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Fly... by °Phill 3 weeks 10 hours ago

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This wallpaper captures the urban essence that proliferated the art of Ghost in the Shell in every incarnation of the series. Phill does an amazing job of capturing a moment of surrealism.

While there are a few, stray building angles and shadows, you find that your eye forgives the minor details and instead focuses on the overall scene that is larger than life, with lights trailing off into infinity.

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Need some advise

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$evil4ever
Donating Member
Ain't love grand
Topics: 43
Posts: 575
2 years 2 months ago
I don't know who to ask so I made this topic.
I really need some advise cause this is serious.
A lot of girls at my school really like me, don't know for what reason cause I don't talk to them, I just listen.
I don't know how to tell them I don't like them without hurting there feelings. They're just not my type and i'm still searching for the one girl who'll take my heart.(In a good way of course)
Lately the guys have been getting jealous, they even told me that i'm taking all the girls, but it's not my fault.
So anyone please help me. I'm not the kind of guy that will hurt people feelings that's why I need to know a way to tell them.

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`mayumi2617
Senior Member
Nocturnal Day Sleeper
Topics: 8
Posts: 287
2 years 2 months ago
In all honesty kid... theres no easy way to break somebody's heart. If the person truly cares for you and likes you it is almost inevitable really that her feeling will get hurt once they are rejected. It's just a manner of being honest and nice about it. You can tell the girl that you aren't ready for a relationship at the moment and that you really enjoy their company and would like to keep your friendship. After you tell her the truth be nice about it and don't ignore her and snob her. Be friends in that way you haven't given her any reason to speak badly of you.

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`gat
Senior Member
insane within reason
Topics: 36
Posts: 1548
2 years 2 months ago
If they are all coming at you then you don't want to be telling every single one of them that you don't want to be with them. I think what you should do is to pick the hottest one that is the nicest one and ask her out. That way all the other chicks will back off, but that sounds like something you don't want to do. I gess you could always just try to show that you are not interested in them by not looking at them, but that be kind off an ass thing to do. Man this is a stupid thread, you making me mad, now I want to hurt you too... Any guy would like for all the chcks to be thinking of him and stuff, man get over yourself. If I had hot girls wanting me in highschool and actualy showing it, I would have went out with every single one of them................ Sory.

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~ecristy85
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I'm not perverted! I'm just inmensely fascinated!
Topics: 13
Posts: 1235
2 years 2 months ago
Pretend to be gay.

Hahhahaha just joking... look, with girls is everything about body language... don't touch, don't look in the eyes (although this one depends on the person...), don't accept their get-togethers that suspiciously sound like dates and if one girl really comes to you and literally asks you out or says that she likes you, tell her that you're sorry but you only see her as a very good friend. Don't be an ass and look a little sad, like thinking "too bad i don't feel like this because you are a great girl", and other sentimental crap like that.

Hahahhahaa gat I was reading your post and suddenly you get all mad, it was really funny ahhahahaha!

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~hws21c
Member
To save the day, the night, and the girl too
Topics: 65
Posts: 737
2 years 2 months ago
All Hail the Harem Master!
..sorry

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°Shellova
Community Waller
The Messenger
Topics: 27
Posts: 490
2 years 2 months ago
Don't ever use direct method with girls. They're sensitive to the core, and one single bad move and you'll be cast away by her friends and all.

Just say that there's somebody else you like (if there is any).
If not, then tell her that you don't want to start any relationship anytime soon.
Or tell her that you want to start out as a friend only.

Oh, and don't forget to say that she's nice and all at first.

Note: It also depends on the type of the girl. The above is from an article i read from some boy magazine last year.

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~exSoldier
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Topics: 36
Posts: 222
2 years 2 months ago
Damn , it doesn't suck to be you !

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~TheSquid
Member
BOW TO THE EGO !!! Humility is for lo
Topics: 30
Posts: 360
2 years 2 months ago
Well there nick , never under estsamate the power of lisening....it meens a whole lot chic's. as for what to do about ...hmmmm im not sure ......LOL that "pretend your gay " coment had me laffing hard.
how hard are they hitting on you ? i meen flerting and stuff, is it to the point that you feel that you need to put your foot down ?...i will think more on this ..as of now i dont really have an andser...but i will...just you wait.........when ever i had guys that wanted to be my boyfriend that i did not like , i would insult them on a very deep leavle and that would allwas work , BUT DONT DO THAT...that is wrong.

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~HmRkS
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Prince 0
Topics: 0
Posts: 268
2 years 2 months ago
Don't worry. They (the girls) will go away soon. I think they are just infatuated and not love.

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~Agne-latin
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Topics: 3
Posts: 17
2 years 2 months ago
Heh your situation is just like from manga book ^^
You know, nick, lately one of my friends asked the same think "how to reject girl without hurting her feelings?". If there's only one of them I think straight talking is the best (I don't agree with Shellova cause I'm a girl and I like when people tells me directly that they think) and if there is plenty of them just get yourself a girl. You know life is very valuable so instead of wasting your time by sitting and waiting for your dream's girl just find one who seems to you most comfortable. When all other girls just won't see purpose in staring at you because you already would have a girl :D. That's my oppinion ^^

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~yun-ting
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Topics: 13
Posts: 197
2 years 2 months ago
Hmmm...thats a bad situation.poor you,
i know, tell all the girls that your taken from a girl far far away in trinidad, then that wouldnt really break there heart 'cos they will think i'll wait till he gets dumped,but that will never happen...*wink wink * ^.<
then you can be friends and get a better chance of knowing more girls and what they're really like. ^.^

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`Omnidevil
Senior Member
[The Absolutely Insane]
Topics: 149
Posts: 2757
2 years 2 months ago
Lucky bastard, you should thank your god or gods.
if you do start a harem, don't worry about it, you must have done something right to get rewarded that badly.
Now, if you really wanna shake them off, seriously, stop being so polite and turn your back, give a cold shoulder, if anything I am sure girls get the message quicker than guys.

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~garfunk
Member
Wait and Hope
Topics: 3
Posts: 139
2 years 2 months ago

mayumi2617
In all honesty kid... theres no easy way to break somebody's heart. If the person truly cares for you and likes you it is almost inevitable really that her feeling will get hurt once they are rejected.


This I agree with.

But in a way, the EASIEST way is to say you're seeing someone else.

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~TheSquid
Member
BOW TO THE EGO !!! Humility is for lo
Topics: 30
Posts: 360
2 years 2 months ago
I love that trinadad idea...just say your love is there and you must be faithfull....i think that should work flawlessly.

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~moonbunny7
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Posts: 21
2 years 2 months ago
Just tell them you are going out with someone already or say you are not ready for a relationship right now