Well heres the scenario:

You think this guy is cute and wouldn't mind going out with him BUT you found out he is friends with this bitch who hates you!

Would you go out with him??

Btw, i just want to say thanks to everyone that has replied to my other thread.

Hmm, if the other girl doesn't bother you a lot when you're going out with him, it may be okay, but it doesn't kind of bother me still. I would stay in the relationship and see how it works out, if the other girl starts messing around between the two of you try to get the guy to ignore her.

Go for it, if I was that guy, I would not let that girl get in the way.

I'd say that if you avoid him just because of her, then you have no confidence and need to stay away from the dating scene all together until you've got a grip on yourself.

But, she shouldn't be able to get in the way at all if he really likes you. And, if she does, then the relationship wasn't really worth it anyway.

You basically said it all. It's a friend. Generally, most people take the advice of friends, but aren't foolish enough to let something like that get in the way of their life. Honestly, I'd be more concerned about how he feels about you, rather than his friend. After all, you'd be dating him, not his friend.

I guess the big thing is going to come down to what you want to do. Obviously, I'm not familiar with either of the individuals or the situation, so I can't exactly say if something like that would escalate into a huge drama fest, or if it wouldn't be that big of a deal. I'd weigh out the options and your feelings for him as well as how close of a friend he is to the girl that doesn't think kindly of you. If he's the type of guy who won't let something like that ruin his chance at going out with someone, go for it. Though, if he's the type to sway his opinion because of a friend, then I wouldn't even bother.

Just my two cents. I apologize if I come off as harsh too =S.

Er, for me it would depend on several factors. First is the type of relationship between the said guy and the 'bitch'. Are they very close or just normal friends? If it's the former, I would advise you to go and get another guy because the girl might try to drive a wedge between you and the guy. However, you should go for it if they are just normal friends, because the possibility of the girl snitching on you is less, and the guy probably won't listen to it~

Second, it depends on how much you like the guy. If you really like him that much, you should go for it no matter what obstacles are in the way. But if it's just a normal crush or something like that, I personally would not go to the trouble of getting him

Anyway, it's just my thoughts on this topic. The most important thing is to think of the consequences first, and then follow what your heart says~

I think you should be able to see whoever you want, regardless of who they're friends with. Then again, if she's a really close friend of his, and she's around him so much that it's difficult for you to spend any time with him without feeling uncomfortable, it might get to be a little bit awkward...

I'd say it's worth a try. If the guy is really worth anything, he won't let another friendship come in between him and someone that he really likes and wants to date. If he lets her get in your way too much, he's probably not worth dating anyway... That's my opinion.

Well.. I will stay away from him! Well, He friend with the enemy, and I'm sure to have a problem just by hanging out with him, coz he may became someone who will BACKSTAB US!! That's a problem.. Specially if that guy is really close to that girl.. It's a real trouble if you still stick near him! If I was a girl, I will really stay away from it.. But, I think it's ok if just friend, not love mate..

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