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Infant Trading
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There are two types of infant trading - legal and illegal. The legal one is where the parents willingly hand over their kids to other people, signing contracts, agreements and such through the law, while the illegal one is like just selling their kids for money, or maybe their kids were kidnapped and sold, for money too.
I'm going to talk about the legal one here. The process is somehow like this: A set of parents give birth to a child, but they find that they have too many children, or maybe they could not financially afford to raise the child by their own. So, they find another couple, who is more often than not rich, but unable to have their own child, and 'sells' the child to them. And, normally the original parents would make a substantial profit out of it.
My question is, why would the parents be willing to give their born child to another? Wouldn't it be kinder and more moral just to not have that child at all? I don't mean abortion, I mean birth control/contraception. It makes me feel that the parents are just using their kids to get money.
And, do you approve of legal infant trading? Why?
I'm going to talk about the legal one here. The process is somehow like this: A set of parents give birth to a child, but they find that they have too many children, or maybe they could not financially afford to raise the child by their own. So, they find another couple, who is more often than not rich, but unable to have their own child, and 'sells' the child to them. And, normally the original parents would make a substantial profit out of it.
My question is, why would the parents be willing to give their born child to another? Wouldn't it be kinder and more moral just to not have that child at all? I don't mean abortion, I mean birth control/contraception. It makes me feel that the parents are just using their kids to get money.
And, do you approve of legal infant trading? Why?
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5 months 3 weeks ago
How sad it is, birth control/contraception isn't always an option because some believe they will go to hell using it ... sigh ... anyway accidents/stupidity happens and rather to pick abortion for the same reasons, they have the child.
I can imagine that the parents would want the best for their kids and if that means adoption, so be it ...
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I can imagine that the parents would want the best for their kids and if that means adoption, so be it ...
I approve of this message.....
Well birth control, condoms, and every other product used to prevent pregnancy, don't always work. Hell one of my friends is an "accident" (condom and birth control), but his parents decided to raise him and could raise him. Plus remember some may find out they are pregnant too late to abort, even though they never wanted the child.
As for selling the child, okay let's look at the medical bills for giving birth, the pain of the bastard coming out of you, and now you don't have the money to raise him or your life just handle a child at the moment, might as well make some money off the bastard, frankly I would just give mine away(if I were in that position), but if you're willing to pay money for the child then be my guest.
As for picking a side, I guess i see no problem with it, " oh no my parents gave me away at birth, when I didn't even have enough thought process to even know their faces!" I don't really see the big deal, if they're raising the child properly, I don't see anything wrong at all.
As for selling the child, okay let's look at the medical bills for giving birth, the pain of the bastard coming out of you, and now you don't have the money to raise him or your life just handle a child at the moment, might as well make some money off the bastard, frankly I would just give mine away(if I were in that position), but if you're willing to pay money for the child then be my guest.
As for picking a side, I guess i see no problem with it, " oh no my parents gave me away at birth, when I didn't even have enough thought process to even know their faces!" I don't really see the big deal, if they're raising the child properly, I don't see anything wrong at all.
Can't say its a right things to do,but sometimes even legal infant trading are something that can't be avoided.For example,well,if a child is a product of rape and not of love.Then the "mother" would be not ready to receive that child,in this case,rather than making the child suffer and,worse,die...They might just "sell" the child through adoption means.
I kind of approve the legal way.
Sure, giving away your flesh and blood - that's something I wouldn't do. But if the parents can't provide the child with necessary items or conditions, it's quite natural that the parents would "give away" their child to parents, who can take care of the child and have the time to do so.
Sure, giving away your flesh and blood - that's something I wouldn't do. But if the parents can't provide the child with necessary items or conditions, it's quite natural that the parents would "give away" their child to parents, who can take care of the child and have the time to do so.
Of course, if the child is not a product of love like DarkAngelVelvet said, I won't oppose for the mother to sell the child to somebody else.
But, if the child is really a product of love, why? Just why would the parents want to send them away? Think about it - there are already so many orphans in the world...wouldn't it be kinder to adopt one rather than having someone bear another child into the world?
But, if the child is really a product of love, why? Just why would the parents want to send them away? Think about it - there are already so many orphans in the world...wouldn't it be kinder to adopt one rather than having someone bear another child into the world?
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I don't know why, but selling them seems just wrong to me. Today I was walking when I saw a sign that said "Labrador dogs, $300" and it's just normal for a lot of people, but everytime I had a dog or a cat I couldn't afford them, I gave them away I never sold them. And I feel the same way with human lives, personally, I would never sell a child I don't want, adoption seems better to me.
