Smartdeviant, be ready to accept a PM i got a little something for ya...
you said he has a serius Face...
that means (1 of these options...)
1: He wants you...
2: he Was sad leaving you...but didnt Expressed himslef
3: he tried to tell you something... but it didnt went out well
p.s: annex( why are you Such an Anti-male kind)

He is 22 man he should know better that you are 14 and thre is a 8 year gap between you two. He should not try anything funny like this to confuse you in anyway by holding hands. For guys that is like showing a liking to someone that is more then just friends. I think the reason why he let go of your hand when people were around because he know that is wrong for a 22year old going out with at 14year old. And i know girls right now that are 14 seem more mature and well feture for their age and some time guys forgot that about the age differents because you girls look so mature some times. Bottom line he is older and he should know better not to do anything funny with an under age girls because if i'm not worng i believe in most states is illegal to date younger girls

Maybe, he's just being somebody older, like when I was a little my dad use to hold my hands all the time, but people knew that he's my dad. maybe he's trying to do the same thing. but in this case he is trying to hold your hand like he's your big bro and your his lil sis, and he let go of your hands when people see, is maybe because he doesnt want other people to think something else is going on between you and him<you know what Im saying by"something else" right?? if not pm me> thats all

One thing to note about guys at that age (18-22). That is the point of transition from high school to real life and also we start to transition in what is attractive. When we were 14-17 and first seriously interested in girls we create an image of what we find attractive. The tricky part is in changing that image to correspond to our own age.

I will give you an example from my life. I am 20 and I refferee youth soccer. Every once and a while I notice that a girl in a game I am reffing (7th-8th grade) is starting to "develope" and I have to smack myself upside the head to be reminded of how old I am cuz I don't feel that old cuz I have been reffing the same age teams since I was 15.

Lastly, the best way to mis-interpret what men are doing is to think about it for more that 30 seconds. Men don't think more that 5 minutes ahead at best.

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remember how i said i was totally clueless about this tyoe of stuff??
well, im going out with this guy.. he's really nice and hes all that...
theres this other guy, david, in the tennis team.. were really good friends and i like him a lot.. :) but not that way...
and the day i started going out with zack, he wouldnt tslk to me.. and even if he did, it was very short and he's trying to pretend like nothungs wrong... one day at the tennis game (im the manager) i was asking the team why david was acting soo weird around me.. everyone said that they think that he likes me..
ive been trying to apologize to him.. as a matter of fact, i did about 3 times in the past 3 days.. hed smile and say that its alright.. but he wouldnt act like it.. he still acted like a stick was up his butt... today, i said sorry again and he completely turned away and ignored me.. i was trying to be considerate and all... but that simple action made me cry... heck, he was an expert of making people feel bad alright.. but what am i supposed to do?? i dont know what he wants out of me.. and im just stupid about this kind of stuff.. he says that he doesnt like me at all, and i believe him.. but why act like this??

please help me.. im confused.. and this time i feel guilty and sad because i hurt someone i like...