Hello everyone!!

Marriages are made in heaven.....
But broken on Earth!! XD XD

I have noticed that nowadays most people get married multiple times. And not because their spouses have become dearly departed or anything like that...Mostly because they fall in love with someone else...'Someone better'

So, why is it so??

Why is it that most marriages don't last?? The biggest example that i can give is the Film Fraternity....

They get married nearly everyday!! XD XD XD

So, does marriage mean nothing to them?? Or is marriage really just an overrated thing??

Do marriages really last for an eternity?? Ok...maybe not an eternity but till the time the two people live and walk this earth....

Also, what about infidelity?? Why does it happen?? Can the human have no control over his/her desire(s)??

Is love really just lust shown in a beautiful way??

Warmest regards,
The Firestorm

Well i think that marriage can be kept by a couble. i see it in many couples. but things change inside. for example a child dies and one of the two cant forget the child.(no matter what a love from a parent is stronger that one for a lover) other things is that people rush into marriage. my parents divorced after many years of my father being a complete jerk. cheating most of the time. my father never told my mom about his shaddy past till after i was born. it is rare now to find true love but it really is there. i just wish people dont rush into marriage anymore. take your time to do so. people can wait after dateing for like 4~5 years. take time to live with them. have things change and test the love with those changes. that is my oppinion.

I agree with Rakuda. People rush marriages, so they don't really know the person they got married to. 4-5 years, make sure you know them, and make sure your ready. Cause if you know he (or she) is the "one", you still might not be ready to get married. Just my opinion:)

I agree with fruity, people get married or engaged at a young age and they barely knew their partners even a year. So when they finally do settle in, they'll realize that living together may be difficult, with all the responsibilites and things. At least date two or more years to even consider matrimony.

I agree firestorm "Marriages are made in heaven....But broken on Earth"
marriage is a gift from god a thing that let you live in peace but now there is no trust between people people can't understand themselves so how can they understand other very large people think of love and want to get married because of it they don't know that this love is just kinda of desires every one think of physical features no one see the mind of other his or her way of thinking may be some of them say no is her or his personality that makes me love him or her but how can he or she know how the other think " we just lie to ourselves" i think the first cause is that there is no direct communication between people because every one has his personnel words i think we can't know if this person is good or not we just try the rest came after we should just trust the other and try to understand
him/her if we do this thing a deep respect born between couple and i think this can't be broken but there is some people if you see them you just lose the hope i begun the see the life in black just try to imagine two people get married the years pass they got children after children until the have 4 children they same to be happy but one day the husband found her wife with an other he shout
he became berserk want to kill her and him then she tell him the truth no "one of them are your children" just try to imagine his face he leave in silence and
wander without an aim just one question kill him 1000 time in day "why did i trust her why did i feel happy with her why couldn't i figure it out why did i feel those kids are my children" since that day no one know where is this man and where is his family i just heard he is in a hospital but know one know the truth :( i can't say more his boy was my friend i don't want to remember :(

Personally, I think people just don't spend enough time together. I keep hearing about these people who propose one month into their dating life and get married shortly thereafter and find out.. To their surprise.. that they really aren't compatable. Dating is supposed to be a time where you weigh and measure your prospective husband or wife. It takes a year or more to be able to really do that. Sure, there are exeptions, people who get married quickly and stay married, but they're the exeption and not the rule.

Yeah, I think the main problem is the time for knowing who you're married with. ^^ Usually, like trestresfruity's said, they're on rush to the marriage, so they still not know too deep each other, and that'll lead into the unsatisfactory and then, they're broke their promise on the day they're married. ^^ And as trestresfruity has said too, you'll need at least date with him/her about two years before you get married with him/her. ^^

I love your posts, Firestorm, so I'll add a comment.

"Till Death do us apart....": Well, this takes on a WHOLE new tangent when you got a psychotic Arab married to a sociopathic Jew: there really is no divorce clause (ok, death is a divorce clause) considering my wife's engagement present was a plethora of swords and knives, and she is INCREDIBLE with head shots with a pistol. Factor in my less than lucid grasp on reality, and you got the perfect marriage :)

Children aren't an issue since I had a vasectomy when I was 26. My only child is 16 and lives with her mom, but my daughter and my wife (who is 21) get along well.

Finally, my wife and I are perfect geeked-out pairs: she's a MySpace addict and I'm an anime otaku. We generally hate people as a whole and would rather spend a quiet evening running though our zombie attack/defense plan (WE ARE PREPARED!).

On to the topic, marriages (or relationships) fail due to the inability to incorporate the Big Three:
Compassion
Compromise
Communication
The Big Three are all-inclusive--you can't pick and choose which ones suit your own selfish desires. Either accept the Three or walk away.

As for "celebrities," they don't even factor in my book. I consider ALL celebrities nothing more than offal and should be slagged as soon as they embrace that moniker. Their "marriages" are shams or publicity stunts.

Regarding your comment about infidelity, since sexual morality was never learned by me, I'll have to make this a spoiler since it's adult:

SPOILER (click to view)

My views on sex: if my wife wants to have sex with someone else, I don't care as long as I'm involved--I do not have nor have ever developed the emotion of relational jealousy. She says she doesn't and expects me to follow the same rule. Fine--part of Compromise. If she did "cheat," I'd ask her not to do it again and give me a clear reason why she did. The sex part is meaningless to me, but if her intent was to maliciously betray me, then we have a problem...a violent problem.

My boyfriends sister just got engaged last week.

=)