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Girl Troubles
2 years 7 months ago
Ok, fortunately i guess it's not me thats havin it, but a friend of mine is currently having girl troubles
and i really wanna help the guy since we're good friends, here's the thing, my friend has liked this girl
and they don't look bad together, plus from what i can see they're pretty open to each other, the thing
is they've only known each other for a bit over a month..and well the opportunity arose and he asked her out
the thing is the girl didn't really give a reply yes or no or anything...i duno how i should help him cause he's in
great confusion right now and as a good friend i don't wanna see him die..u kno wht i mean? so plz some advice
could really help
and i really wanna help the guy since we're good friends, here's the thing, my friend has liked this girl
and they don't look bad together, plus from what i can see they're pretty open to each other, the thing
is they've only known each other for a bit over a month..and well the opportunity arose and he asked her out
the thing is the girl didn't really give a reply yes or no or anything...i duno how i should help him cause he's in
great confusion right now and as a good friend i don't wanna see him die..u kno wht i mean? so plz some advice
could really help
Well let's see... hum... how old is your friend anyway?
2 years 7 months ago
avjaiok, fortunately i guess it's not me thats havin it, but a friend of mine is currently having girl troubles
and i really wanna help the guy since we're good friends, here's the thing, my friend has liked this girl
and they don't look bad together, plus from what i can see they're pretty open to each other, the thing
is they've only known each other for a bit over a month..and well the opportunity arose and he asked her out
the thing is the girl didn't really give a reply yes or no or anything...i duno how i should help him cause he's in
great confusion right now and as a good friend i don't wanna see him die..u kno wht i mean? so plz some advice
could really help
Well I think it would be incredibly helpful if you were able to give a bit more information on your friend's situation so we could give you some proper advice - for example, the girl didn't give a yes or no reply - what did she say instead? Her exact response will give us pointers into what she's feeling - whether she's thinking about it, or just saying no in a nice way. Ask him and then we'll help you out;)
Hope this helps.
Griffith
Well, firstly, if they're open with eachother, then why doesn't he just say something to her himself? But, if he's one of those really shy people, have him give her a little time... like a couple more days. If she still doesn't answer, then you could go up to her and ask if she's into him like that or not. She might have another boyfriend, or something that he doesn't know about, and she's too afraid to hurt him to tell. Or.. she might just not really think of him like that. He could slide her a note, if he's really desperate. But confidence is sexy, so try to get him sure of himself to do whatever on his own. He needs to just ask her again. But not frequently, that'll drive her away. If she doesn't answer the second time, then assume it's a no. If she was going to say yes, she wouldn't wait for the third time to be asked. She might just need re-assurance that he really did ask her out. Post me (on my userpage) to tell me how things work out, will you? *pouts*
Well, unfortunately, there's not much you can do except encourage him and keep his spirits up. If anything, tell the guy to be a little more persistent and stay hopeful. Afterall, she didn't down-right reject him right? Unless she's trying to spare his feelings in which case this isn't terrible either because that should at least mean she still enjoys him as a friend. Sometimes, there's not much we can physically do or say to truly make a friend start feeling better, the only thing we can do is be there for them and support them.
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2 years 7 months ago
Well answering griffith is that my friend is normally a real shy guy around girls that he likes, normally he's an alright guy, but this is his first time asking a girl out, and just for information sakes we're older than 17 and younger than 19 (i just don't like telling me and my friend's age ^^") but the result that came out was just that she didn't say anything...there was like a moment of silence and the conversation sorta got dragged into another topic...i'm not sure if she was trying to avoid the fact that my friend liked her, but if she said no, then could she be putting thought into it? again they've only known each other for a month or so and i duno but maybe thats a bit hard for girls to give their full trust to someone they've only met for a month...
I think you should tell your friend to give it a couple more days and then if there is no mention of it he should go and sit down to talk with her about it. He should outright tell her that he's sorry if he made her feel uncomfortable the other day but he really likes her and that's why he asked her out. Then he could politely ask if she has put any thought into it. As long as they are alone there shouldn't be any reason why she can't answer him.
I know you want to help out, but I don't think you should say anything to her for him, because it's their business. It might make her nervous or upset if someone else jumps in.
Good luck to your friend. ^_^
I know you want to help out, but I don't think you should say anything to her for him, because it's their business. It might make her nervous or upset if someone else jumps in.
Good luck to your friend. ^_^
Tell "your friend" that the worse thing that can happen is that she'll say no......and that is not the end of the world...and that there are a lot of things that are worse than a girl saying no.....there is not much of a difference between being friends and "going out".....except you have an excuse to hold hands and clean each other's teeth...
10 papers say that we're really talking about u....
10 papers say that we're really talking about u....
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Well shes probably thinking things through, if theyre really good friends, she might not want to jepordise the friendship, if shes taking a while, shes probably just playing him,or shes just not interested
2 years 7 months ago
Hmm girl trouble...
i have alot of those, i mean seriosuly i know this girl and her life is nothing but drama...
and since she like s me my life is surrounded by drama i am seriosly tired of her and her mental prolems
i have alot of those, i mean seriosuly i know this girl and her life is nothing but drama...
and since she like s me my life is surrounded by drama i am seriosly tired of her and her mental prolems
Well, could be trouble cause hard to see through girl's heart...
Girls are girls, threat them with respect even if they are annoying or they're a b####. That's what I do, girls just, look at me strangely and stop bothering me, or they're really nice sometimes. I don't have any experience with girls, but that's my philosphy.
2 years 7 months ago
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Girls are girls, threat them with respect even if they are annoying or they're a b####. That's what I do, girls just, look at me strangely and stop bothering me, or they're really nice sometimes. I don't have any experience with girls, but that's my philosphy.
i mean i kinda agree with u...but still sime timrew you just cant take it nemore
i mean especially of the girl is so emotional and you cant b urself around her
Well since i have no idea of how old your friend is here's my advice...
some girls have the fast guys their a bit shy to accept. so it's better to not rush things besides maybe there's still hope i mean the girl hasen't replied yet right? maybe if possible the girl will just forget what happened but this time i doubt that she's be hanging out with your friend again...
some girls have the fast guys their a bit shy to accept. so it's better to not rush things besides maybe there's still hope i mean the girl hasen't replied yet right? maybe if possible the girl will just forget what happened but this time i doubt that she's be hanging out with your friend again...
2 years 7 months ago
I'd say just ask her again. Try to get her alone in a more private place, to avoid any embarrassment. If she wants to turn him down but doesn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends, it'll be easier like that too.
If she says no you can always try again later. Be patient but persistent. Just don't pressure her into answering.
If she says no you can always try again later. Be patient but persistent. Just don't pressure her into answering.
