Have you ever violated your parents trust?
Yes, unfortunately I had many times. When I was 12, I went with my friend to make 2 piercings on each of our ears (besides the ones we had; 1 on each ear). My parents strictly forbade me to do that, but I still did it just to "fit in." I tried hiding it, but they eventually found out and the piercings of my friend and I had eventually closed. xP My friend was grounded and I was grounded for 2 months. So my parents don't trust me from that day till now.
3 years 4 months ago
Ahhh dude i know how you feel. i violated my mom and dad's trust LOTS of times man, its horrible. but now since ive been a little good child and act how i am supposed to now, they buy me stuff. YAY! hehe. well all i need to do to gain trust back is just being good and do what i am told when i do something bad bad ^_~
They dont really trust me on little things. . .particularly if i say "ill work it off after you get me this", lol
My parents are just plain strict. I have limited freedom and very little say in most situations. Over the years, they kept questioning me why I keep changing and supposedly blinding myself. They obviously don't know, or at least I don't think they know. They don't trust me still and I am one year away from graduating. I'm afraid that they'll make me call them every night in campus when I leave. Parents... blahhh
Blinding yourself? by doing what?
my parents arent all that strict. .. just overprotective; especially of *ahem* stuff. . . and im 17! 6th graders know more about *ahem* than me. . .
my parents arent all that strict. .. just overprotective; especially of *ahem* stuff. . . and im 17! 6th graders know more about *ahem* than me. . .
They think I am trailing off on my future goals. I told them that change is necessary and that certain things may not go the way they want them to and that I would make adjustments according to what I need to achieve. It's unfortunate that whenever they're home, I'm always on the computer or I'm watching television. I'm always caught doing things and as the older brother, I get the blame most of the time. And about those "ahem" stuff, LOL, I just help myself and whenever my parents are around, I show them how mature I am and not let those silly "ahem" stuff bother me.
Afraid of change. . . sounds like my dad. . .
my dad is OCD and ADD, my mom is ADHD, and im Aspergers/ADD/OCD. . . i got a taste of everything,
LMAO
my dad is OCD and ADD, my mom is ADHD, and im Aspergers/ADD/OCD. . . i got a taste of everything,
LMAO
That's a lot of disorders, haha.
What kind of OCD? I have the overly generic "need to be clean" kind, which saddens me with its common-ness but you can't really pick, haha.
What kind of OCD? I have the overly generic "need to be clean" kind, which saddens me with its common-ness but you can't really pick, haha.
Trust? what trust? they never "trusted" me in the first place >_> strict and overprotective, they are...
3 years 4 months ago
My parents are just plain strict. I have limited freedom and very little say in most situations. Over the years, they kept questioning me why I keep changing and supposedly blinding myself. They obviously don't know, or at least I don't think they know. They don't trust me still and I am one year away from graduating. I'm afraid that they'll make me call them every night in campus when I leave. Parents... blahhh
hey... same with me...
i have limited freedom too... because of them, i cant enjoy my life and cant freely choose my own path...
i know they did it for my future but i cant stand it anymore... i want to choose my own path and dont want to depending on them...
You guys all got it rough :( I dont need to really...mine are really understanding and easy going. Its aweomse...here in canada legal drinking age is 19...im 18 and ive been drinking since I was 17 and they dont care. They have an interest in what I can do on the computer and my moms shares my music taste ( ozzy,iron maiden )
3 years 4 months ago
*waves hand* I have some strict parents here...My parents' favorite weapon is guilt. And let me tell you, they're damn smart parents. I'm 21, in university, travel back and forth from home and school and I have lots of respect for them. They still worry like i'm 11 tho :( It's kinda cute sometimes =P
For the person who will be off to university and hope they won't have to call each night...good luck. If you expect that you'll need to do that. Expect to do it for at least the first 4 months =P Then they'll adjust to the idea that they can't keep tabs on you no matter how many phone calls. Plus you've grown up and don't need to be kept on a tight leash, you gotta grow. Just hang in there, some parents are more insistant than others =P I still call ermm...two times a week maybe? =)
Having said all that?most overprotective parents just have a hard time letting go. I know mine do (note NOT past tense). I lead 2 lives now, one when I??m on campus and one when I??m at home. Mind you, I don??t usually do anything stupid in either life so it all works out in the end. If you respect your parents, you??ll just take up their nagging and worrying as their show of affection for you and your well being. If not?what are you still doing in their house? If you think you??re gonna be so much better off, then move out and support yourself.
Also, after a while, you??ll realize that all that nagging that your parents do?is true. And is probably the best advice you??ll ever get. The sleeping at 4 won??t help if you have 8:30 class. It's 3AM and as you head back to the lab to finish your project due at 6:30AM and wonder why a drunken frosh you bump into doesn??t sleep while they still can. The showering daily and hygiene maintenance will help you keep that dreamy guy/gal by your side. Etc?etc?
Most of it is good advice...MOST of it =P
For the person who will be off to university and hope they won't have to call each night...good luck. If you expect that you'll need to do that. Expect to do it for at least the first 4 months =P Then they'll adjust to the idea that they can't keep tabs on you no matter how many phone calls. Plus you've grown up and don't need to be kept on a tight leash, you gotta grow. Just hang in there, some parents are more insistant than others =P I still call ermm...two times a week maybe? =)
Having said all that?most overprotective parents just have a hard time letting go. I know mine do (note NOT past tense). I lead 2 lives now, one when I??m on campus and one when I??m at home. Mind you, I don??t usually do anything stupid in either life so it all works out in the end. If you respect your parents, you??ll just take up their nagging and worrying as their show of affection for you and your well being. If not?what are you still doing in their house? If you think you??re gonna be so much better off, then move out and support yourself.
Also, after a while, you??ll realize that all that nagging that your parents do?is true. And is probably the best advice you??ll ever get. The sleeping at 4 won??t help if you have 8:30 class. It's 3AM and as you head back to the lab to finish your project due at 6:30AM and wonder why a drunken frosh you bump into doesn??t sleep while they still can. The showering daily and hygiene maintenance will help you keep that dreamy guy/gal by your side. Etc?etc?
Most of it is good advice...MOST of it =P
I don't think I have violated my parents trust. Well actually I probably did but they were small things, such as calling them telling them where I am. I just didn't care though. It's either that or they are just forgiving or stupid lol. I 'm a good person overall and I gave them that already, so they probably think it's good enough.
I dunno what type of OCD. . . but i can definately say that hes obsessive and compulsive
My parents use to trust me... Just because I came home late, I got in big trouble.









