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Is it bad to drink when you are mad?

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$NatsumiLam
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Ive been watching a lot of Korean drama's and seen real life issues with family members : is it ok to drink at home or go out and drink ? Do you feel it can lead to alcoholism to numb the pain?

~Natsumi Lam~

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°Shellova
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Easy answer: yes. (excessive) Drinking is bad whether you're mad or not. It's also bad, and even worse, if you drink to escape from something. Drinking while you're mad is like feeding gas to a flame. You see, the majority of criminal acts in my city were started by alcoholic drink.

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`DreadAngel
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I don't drink at all, I hate what it can do to me, I'd rather feel pain to know I'm alive than to trick myself or to 'numb' the pain away. I don't get that idea, you end up in all kinds of stupid situation because of alcohol and don't give me crap about me not drinking before cause I have and I spat it right out...

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`Omnidevil
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When you are mad, emotions are heigthened, and you will be feeling up^
hence drinking is a good choice at times, but only if you don't have dormant violent tendencies.
Drinks are downers, they help you soothe and smooth the feelings down by downing it (why we said downing your sorrow is true)

A drink can relax you and soothe the andrenaline flow in your body, this helps you relax, after that you are more exposed to the surrounding, if you happened to catch on a wave and dance, or just laugh at some bar jokes, even an angry man would laugh his way out of the bar.

It is that simple.
Drinking to an excessive point however, is not a good choice.
Remember, if you are angry, sit at a private corner of a bar, and order from the bartender, specials he can cook up with to soothe the anger, often enough, if the bartender is trained, they tend to know what their customers need.
A cool drink mix? or a simple beer.

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~PaladinDragoon
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Yep, it's bad. Some people can control their tempers and behavior even while drinking, but even then, it's still an unhealthy business. There are other ways to numb the pain...Indulge in a hobby that doesn't hurt anyone, like reading, writing, playing video games, sports, etc. And if you really start getting depressed, it's OK to ask for help. :) Alcohol doesn't have to be the answer.

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~koreanchick
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It is bad to drink when you are angry. You mind is not thinking when you need to stop, you just drink until you can't feel anything and by then you are in a very bad place. Like PaladinDragoon said get a hobby or just get a journal and rant that helps

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`Omnidevil
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koreanchick
It is bad to drink when you are angry. You mind is not thinking when you need to stop, you just drink until you can't feel anything and by then you are in a very bad place. Like PaladinDragoon said get a hobby or just get a journal and rant that helps


that is because you are drinking for the sake of drinking.
smart drinkers control their drinking, the more anger you feel, the more likely for you to control the flow of your consumption.
If they just go binge, that is for the parties and happy occasions.
You don't really see an angry fella go in and binge off like an idiot.
Usually they retain most of their logic. I know I never do at least.

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~koreanchick
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Omnidevil

koreanchick
It is bad to drink when you are angry. You mind is not thinking when you need to stop, you just drink until you can't feel anything and by then you are in a very bad place. Like PaladinDragoon said get a hobby or just get a journal and rant that helps


that is because you are drinking for the sake of drinking.
smart drinkers control their drinking, the more anger you feel, the more likely for you to control the flow of your consumption.
If they just go binge, that is for the parties and happy occasions.
You don't really see an angry fella go in and binge off like an idiot.
Usually they retain most of their logic. I know I never do at least.


I have seen people that i know were angry and they where drinking like there was no tommorow. I was there holding a friend up as she was passing out because she drank so much, that still bugs me to this day. But not all drinkers are smart that is the problem

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~garfunk
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I would definitely not suggest drinking when feeling a negative emotion. Whenever my friends and I have a little alcohol, it's when we want to party or have fun, but definitely not when we're angry or sad. It just leads to depression or addiction since you think alcohol is a form of escapism. You don't do something to harm yourself when you feel bad. It's just not right. Especially something like drinking.

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~Saka4Rob10
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You know, trying to forget problems with alcohol or ... it's never a solution because they always come back.
I think that, even if it's hard, the only way is to stand and face them.
May be alcohol or ... can make you a break but it will be needed more and more to have peace because that will lead to habit and get used to it and so on.
In conclusion, i think it's definitely bad to go into alcohol or ... because it's not a solution and it only report the problems a little bit after and that's all. So think about it : itis worth to go into alcohol for such short irrelevant break. Watch anime, manga or play a fps you'll be more satisfied. Or practise a violent sport like kickboxing or ..., you'll see : in a fight you'll forget about all your problems. It's the best solution i know.

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~PaladinDragoon
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Saka4Rob10
You know, trying to forget problems with alcohol or ... it's never a solution because they always come back.


Hear, hear! It won't get rid of your problems, alcohol...It'll add to them. Just because a wound's numb doesn't mean it's serious. That's true for alcohol. Numbs pain, but it doesn't take it away...and it only makes it worse.

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I drink occasionally and only cocktails. Making it a habit is the bad part. My doctor also says that drinking very late at night is bad for your health. He explained that when people lack sleep and they drink, it lowers their resistance and makes them susceptible to catch diseases.

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°Shellova
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It also lowers your sexual functions, if you know what I mean. Alcohol is not a substance normally found inside the body, so it should be relatively dangerous for intake. When you take any substance into your body, they all dissolve into your blood and will eventually enter the brain. Alcohol disturbs the function of neurotransmitters in your brain (i don't know if this is true...) and make you feel dizzy and 'fly'. It also disturbs your body's filtering system resulting in a damaged heart, kidney and other digestive organs. When taken in an unstable emotional state, a person will lose some function of his/her brain such as memory functions, emotions, and personality. I'm no expert in neuroscience, so I don't know any fact and figures about brain. But, pretty much said, alcohol is bad for your health.

I drink some too. In a cold night, mix it with a coffee. I strangely got stomaches whenever I drink alcohol.

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~AZNsmith
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This is my OPINION...I think drinking is bad...period...I don't hate alcoholics...I just hate the alcoholism...There are other methods to remove your anger and frustration...I'm pretty sure alcohol, sex, and drugs are all very pleasurable things to drink/have/do for the moment, but in the long run, it does more harm than good...just take a walk...or watch some anime ^_^...or something...don't put more unneccesary material in your body that can cause more problems (anime on the other hand might cause problems if watched too excessively, but it at least doesn't lead to hang overs or other extensive physical problems)...and this might be a little off topic, but about the wine being good for your heart thing...It so stupid...that gives NOOO justification that drinking wine is a good habit...sure people in Europe have less occurences of heart disease, but why won't you check the liver disease statistics? We already having problems with chemicals in the food we eat daily...there is no need to consume any additional detrimental chemicals...that's just completely (in my opinion) unneccesary

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~DragonEyes
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2 years 2 months ago
Drink only in moderation, everything in excess are not good, it corrupts a people. Just be responsible so you won't be an embarassment.

There are other solutions for numbing pain, look for other outlets, like crying ^^,