Just wonderin...do boys always chasing after pretty girls?? why??

and if not..why??

im a girl and im not sure whether im beautiful or not...

Honestly i have a feeling that most guys go after pretty girls, at least thats what they talk about and obsess about, but thats how they always been...So its nothing new. But this is coming from the point of view of a sixteen year old girl...

Im an 18 yr old guy and id be lying if i said i didnt like pretty girls, we all have our own preferences as to the definition of the word "pretty". For example, I don't prefer a girl with short hair, but many others might find a girl with short hair really cute and tomboyish - im just not one of them.

As we why guys like chasing after pretty girls, isn't it just the way we are? We all want to enjoy life and why not find a girl that we like and hang around with them for the rest of our lives?

My point is, everyone, not just guys, have their own preferences about what they like in the opposite gender. I for one like girls with cute girls with long hair with a shy personality, but other guys will want livelier girls.

theres bound to be someone out there that think your pretty, so dont worry

Longbow is right, I preffer a cute girl, with long hair, and nice personality...

so... if we go chasing after pretty girls... aren't you girls chasing after pretty boys?

I'm confused

(and please, try to be gentle, I'm from a non-english country so...)

Personally i more less have to like a girls personality but being pretty does go into a factor depending on the situation.

Luicha

if we go chasing after pretty girls... aren't you girls chasing after pretty boys?

i agree so shouldnt just about every one know a answer to this question

You're right Longbow, nothing left to say, both girls and guys seek after the person they want to love for the rest of their lives. Nethertheless some persons find it's less important to be beautiful than intelligent or Kind. I'm one of them.

Lol, i always am. thats for sure. i get rejected 80% of the time, but thats mostly because i hit on chicks that are way outta my league for the most part. lol. i'ma sucker for a pretty face.

The words "pretty" or "beautiful" is a matter of opinion. There is some basic standard in society to what features a man or woman should have to be called such. Even though that may be, each person has their own unique tastes in who they look for.

Basically "what you see is what you fall for" since the eyes are the first to make contact. Everyone can agree that physical attraction is powerful. I actually shouldn't even be saying that since it's a given. In nature, animals breed with the individuals that have the best physical characteristics to ensure that their offspring are fit and healthy. It's less romantic attributing that to human attraction and relationships yet its basically universal and unavoidable. For humanity, the complications are a result of our own intellect and emotions.

If anyone has taken a Psychology or Human Communications class then the subject of facial symmetry and body proportions as a sign of attractiveness probably was discussed. That said, and even though I want to avoid using this word, "prettiness" is influenced by the balance of your face and features for both genders, and particularly for women their proportions which isn't necessarily a girl's bust size but more of the lower area around the hips. Studies have shown that a woman who can physically carry or have more children are found to be more attractive. This all goes back to the biology and nature side where ensuring safe and strong passage of your genes is most important.

Based on what everyone has said that prettiness is based on your own preference the answer would be a certain "Yes". However, since it's so broad then whether the answer is 'yes' or 'no' is rather irrelavent.

Personally I go for brunnettes, cute, bubbly and energetic, a fair tan- natural is better, etc...there's quite a crowd of girls like that at my University which adds a little motivation for me to go to classes.

If you're very self-conscious, don't be too much that you stress yourself out. Start working out, take care of yourself, etc... You'll be fit and healthy plus it's a major confidence booster.

Endorphins- the body's natural high. All safe and all natural.

That's a very interesting question ann I will follow this topic (_/)..

Looks are a completely valid factor regarding how much you love someone. Many people say it is shallow to call certain girls pretty or attractive or hot, but it's unavoidable. First, it's part of our biology, and second, it's no less legitimate than saying you like a girl for her personality. I think that all factors have to match up in a relationship; personality, attractiveness, interests, activities, work/play oriented, etcetera.

Of course we all like the pretty girls, but not all of us are chasing them like maniacs xDD!
There are a lot of "pretty" that i don't find very attractive, yea I Konw that's a contradiction but some girls are very pretty but like empty, I'm always looking for something different, in my opinion my girlfriend is the most beautiful girl in the world but must of the people says she's weird, so it all depends on what the boy wants.
And yea of course there are a lot of stupid people looking for a walking piece of meat and they'll chase all the pretty girls trying to get their attention

I wish to find a girl to live the rest of my life, but I've gotta be honest, the first thing i see in a girl is his face i like "pretty" girls,
thats what i think ...

Yea, i like handsome guys too, to be honest, so it's pretty obvious that guys like pretty girls too, but different people have different taste, I look at one person and say that person is pretty and you might not agree with me, so believe me, every girl is pretty in someone's eyes and one day he might come up and ask you out. Well! just my point of view.

Hi everyone... i think that men and women looks after what complements them.
Of course, if you are in a disco or somewhere else, you woludn t probably go with a person that is not attractive, or if she or he doesn t fite all your spectations. The first impresion is always pshicaly, because you don t know if she or he is a good or intelligent person. Then if the things go on, you will see how the person is like, and if it fites you spiritualy, the relationship will go on. If the person you met is very beutiful to your eyes, but in the inside is all the opposite you are, you will live her or him.

As there are shy women, there are also shy men. It is not always the men fault, but culture and history always seems to be putting all the faults on us =P.

The best advice to all of you is that you keep with your own personality, never change for other beacuse if someone wants to change u, he or she doesn t deserve u.

Good luck for all of u.

Its been a while since i write in english, so be gentle on critizicing my typing lol

Sure boys are always looking for pretty girls ,but relations that just starts based on that end faster ,because that person will always try to catch the best and the cuter