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What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty  3 weeks 3 days  ago

What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty 3 weeks 3 days ago

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Not too much for me to say about this wallpaper that hasn't already been said: Dalarty has provided a descriptive walk through all the way from the concept idea, to its execution and ultimately its fruition. And you can really see how that careful planning paid off. But it just goes to show, good ideas take time---and a whole lot of patience!

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`Bernouli 1 minute ago
*attaches to brad*

°Brad-M13 49 minutes ago
Replied again. lol.

°akiranyo 50 minutes ago
Again pls :P

°Brad-M13 59 minutes ago
Kk.

°akiranyo 1 hour ago
Check UP

°Brad-M13 1 hour 2 minutes ago
Yah, i am. X3

°akiranyo 1 hour 4 minutes ago
Hey Brad are you still on? damn you, since you made that invisible online status... :P

$Poey 1 hour 5 minutes ago
Shakin' bake

°akiranyo 1 hour 11 minutes ago
Makin' bacon...

°Brad-M13 1 hour 12 minutes ago
Yum.

Are you a vindictive person?

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~dattandai
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RAWR-ness
Topics: 3
Posts: 125
1 year 5 months ago
Most of the time, I'm fairly friendly and forgiving, but there's times when people really push me. Right now, there's about 4 people who I want to destroy.

What about you? Are you a vindictive person?

(Note, if you don't know what that means, "Vengeful")

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~PaladinDragoon
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Guardian of Solace (it's a place XD)
Topics: 10
Posts: 341
1 year 5 months ago
Hmm...
I might forgive, but I will never forget. It's not that I hold grudges, but whoever offends me isn't exactly a no-target anymore. I might get back through backstabbing and gossiping, or maybe even by confronting the person and making him or her feel guilty - If someone throws a punch at me I'll hit him or her back! - but I probably won't do anything drastic.
If the person apologizes and actually tries to patch up the situation - and doesn't do anything bad to me again - well, that might be enough to earn my trust again. At any rate, I'll treat the person better than those who don't apologize. (But I still won't forget.)

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`shigemitsubaki
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DIE NOVUS RED! DIEDIEDIEDIE
Topics: 27
Posts: 930
1 year 5 months ago
Hmm... well, it depends on my mood. I am very unreliable- if I feel like it there are occasions where I don't distinguish between friends or enemies. I can lash out at either. As for forgiving-and-forgetting, I am naturally forgetful anyway (lol) and am not likely to chase after someone for backstabbing or something.

Not out of active urge for revenge... more like suppressed natural instinct to bite. >_>

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~shirayuki-xx
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i'm not short, i'm fun-sized
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Posts: 56
1 year 5 months ago
Haha, I'm pretty vindictive and my friends know it. I don't really show it, but it's there. I'm definitely a person who holds grudges for periods of time... I don't get over unless I feel like I need to or want to. I forgive, but it takes time depending on the situation I guess. Forgetting, I try to forget, but I never end up going there.

Lately, I've been freakan hostile towards almost everyone. You can bet that there's been people I've been dying to kill. xD

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~Sweety8587
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Fangirl Extraordinaire
Topics: 8
Posts: 191
1 year 5 months ago
Usually it totally depends on my mood and the nature of the wrong doing. Often i'll let it go, wont forget it though. But there are things on which i get vindictive but its usually during my class presentations. For example just recently. this guy tried to mess up my friends presentation and he's tried that before. So my plan, im gonna do the same thing he did to my friend.

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~jsalazar
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Right on.
Topics: 14
Posts: 380
1 year 5 months ago
I think the whole world of vindication. I believe that if someone wronged you in the past, then you should do whatever it takes to rectify it. Sometimes, another party does the vindication for you. For example, I had a vendetta with my university event staff when clashing with them over the NCAA decorum policy at the sports events. I told them that I will only forgive them if they pay for my tuition. They would do so, but it would be the Athletic Department that would cover their arses.

