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. Girlfriend/Boyfriend says 'no' to anime...
What would you do if your girlfriend/boyfriend tells you to stop watching anime / involve in any kind of anime-related materials and activities including removing those posters from your wall, deleting all anime files and music from hard drive, stop downloading them, and stop going to conventions. Will you choose your girlfriend/boyfriend over anime?
Or... if you have a crush on a particular girl/boy, and found out later that she/he likes you but dislikes anime or the 'otaku' species, will you give up your anime life for her/him?
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In my part, I'd definitely say that he/she's not the one for me. In a healthy relationship, one should be able accept the other party's weakness or flaws. Those who demands a perfection will in the end ruin the relationship itself in a long run.
What's your opinion?
Or... if you have a crush on a particular girl/boy, and found out later that she/he likes you but dislikes anime or the 'otaku' species, will you give up your anime life for her/him?
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In my part, I'd definitely say that he/she's not the one for me. In a healthy relationship, one should be able accept the other party's weakness or flaws. Those who demands a perfection will in the end ruin the relationship itself in a long run.
What's your opinion?
Offcourse i would dump him at that min.who does he think he is? tellin me to get rid of all the anime stuff! is he becomin my friend or buyin me! and if he tells me to do this it means that its just the beginin cuz who knows wat he'll tell me to give up in the future...
I think he does't have to like animes himself but he definitely has to respect that you enjoy them! He doesn't want you to prohibit him one of his leisure time activities or things he likes, so he shouldn't try to do it. Maybe he is afraid that you won't have enough time for him, still that's the wrong way to solve this problem, if this is the case.
3 years 4 months ago
I guess i would tell her to F**K OFF xD nah j/ks im not mean of a person (unlike a few of my friends) but ill tell her that will lay off the anime/manga just for her.
But wen shes not looking ... ANIME 24/7
or i would say we arent two people that are made out for each other. tell it to her calmly and responsibly so that they will understand the predicament i was under. If that didnt work ... ill just walk away
But wen shes not looking ... ANIME 24/7
or i would say we arent two people that are made out for each other. tell it to her calmly and responsibly so that they will understand the predicament i was under. If that didnt work ... ill just walk away
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If his requests are justified, then I would consider a compromise. If not, I would ignore him or challenge him to accomplish the equivalent of the desired action. I do not believe in a healthy relationship based on acceptance of each other's flaws and weaknesses if they are detrimental and can be rectified, since that obviates the need for self-improvement.
I would probably dump him too, unless I'm way deep past the falling... but still, he should make compromises like I would for him too.
ShellovaIn a healthy relationship, one should be able accept the other party's weakness or flaws. Those who demands a perfection will in the end ruin the relationship itself in a long run.
That's actually what I was going to say :)
No one is perfect, and accepting fully the other is something necessary!! That does not only concern anime but every thing in life.
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Well, my girlfriend doesn't involve with anime, she hates anime, she thinks that i'm a bit childish, but hell, she says that ot's only her opinion and if i like anime i can watch it or do the stuff related whenever i want. If the things would be different nad she would tell me not to involve with anime i think i would be able to change her mind fast enough.
Brainwashed Cat from Mars with a sick idea of the world domination -_-'
If some woman made that request to me, I would be like "Theres the door bitch use it". If she doesnt like me for who i am the hell with her.
3 years 4 months ago
Well my friend doesn't like anime at all x3. but i don't care he would never say i should stop watch them, cause he don't had to watch them. there should be no problem about this and i think the person is what matters not the fact that the person has the some interests.
I would ask him. do you love me? if a person likes you, he will not force you to do something you don't want to do. it depends if i love that person very deeply or not. but probably i would choose both.
Taking away someones desire to satisfy their inner child? what kind of person would go out with someone like that? =\
*dumped*
*dumped*
I'd expect my partner to accept me as I'm and if anime is a part of me then I wouldn't change it unless she accepts to change something that I dislike about her as well, just to make it fair.
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I would look at the situation and see if their concer is for themself or me. if it is for them i'd get rid of them i have no problem with who i am, but hey im pretty picky about my relationships.
i think the real question should be, would you give up hentai if your boy/girlfriend asked you to?
i think the real question should be, would you give up hentai if your boy/girlfriend asked you to?
Dump him/her lol..
