Hello everyone!

Yes, mean girls. Or in other words; 'girl bullies'. I have noticed these 'girl bullies' and their 'activities' not just in my school, but between siblings and a few other places aswell.

I have seen that when a girl bullies someone, mainly a boy, it usually has more 'impact' then a boy bullying a boy. They tend to take the 'hurt with a rose' route. They don't bully in a rash manner or anything like the boys would do. But even worse, they target the feelings of their 'victim'. With words only.

In a quite a sophistically sarcastic manner they make their 'attack'!
They have 'fun' in both cases. I mean, regardless of the 'victim' understanding their 'pun' or not, they have a laugh. And laughing at the cost of that person just might not be the same amount of fun for him, that the girls have.

At times, it hurts a person very deeply. But at times, it is taken in a light mood by the boy or the 'victim' aswell. The 'effect' depends largely on the sense of humour and the mentality of the 'victim'.

But my question is: How or why is it that the girl bully is more dangerous than the boy bully?
Have you experienced it?? (Answering this particular question is completely upto your discretion)
Is it really all that 'dangerous'??
Why is it that the words of a girl have greater influence on a person?? Good or bad.

Have you been the bully at anytime??

I myself have not been bullied seriously. Not yet atleast!! <_<.....>_> [] I have made this thread based on the observation i made on the other boys.

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Please note: I have not created this thread to bring offense to any individual. And it's prupose is not against girls or anything like that.
This is just something that i have noticed and some questions that have come into my weird head @_@

That is all.

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Warmest regards,
The Firestorm

(P.S. If this thread is not proper. If it is offensive or anything like that, then please do tell me. I will transform a completely different thread. With a different topic of discussion. (<---Being the host, i can edit the topic tittle and subtittle along with the whole content of the thread :P)

Please forgive me if i have made a mistake with this thread. I, by no means, want to bring any kind of harm to any person on purpose, at any time.)

It's always so weird for me to hear about bullying and picking on people. When I was in high school I spent most of my time alone but no one picked on me or bothered me.

There's girls like that all time at my old skool i even have a mean girl...friend she picks on me and calls me stupid.

You're just a pussy. stop being a pussy.

ShadowKemist

you're just a pussy. stop being a pussy.

Hmmm....maybe not. :P
I have not been bullied very seriously or anything like that. I have been a little bit. But thats alright.

I have mainly based this thread on the observation i made towards the other boys. And some of them were seriously bullied. One of them didn't even come to school for like... 3 weeeks or something!! !_! And later i got to find out that it was because of the bullying...

Some of the girls who was bullied by the 'mean girls' sometimes end up with something serious by suiciding themself or became anorexia or somethin like that. I have been bullied twice. The first time I was in Grade 5 and I was so sad and scared and didn't dared to make any friends but then some of the friends stopped bullying me and became my friend again. Then the second time I was also in Grade 5. This happended when the same BITCH that started bullying me the first time entered my group of friends and decided that she would be the leader and fire everyone out...then this comes to the part that I'm not scared of her anymore...I created another group of friends (that is the same person that the BITCH fired out of the group)
NOTE: She fired everybody until she was left alone.
My friends started to bully the BITCH back and she was so depressed because she was never been bullied before that she changed school and left for Perth, Australia. Serve the BITCH right.

Lolz...other people treats yer badly, doesn't mean you hav to treat them ad as well. I think mental abuse is more deadly than other abuse, like wat Bully girls does...(just wat I think...) Some may even mess with thier victim's feelings...If their victim can't sustain the damage they cause, thier victim will bcom mentally ill instead. Some may lead to suicide... SO, please stop it! No offense, but just an advice.

But my question is: How or why is it that the girl bully is more dangerous than the boy bully?
Have you experienced it?? (Answering this particular question is completely upto your discretion)
Is it really all that 'dangerous'??
Why is it that the words of a girl have greater influence on a person?? Good or bad.

Have you been the bully at anytime??

Maybe the girl bully is more dangerous because, yes, she uses words, and those can cut deeper. And also, usually it's the girls who're being bullied, so if a girl bullies a guy, even if she started it, there's a greater chance that it's the guy who'll get blamed...
Girls don't bully me, probably because I'm a bit of a girl bully myself. XD I say "a bit" because (frankly) I'm usually a nice kid, but when I get annoyed, I can make other people cry just by saying certain things to them.

To me neither is worse than the others since no matter who if they agrivate me i will subdue them in more ways than just physically but mentally also. but I only use that after i reach my tolerance level othewise Im just your normal everyday nerd (kinda). Im not the type that allows myself to be bullied since Im a very impatient person and the person interferes with my otherwise perfect daily schedule.

ShadowKemist

you're just a pussy. stop being a pussy.

I often agree
if you can get hurt by words, you are quite weak.
I dont wanna sound chavinist, but girls like this, I would slap them silly and teach them rough manners, you wanna play like a hardcore player? You gotta learn the trade, face it, you aint as hardcore as me. When I do stuff, people don't cry, they pay me to stop. When these girls can make that happen, i will admit they have a little knowledge from being a b*tch.

I mean face it, there hasn't been a teacher who got so scared of me, he pays me to stop coming to his place and placing a "curse" on his daughther (which had an affair with me some time ago). Details to what I did to "bully" this dude is secret as it is considered a crime.

