partners basicly and i'm not like that. so while i'm still in this school, and when some guy asks me out, i decline them unless i kno their intension isn't like the others (but i kno that people enough here that they aren't looking for a real realationship..most of them anyways). so, i'm single and waiting patiently for the mr. right to find me...hmmm...i think i'm making myself sad by thinking about the past...

i had a my first love about three years ago
and it had a realy hard ending but you have to move on and stuff like that
but when i was with her
oh there is nothing in this world like love it makes you feel alive
and invigartaed and light hearted
it was an amazing and in a way scaring experience
i will never forget her and by the way
if you have your first love and she breaks your heart
you will never forget about her so dont even try
she will always have a part of you with her
or maybe thats just my experince or however you spell that

aw.. that's sweet. anyway, no i never been in love. lol. that's probably cause i'm a geek, and nobody likes me. but... what do i know? i never had first love.

Aw, don't say that! i'm sure that everyone has that perfect someone out there in the world (unless there are people who doesn't like love and doesn't want anything to do with it)

hmmm...i think first loves are nice memories...

Thought I did, but I don't believe I ever had one...

i had a my first love about three years ago
and it had a realy hard ending but you have to move on and stuff like that
but when i was with her
oh there is nothing in this world like love it makes you feel alive
and invigartaed and light hearted
it was an amazing and in a way scaring experience
i will never forget her and by the way
if you have your first love and she breaks your heart
you will never forget about her so dont even try
she will always have a part of you with her
or maybe thats just my experince or however you spell that

That's beautiful dude... Simpely beautiful and thoughtful

My first love is the relationship Im in right now. How can I tell? Well it's just there the feelings there. You can't ever describe it. It's just like whatever that person feels you feel it too ya know? Like when he crys it makes you want to cry also. It's just deep. No other way to say it.

It's not until you actually fall in love that you realize you never were in love before. The concept is so hyped up that people think they love everyone they're involved in. When it actually hits you, you know. It's the kind of thing that can (and probably should) only truly happen a few times in a lifetime.

Yeah, I have. That's really all I'm going to say.

I will say this, though:

I don't like having regrets and I know it is said that "it is better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all" but I'm not too sure on this... Things always change and happiness is fleeting... I don't want to be in a postion where I look back and wish for times as they once were.

That was well-put, and I agree. I've had too much experience with being hurt, I'm growing accustomed to the thought it's better not to even try.