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Love: Are men really bad at it?
I always hear...men are the ones who are in fault when it comes to relationships and love...All they care about is getting laid...So does that mean that men are the ones who are in fault?
Men have a tendency to have sexual needs. Women tend to have emotional needs. Men who only think about sex are perverts...but what about women who only think about emotional needs?
What are your thoughts? Is it really that a lot of break ups in marraiges and relationships is because of men? Is it really that hard for women to find love?
Men have a tendency to have sexual needs. Women tend to have emotional needs. Men who only think about sex are perverts...but what about women who only think about emotional needs?
What are your thoughts? Is it really that a lot of break ups in marraiges and relationships is because of men? Is it really that hard for women to find love?
Its a stereotype......both people are at fault...and both should share equal blame.....it takes 2 to have sex.....most relationships break up because of lack of communication......and that is also the fault of both members......
2 years 10 months ago
Once I get into another relationship I will get back to you.
VietBoiTinits a stereotype......both people are at fault...and both should share equal blame.....it takes 2 to have sex.....most relationships break up because of lack of communication......and that is also the fault of both members......
Agree with you...
If a couple break up it is not necessary the fault of one of them...
It does not mean that men are bad at love... it could be the opposite!
Emotional needs are not only for women!
We all need love, support and tenderness at some moments (if not all the time!)
Chire, Senbonzakura
2 years 10 months ago
I agree with the others, specially the part about it being a stereotype.
i personally don't think guys are at fault because they want sex so much, it's their lack of judgement that usually gets them into trouble. which is odd because between men and women, men are usually more logically minded. i would have to say that a good 85% of breakups are due to lack of communication and patience. but seriously dude, women have almost 0% control of their emotions, and lets not even talk about pms. depending on the chick it's probably a good idea to stay clear until things are back to "normal". (small note to all guys: woman are easily offended and usually don't forget a real or imagined slight)
it's real hard when people are so different from eachother, specially men/women, i guess it just really depends on the situation. and don't forget that you have to look for the right person to match you. if you're a womanizer then why even bother settling down with someone. some women are more emotional than others: look for the signs before getting too serious with her and she turns out to be pyscho.
well, that was my two cents. more like 3 or 4 :P
i personally don't think guys are at fault because they want sex so much, it's their lack of judgement that usually gets them into trouble. which is odd because between men and women, men are usually more logically minded. i would have to say that a good 85% of breakups are due to lack of communication and patience. but seriously dude, women have almost 0% control of their emotions, and lets not even talk about pms. depending on the chick it's probably a good idea to stay clear until things are back to "normal". (small note to all guys: woman are easily offended and usually don't forget a real or imagined slight)
it's real hard when people are so different from eachother, specially men/women, i guess it just really depends on the situation. and don't forget that you have to look for the right person to match you. if you're a womanizer then why even bother settling down with someone. some women are more emotional than others: look for the signs before getting too serious with her and she turns out to be pyscho.
well, that was my two cents. more like 3 or 4 :P
Lately i've start to think that it's hard to find love but...for a men. What you say is really a stereotype.
I know a lot of couple where the one who's always thinking about sex and have sexuel needs is the women.
The stereotype is" Men = sex / Women = Emotion " but i think there is more emotional man than what women can think.
I know a lot of couple where the one who's always thinking about sex and have sexuel needs is the women.
The stereotype is" Men = sex / Women = Emotion " but i think there is more emotional man than what women can think.
That is just a old stereotype. Both men and women can be blamed when relationships end. Well that and meddle some family members. XP
VietBoiTinits a stereotype......both people are at fault...and both should share equal blame.....it takes 2 to have sex.....most relationships break up because of lack of communication......and that is also the fault of both members......
I couldn't have said it better myself. If you lok at relationships objectively both parties have similar standards, they want honesty, faithfullness, respect and reliabilty. Very basic needs. But I personally think that the ways that people defile relationships are sculpted by society. People who are going to hurt others already have it in them to do so. But our societies tell us the ways that are acceptable. A lot of people would say that cheating is unacceptable but the undertones (and overtones) is society make it seem perfectly acceptable and almost expected of men to cheat. Like it will add to thier masculinity if they think they need multiple partners. It all seems very brutish and ignorant, the standards that are set forth for people to live by. IE; women want a man that will pay for whatever they want and men want a trophy girlfriend to show status... why don't we just go back to living in the trees already? Popular media makes it seem acceptable that women need to be finacially lavished at all times to be happy, last time I checked that was a prositute not a woman. And a man that cannot discipline himself and is without will power is not a man at all just a child trying to take what they want and not acknowledging others. Our society has set some pathetic standards indded.
No thats not fair to say they're just sex hounds. 8D I have quite a few guy friends that I beat in the sex drive department! And besides there are alot of really nice guys. Most girls(XD or boys) who can't find a nice guy aren't looking in the right places or are attracted to jackasses. Turst me. It happens.
2 years 10 months ago
Lol you said it fooblued! :)
Na men are not bad at loving in general, its certain men, those who are
not comitted and not true to their woman... its a sad thign but i hate all
the men out there who play women, its not kewl, they represent the male gender
and society only sees their faults, society doesnt see the good guys and the men who
know how to love
not comitted and not true to their woman... its a sad thign but i hate all
the men out there who play women, its not kewl, they represent the male gender
and society only sees their faults, society doesnt see the good guys and the men who
know how to love
It is nice
I'd be lucky to get any girl to like me. I have never had a relationship in my life. I always put my friends before me. Anyway I'm too crazy to get a girl.
So, it doesn't mean men are bad at it, some of them just need to feel the pain before they can embrace the concept. like me T_T.
So, it doesn't mean men are bad at it, some of them just need to feel the pain before they can embrace the concept. like me T_T.
2 years 10 months ago
yeah at times guys do at times just care about sex
but i mean there are some people that are the exception to this
but that easier said than found ...
but i mean there are some people that are the exception to this
but that easier said than found ...
To know what the future brings take away all the fun in figuring out what you will do and who will stay with you to the end
Yea unforutanely, its hard to find a nice guy, my galfrends say i'm nice
but you guys wouldnt noe that, keep lookin girls da rite guy is out der
wow rath wat you said was so deep, yea your rite but some people i noe, who i hate
don feel pain or den don relaize the pain they give to others, it pisses me off
i wish there werent any people in the world like that =(
but you guys wouldnt noe that, keep lookin girls da rite guy is out der
wow rath wat you said was so deep, yea your rite but some people i noe, who i hate
don feel pain or den don relaize the pain they give to others, it pisses me off
i wish there werent any people in the world like that =(
It is nice
That doesn't mean I'm going mushy on you guys. That will be one of those few exceptions of deep sayings from me. Anyway, some might never learn.