I mean, not just words, I swore I did some terrible things in my life and these girls whatever they take, words for the stick or the wood, that throws unto a target, they are nothing.

I say, if a guy can get hurt and did not come to school so he would cower in one corner of his room to cry and whine, should be left there, and become useless. You are better off cutting it off so you can have a better life as the opposite sex. Heck, you ever seen a high school student running from Police across town in a chase? <--- me

fire

But my question is: How or why is it that the girl bully is more dangerous than the boy bully?
Have you experienced it?? (Answering this particular question is completely upto your discretion)
Is it really all that 'dangerous'??
Why is it that the words of a girl have greater influence on a person?? Good or bad.

Have you been the bully at anytime??

but then again, gender carries no matter, just because you use a different weapon doesn't make you any tougher, being a bully is bad thing, and that doesnt change. How is it dangerous? nothing until someone decides to take out the gun, I would say it is just temporary emotional drama/trauma.

Oh yes, they tried pushing me off the top, pressuring me to give up my styles, and resolve to the next in charge, cause he has a bigger support, in the end, it was a separated bully attempt, that took the cake and eveyrone gave up. I included after a police interference and some lessons in how to live a life as a person.

Why is it a girl's words is more influential? No lol, never, say whatever you want B*tch, by the end of this you gonna beg for me to stop with my words.

Bullying IMO, can only be done if there is a Status Quo, provided that the bullied have some weakness being held by bully, if not, it cant happen, and yeah, I always have my cards right, especially in dealing with gang violence.

wingss

Some of the girls who was bullied by the 'mean girls' sometimes end up with something serious by suiciding themself or became anorexia or somethin like that. I have been bullied twice. The first time I was in Grade 5 and I was so sad and scared and didn't dared to make any friends but then some of the friends stopped bullying me and became my friend again. Then the second time I was also in Grade 5. This happended when the same BITCH that started bullying me the first time entered my group of friends and decided that she would be the leader and fire everyone out...then this comes to the part that I'm not scared of her anymore...I created another group of friends (that is the same person that the BITCH fired out of the group)
NOTE: She fired everybody until she was left alone.
My friends started to bully the BITCH back and she was so depressed because she was never been bullied before that she changed school and left for Perth, Australia. Serve the BITCH right.

i guess the lesson here is "do not do unto others, what you dont want them to do unto you." hehehehe... they're just being a bitch. if you've been being bullied, why not do to them. just don't mind what she's saying and fight back.

There are girls like that, the "mean" type. I have experienced being bullied by those kind of girls, but, huh, I don't care what they say, what they want do with their lives. They wan't to criticize how I look? I don't care what people think, especially THOSE kind of people. If I look weird to them, then how would they call their selves? I take myself as an example eventhough I am a girl, because I do think that both kind of bullying either from a girl or a boy are just the same.

I do not agree that girls give more dangerous attacks than those from boys. It is a matter of emotional maturity, how people handle these kind of experiences. I do believe that "words", from those kind of people are just trash. They just want to get attention, and you are his/her means of getting that attention.

It depends on what stage of maturity that person is in. If a person is at his/her adolescent years, then it is a big part of that person's emotional health. I could say it gives a big impact. Why? It is because, during those years of adolescence, "peer group" is one of how teens socialize and develop self confidence.

"Mean" girls act like that, because they want to attract attention from the people around them. They want to be popular, and be known, like they stand out from the crowd.

As your example fire, with those depressed victims, it is because they are not capable of handling those kinds of treatment. The reason is that, during those years most teens want to be accepted in the social circle they are in. Being treated meanly would surely give them a view of society as dangerous. That is the reason for them to be anti-social, depressed and worst, suicide.

On the other side, those kind of acts, the "mean" ones from girls don't really apply to those persons who are mature enough to handle things. Why? It is because, when a person had already arrived at his/her maturity, it is the time where he/she had already established self IDENTITY. That established identity what makes a person emotionally healthy or stable. So, even how sharp those words come, wanting to pin you, it would only turn into ash as it gets near you.

(^o^)
Jane

P.S
Is this the thread you were talking about fire? Ow, O.o, I and clarings were being mean? We were just teasing you with AG.^^ *evil laugh*

Yeah, your right jane! not the left. you must know about her, you must dont know... thats jane... a fighter! go! fight fight!

Mean girls eh? If I see girls like that I want them to know that they do not own the world. When I see girls like that I will not hesitate to make them cry and will fight them back for good and for protecting the bullied as well.

Words will hurt more (for a guy being bullied by a girl) because boys are generally shallow. Physically and mentally, we're quite robust, but say something like "you have a small pee-pee", more often than not we get beyond offended.
As for myself being bullied, yes, by some male peers but I was always able to end the bullying by means of quick retaliation through excessive means of violence. Sometimes it doesn't even have to get violent, just tell the person that you will retaliate if the person doesn't stop (and show the person just what or how it is you are to lash back at them), just to give them fair warning that you are indeed about to snap. Lines like "I will jam this pencil into your stomach, eraser tip first" or "I will shoot you five times on the head" said with a straight face and a quick show of the prop worked for me without actually doing them.