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Ralph Waldo Emerson
If for example the parents were still in their teens going to school etc, I think it's understandable as to why (lack of support, parental care/experience, pressure, finance and maybe more issues) that they would want to give away their child legally. If the parents were older, I don't see why they would want to do that. Some speculations may be they simply don't want one because of some of the above issues I've suggested, even if they may be older than teenagers, those problems could still exist. This would be an even more interesting question if the parents were married. Why give away their first child if they're married? If they already have too many kids, then I can see why, or if it was in China and they had to give one away because of the one-child policy...but if it was a more simpler case where the parents weren't married, held decent jobs and a steady life, were in their 20's or 30's, it would be a tough question...
Well, goes to show how corrupt our world is or to be more concrete, how corrupt we have become. i mean, truth be told, we should learn not handle responsibilities, and as much as i hate it, parenting isn't just a role-playing just as love and marriage is for fooling around.
no one can escape the fact that we have corrupted ourselves for being weak to attend our desire. but in any case, we are even weaker not to face the consequences of our action. thus, everything evil, by concept or by events is the result of our own personal contribution, born from weakness to stand out to do right.
they know they will face difficulty if they are to bear a child and yet they didn't resolve to family planning for that matter and just lay waste of their feelings. so, the end product is to go for legal infant trading as define. the worst thing is, they believe that it is the better option.
never believe the concept of a greater good or a lesser evil. good is good no matter how small, evil is evil no matter what it brings. if you can't handle the responsibility, then never even try to make a mistake.
no one can escape the fact that we have corrupted ourselves for being weak to attend our desire. but in any case, we are even weaker not to face the consequences of our action. thus, everything evil, by concept or by events is the result of our own personal contribution, born from weakness to stand out to do right.
they know they will face difficulty if they are to bear a child and yet they didn't resolve to family planning for that matter and just lay waste of their feelings. so, the end product is to go for legal infant trading as define. the worst thing is, they believe that it is the better option.
never believe the concept of a greater good or a lesser evil. good is good no matter how small, evil is evil no matter what it brings. if you can't handle the responsibility, then never even try to make a mistake.
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5 months 3 weeks ago
I find that this is so pity, why the parents do that. I think that this is irresponsible parents. This is look like sell your child to gain the money. Although the infant trading is legal or illegal, for me it is look like sell your child, it can't accept. 
Well, thing is, they want the child, yet when the child is born, they just can't find enough money to take care of the child. Some think and are sure that if the child stays with them, the child might have a worse future than the present one sice the world is developing at an astounding rate. The parents love their child yet needs to part ways for the child's own happiness. It's a stereotypical case. And usually the other parents will tell them who the biological parent are when they are older. At least, that is what happens here.
However, if the parents sell the child just for money, that is the worse thing that they can do. May you idiots rot in the in the Symphonies of Souls. These kind of human being are amongst the worse to even be alive.
And really, birth controls and contraceptions are foolproof. Trust me. And for me, abortion is out of the question, my morals don't allow me to kill an innocent would be human even if they have no soul yet. A hope for the future should bot be killed even if they are not alive.
However, if the parents sell the child just for money, that is the worse thing that they can do. May you idiots rot in the in the Symphonies of Souls. These kind of human being are amongst the worse to even be alive.
And really, birth controls and contraceptions are foolproof. Trust me. And for me, abortion is out of the question, my morals don't allow me to kill an innocent would be human even if they have no soul yet. A hope for the future should bot be killed even if they are not alive.
5 months 2 weeks ago
Well to me it comes down to your definition for instance if you count adoption as such then i approve having been adopted and later learning about the fact that my biological mother had a bunch of kids wound up getting divorced and the husband got all of them when some were from a previous marriage although i do now also know she dosn't want to be contacted by me we only even know her name and history due to a fluke but i think i'm better off the way things worked out but if you just mean for sheer money then hell no although i do belive everything happens for a reason
I don't think "trading off" your own kid is a very good thing to do.
i mean, if someone really IS poor, and they think that the child will be MISERABLE with them, then i guess it's justified. but if they sell the baby off TO MAKE A PROFIT, that is downright cold.
i mean, if someone really IS poor, and they think that the child will be MISERABLE with them, then i guess it's justified. but if they sell the baby off TO MAKE A PROFIT, that is downright cold.
starlitxskyI don't think "trading off" your own kid is a very good thing to do.
i mean, if someone really IS poor, and they think that the child will be MISERABLE with them, then i guess it's justified. but if they sell the baby off TO MAKE A PROFIT, that is downright cold.
I totally agree.
Cause some parents know they may not give a proper raising to the child. Or possibly cause they didn't want to abort so as to not kill a life, yet they didn't want the child, there's many reasons why parents would give a child away. Some are understandable while others I do not agree with at all.
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