who the one you will choose ???
Well
1st: Your parent and your lover!who will you choose ?
I think the one that's i'm most important and love me cauz
I'm what I'm
2nd:if you have only a chance to choose, what will you do ?
I will choose no one...i will go somewhere...away for them...
Cauz when I'm for both of them important...they will accept
That's i love my lover and in a way my parent's...
3rd:for some reason in future you have to choose one of them, then who is the
most important to you ?
well like i said...if i where important they will accept that's i love them
my parents and my lover...they are for me in there own way important and
the feel of love is of course different...
4th:how about you ?
in the end i think if they won't accept that's I love them in a different way
i will go away...from both side [that's mean: parent's AND lover]
i think this isn't correct [i know this is wrong...] but if there no way
then i will do that's
so and the end:
like vyvit said :
how about you?
HiNa
1st: Your parent and your lover!who will you choose ?
I think the one that's i'm most important and love me cauz
I'm what I'm
2nd:if you have only a chance to choose, what will you do ?
I will choose no one...i will go somewhere...away for them...
Cauz when I'm for both of them important...they will accept
That's i love my lover and in a way my parent's...
3rd:for some reason in future you have to choose one of them, then who is the
most important to you ?
well like i said...if i where important they will accept that's i love them
my parents and my lover...they are for me in there own way important and
the feel of love is of course different...
4th:how about you ?
in the end i think if they won't accept that's I love them in a different way
i will go away...from both side [that's mean: parent's AND lover]
i think this isn't correct [i know this is wrong...] but if there no way
then i will do that's
so and the end:
like vyvit said :
how about you?
HiNa
The outcome will be obvious... 80% of most people will choose their parents and 20% will probably choose their lover. Your parents are the only people that care more about you then your lover, so choosing your parent will be a wise decision. Your lover can dump you. You can dump him/her. You can get fed up of all their nonsense. There's more negativity surrounding a lover then your parent.
Lol, like Lolly said, I would definitely choose my parents. I guess it depends on the person and the environment that they grew up in. I haven't ever loved anyone like that before. My mommy would definitely unconditionally love me. Boys come and go.
I really wish that I could choose neither, and I'll explain why. As humans, we are the only mammals who spend more time with their parents than any other, depending on them to nurture us until we leave high school. I am not certain what age this decision would take place, but either way both decisions could lead to poor results.
If you choose your parents, then a slight urge of dependency will be present, but if you choose your lover, then there is a possibility that he/she may leave you.
In essence, if you are of an age where living on your own is possible, choose neither.
If you choose your parents, then a slight urge of dependency will be present, but if you choose your lover, then there is a possibility that he/she may leave you.
In essence, if you are of an age where living on your own is possible, choose neither.
I agree with you, I think I'd choose neither, because it's very painful if someone says: "I or your parents" or your parents say "Him or us". I wouldn't really know what to do, so hope I'll never get in that situation :/
1 year 4 months ago
I choose my lover, knowing that my parents will always choose me ^^
..also of course it depends on where you are in life.
..also of course it depends on where you are in life.
1 year 4 months ago
Ya, its a good thing i never have to make such a decision. That said, i think i would choose my lover. I'm suer my parents would want it that way anyway.
It depends on the situation. Why must I choose one? Is this my parents warning me to leave my lover? If that is the case, I would ask them why and listen carefully to their advice. I respect them and have learned to appreciate their wisdom. Still, I would not blindly end our relationship without doing some proper investigating first.
I'll choose my lover. anyway, that's how they taught me, the way they want me to be. to be strong in choosing the one which will make me happy. anyways, my parents will understand or they maybe even proud of doing that for standing for what i love.
but under circumstances, everything will be different, often we are tied with responsibilities. but being strong for the person you love is one of the most important responsibility a person will ever have.
but under circumstances, everything will be different, often we are tied with responsibilities. but being strong for the person you love is one of the most important responsibility a person will ever have.
Been there, done that. i chose my lover.
1 year 3 months ago
Anyone who would choose their parents has obviously never experienced real love. Love is more important than anything else. Obviously I'd choose my parents over some fling that might only last a month, but for true love... there's no question.
Interesting question if I was force to choose one of them my lover or my parents hmm.............................................. 48 yrs later hmmm..........................................80yrs. ................................... darn cant think who I choose to be with.
Well for me neither of the two.i choose my friends..
well bcoz im not really experienced anything about my parents. i mean we really have uneasy relationship...
well bcoz im not really experienced anything about my parents. i mean we really have uneasy relationship...
*thinks*
It depends upon the situation. :)
Right now, if that would happen to me, I'll choose my parents. Yeah, I know, if it's true love ( yak!), it'll really hurt me. :'c
But, if Im on the right age, I'll choose both of 'em. :)
It's hard to give up either one of them. Because you love these people.
It depends upon the situation. :)
Right now, if that would happen to me, I'll choose my parents. Yeah, I know, if it's true love ( yak!), it'll really hurt me. :'c
But, if Im on the right age, I'll choose both of 'em. :)
It's hard to give up either one of them. Because you love these people.
#653475 Quote Report Edited by ~mysteriousrose 1 year 3 months ago
Parents. You can always dump your lover. but you cannot dump your parents.










