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What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty  3 weeks 3 days  ago

What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty 3 weeks 3 days ago

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Not too much for me to say about this wallpaper that hasn't already been said: Dalarty has provided a descriptive walk through all the way from the concept idea, to its execution and ultimately its fruition. And you can really see how that careful planning paid off. But it just goes to show, good ideas take time---and a whole lot of patience!

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°akiranyo 11 minutes ago
SB is a way too quiet today

~Transparency 1 hour 45 minutes ago
Ji Ji Ji Ji Unit!

~futaridejuunishi 2 hours 42 minutes ago
Bernouli, don't attaches to brad D:

$Poey 4 hours 19 minutes ago
Gotta watch out for Berns... they'll get you good if you're not paying attention.

^hatesyou 4 hours 24 minutes ago
Head crab?

`Bernouli 4 hours 29 minutes ago
*scurries away*

$Poey 4 hours 33 minutes ago
*gets out crowbar

`Bernouli 4 hours 37 minutes ago
*attaches to brad*

°Brad-M13 5 hours 25 minutes ago
Replied again. lol.

°akiranyo 5 hours 27 minutes ago
Again pls :P

who the one you will choose ???

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~Hina-Homa
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_Beyond The Darkness of The Night_
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1 year 4 months ago
Well

1st: Your parent and your lover!who will you choose ?

I think the one that's i'm most important and love me cauz

I'm what I'm

2nd:if you have only a chance to choose, what will you do ?

I will choose no one...i will go somewhere...away for them...

Cauz when I'm for both of them important...they will accept

That's i love my lover and in a way my parent's...

3rd:for some reason in future you have to choose one of them, then who is the

most important to you ?

well like i said...if i where important they will accept that's i love them

my parents and my lover...they are for me in there own way important and

the feel of love is of course different...

4th:how about you ?

in the end i think if they won't accept that's I love them in a different way

i will go away...from both side [that's mean: parent's AND lover]

i think this isn't correct [i know this is wrong...] but if there no way

then i will do that's

so and the end:

like vyvit said :

how about you?

HiNa

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~Lolly
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オタク
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1 year 4 months ago
The outcome will be obvious... 80% of most people will choose their parents and 20% will probably choose their lover. Your parents are the only people that care more about you then your lover, so choosing your parent will be a wise decision. Your lover can dump you. You can dump him/her. You can get fed up of all their nonsense. There's more negativity surrounding a lover then your parent.

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~Fawna
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one GIRL ReVOLUTION
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1 year 4 months ago
Lol, like Lolly said, I would definitely choose my parents. I guess it depends on the person and the environment that they grew up in. I haven't ever loved anyone like that before. My mommy would definitely unconditionally love me. Boys come and go.

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~KosmikFunkSquad
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Hope is a waking dream...
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1 year 4 months ago
I really wish that I could choose neither, and I'll explain why. As humans, we are the only mammals who spend more time with their parents than any other, depending on them to nurture us until we leave high school. I am not certain what age this decision would take place, but either way both decisions could lead to poor results.

If you choose your parents, then a slight urge of dependency will be present, but if you choose your lover, then there is a possibility that he/she may leave you.

In essence, if you are of an age where living on your own is possible, choose neither.

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~etoile
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~Sit ei terra levis~
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1 year 4 months ago


I agree with you, I think I'd choose neither, because it's very painful if someone says: "I or your parents" or your parents say "Him or us". I wouldn't really know what to do, so hope I'll never get in that situation :/

~LeakingBlood
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1 year 4 months ago
I choose my lover, knowing that my parents will always choose me ^^

..also of course it depends on where you are in life.

~monwren5
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1 year 4 months ago
Ya, its a good thing i never have to make such a decision. That said, i think i would choose my lover. I'm suer my parents would want it that way anyway.

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~Kareshi
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The Plotmeister
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1 year 3 months ago
It depends on the situation. Why must I choose one? Is this my parents warning me to leave my lover? If that is the case, I would ask them why and listen carefully to their advice. I respect them and have learned to appreciate their wisdom. Still, I would not blindly end our relationship without doing some proper investigating first.

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~elleztim
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Welcome to Nightmare
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1 year 3 months ago
I'll choose my lover. anyway, that's how they taught me, the way they want me to be. to be strong in choosing the one which will make me happy. anyways, my parents will understand or they maybe even proud of doing that for standing for what i love.

but under circumstances, everything will be different, often we are tied with responsibilities. but being strong for the person you love is one of the most important responsibility a person will ever have.

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~splitthebreak
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1 year 3 months ago
Been there, done that. i chose my lover.

~JKoopman
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1 year 3 months ago
Anyone who would choose their parents has obviously never experienced real love. Love is more important than anything else. Obviously I'd choose my parents over some fling that might only last a month, but for true love... there's no question.

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~devilswing5
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1 year 3 months ago
Interesting question if I was force to choose one of them my lover or my parents hmm.............................................. 48 yrs later hmmm..........................................80yrs. ................................... darn cant think who I choose to be with.

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~iced-wings
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Shin. no. Heart.
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1 year 3 months ago
Well for me neither of the two.i choose my friends..
well bcoz im not really experienced anything about my parents. i mean we really have uneasy relationship...

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~mysteriousrose
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1 year 3 months ago
*thinks*
It depends upon the situation. :)
Right now, if that would happen to me, I'll choose my parents. Yeah, I know, if it's true love ( yak!), it'll really hurt me. :'c
But, if Im on the right age, I'll choose both of 'em. :)
It's hard to give up either one of them. Because you love these people.

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~joeyzj
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1 year 3 months ago
Parents. You can always dump your lover. but you cannot dump your parents.