So, as a result, I have hostilities against them now. I will officially drop them this Thursday when I retire from being the university's Super Fan. Actually, I was going to do it Wednesday, but I already have prior engagements.

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^pink-sakura
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more chaos please...
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Posts: 3522
1 year 5 months ago
No, I'm not that type of person. If someone backstabbed me, then I wouldn't backstab them back or take revenge. See, cause there's a thing called 'karma' and that old saying 'what comes around, goes around.' Some people might not believe it, but that can really screw people one day. Not to mention, I would sink down to their level if I try to take revenge. So, I just move on.

It depends on the seriousness of the situation, but generally I don't hold grudges for long and over time, I do forget the emotions I felt at that time of the event. So that in the future, I will remember what that person did, but I won't feel anger anymore because I would have forgotten how I felt back then. Seriously, if we all remembered exactly how we felt every single time something bad or sad happen, we wouldn't be able to move on.

Also, I forgive, but that doesn't mean I trust easily. Once my trust is gone, it's really gone.

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`Omnidevil
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[ ☆秘密+The 戦闘幻想物語狂!☆ ]
Topics: 168
Posts: 2942
1 year 5 months ago
Revenge is a good and rewarding feeling for me in the past, note that if you do desire to become a better person, to follow the way of Buddha and leave it be, you would.

I am sure I am the kind of person at one point, backstabbing hurts a lot for you, but if you can find a new start, I am sure it is very much alright for everyone.

~monwren5
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Topics: 5
Posts: 211
1 year 5 months ago
Revenge is the best. Forgiving is for idiots i believe. If someone can scerw you over once, they can do it again, multiple times over.

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~Spentzar
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nudge nudge wink wink*
Topics: 15
Posts: 460
1 year 5 months ago
Hmm, possibly.

I do occasionally meet people that i just want to beat-the-living-shit out of. No-No, killing wont be enough, i want to beat that son of a bitch until their parents wont notice them at their funeral. Destroy every once of their existence...

etc...

but that usually doesn't happen unless you somehow double cross me. Probably one of the reasons i don't have a girlfriend =P

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~xkannonx
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xk2dazx
Topics: 4
Posts: 74
1 year 5 months ago
Okay when it comes to thigns like this...i can fairly say im true to my gemini sign..LOol...i am a sweetheart and very forgiving person...but if you push my buttons then beware...cus i become da devil himself...LOool...im not trying ot scar anyone here..but i guess everyones got an evil side to them...i dont wanna destroy ppl....but i would rather help change ppl...lol.l..

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~RathNatakaru
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Deceased
Topics: 16
Posts: 367
1 year 5 months ago
Hmm, Vindictive. I guess I am, I'm very passive about it however.

Sound weird doesn't it? It's kinda like I say something I know is harsh, but I say it anyway and act like it wasn't anything bad. Haha, that's how it works with me.

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~land
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Posts: 92
1 year 5 months ago
Hmm~~~

I must say I am such kind of person,

Or I should say, I was born such type...

But after education, I think I should learn to forgive...

And as a matter of fact, I have tried~~

But unfortunately, the evil is still in my heart, to be frank,

though it is deep inside, but I cannot get rid of it at least at the moment,

and may be I will not be able to in my whole life...



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~kasuga-ayumu-osaka
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1 year 5 months ago
Well... there are some times when i feel like hugging the person only to pull out a dagger and... plunge it in....

the only way to kill is to make it... memorable

...0.0...BUT ofcourse i wouldnt do taht.... AHAHAHAHAHA ^.^''

lol but yeah ummm you know... drug them... etc yes... i am very vindictive and i do love being sadistic and such... i love holding GRUDGES!! it gives me power... MWAHAHAHAHA! but i also love being nice and such..... but still..... being vengeful and making people pay is pretty neat....

MWAHAHAHAHA! (RANDOMNESS OF THE HIGHEST CALIBRE!)

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