What do you prefer - chats (forums) or real contacts?
Personally i like associate with real people
i think it's more interesting, but in chats i can always
say truth, cuz' i feel safety^_^
i think it's more interesting, but in chats i can always
say truth, cuz' i feel safety^_^
Forums because Im incapable of speaking to people directly. Im either at a loss of words or shyness/antisocial behavior/reluctance to have eye contact, etc ruins it. Plus I write 10x better than I can speak. You wouldnt be able to tell I was the same person listening to me speak and then reviewing my writing. Also, I really, really, like to stare at the floor when I speak to people, walk, etc. So yes, your point on safety (questionable choice of word...) and no fear of complete strangers listening to one's bs is great too.
#212240 Quote Report Edited by `puppychow16 2 years 10 months ago
You're just like me puppychow. I get nervous talking to one person D: I'm so shy. On the forums I can pretty much say everything I need to say
I would have to say(cause the guy behind me has a knife) on the forms or an instant messanger cause it is easyer to say stuff when it doesent matter cause most of the people your not even going to meet, but you also lern more about someone in person like the way they realy react or are like on the outside cause people myt say its whats in the inside that counts but other use there appearance for show :)
I prefer talking to real people.. it's more funny than just writing.
but here, posting in a forum, i feel more safe.. or something like that o_o
but here, posting in a forum, i feel more safe.. or something like that o_o
I would like to meet people in real person because it gives you to meet people from all over and learn new things
Although I like to see the person who I'me talking to, I prefer talking on forums or chatting more, because I can speak more freely.
In real contacts I feel a little bit unsure and uncomfortable, because I don't want to make any mistake when I speak or behave which make me get to look stupid (I'me to shy for my age).
In real contacts I feel a little bit unsure and uncomfortable, because I don't want to make any mistake when I speak or behave which make me get to look stupid (I'me to shy for my age).
Mmm..maybe forums because you can say whatever you want here and im really shy talking with real people if its the firt time i meet them. Beside in the real world there is people that point you like you were a little kid watching cartoons just because you love anime, and that discriminate you for many reasons. But sometimes i would like to meet some people that are here for real.. and talk more with them and hagging aroung and all those stuffs that you do with friends. my conclution.. both are ok.
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Forums because Im incapable of speaking to people directly. Im either at a loss of words or shyness/antisocial behavior/reluctance to have eye contact, etc ruins it. Plus I write 10x better than I can speak. You wouldnt be able to tell I was the same person listening to me speak and then reviewing my writing. Also, I really, really, like to stare at the floor when I speak to people, walk, etc. So yes, your point on safety (questionable choice of word...) and no fear of complete strangers listening to one's bs is great too.
i would have to disagree with u..i prefer real contacts to me its just funnetr and the other person cant lie about nething
Forums because I'm not too good with people in real life^^"
Forums/chats...
I'm confident in my English, except for conversation...
I should take more English course for conversation... -_-
I'm confident in my English, except for conversation...
I should take more English course for conversation... -_-
Both i like both, chatting, you can say things you cant say in person, lol flirt for example
but real communication you have more connection nd you cant tell certian things online
u need to say certain things in person, like cinfessing love for example, you cant tell some1 you love them
online! its not rite
but real communication you have more connection nd you cant tell certian things online
u need to say certain things in person, like cinfessing love for example, you cant tell some1 you love them
online! its not rite
Like mr zerosamurai
i like both
besides, most of the forums i frequent usually end up in 'meets' (mostly car forums)
chats/forums just makes the initial 'contact' easier plus ongoing communication is better
then the face to face makes it more interesting
i like both
besides, most of the forums i frequent usually end up in 'meets' (mostly car forums)
chats/forums just makes the initial 'contact' easier plus ongoing communication is better
then the face to face makes it more interesting
For me it would depend. I can do well with talking with people in real life.. but I also don't mind forums.. I guess I would have to know the person to talk with them either online or on the forum..
2 years 10 months ago
Forum can usually has more people read about what you say. For the chating, it is instant, if some one miss it, then he/she wound see it again. Also chating is abit too waste time, easy to spend hours for some not important topic, and you can't skip.....
Also Forum is every good for idea / opinion sharing. You can easly find the same type of the person as you are by readding what they said, and then you can reply the message and share your own idea / opinion.
On the technical side, forum support seaching, you can find what you want faster.
Also Forum is every good for idea / opinion sharing. You can easly find the same type of the person as you are by readding what they said, and then you can reply the message and share your own idea / opinion.
On the technical side, forum support seaching, you can find what you want faster.
















