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When do you give up...
Hey,
It's soooo frustrating sometimes...Despite how young you are, you get stuck in the middle of the same trap everytime...I always like guys I can't have, or that are taken, or that I have never spoken a single word to...There's this guy, codename...Ska, let's call him...Well, many people like him and it's unlike me to like someone unless I know them...but it's strange...And then there's his best friend- gah><, think I like him too...I haven't spoken to any of them ever...pathtic, I kno...But there's this school trip coming up and I think they're going...Well, actually, I don't think I like Ska very much anymore...Anyway, do you think I should just give up now? (I'm pathetic, I know)...Instead of doing this to myself all the time...?
It's soooo frustrating sometimes...Despite how young you are, you get stuck in the middle of the same trap everytime...I always like guys I can't have, or that are taken, or that I have never spoken a single word to...There's this guy, codename...Ska, let's call him...Well, many people like him and it's unlike me to like someone unless I know them...but it's strange...And then there's his best friend- gah><, think I like him too...I haven't spoken to any of them ever...pathtic, I kno...But there's this school trip coming up and I think they're going...Well, actually, I don't think I like Ska very much anymore...Anyway, do you think I should just give up now? (I'm pathetic, I know)...Instead of doing this to myself all the time...?
Three years ago I gave up my girl friend because I found that I didn't love any girl including her.
So,I was a lone boy for three years.
Perharps some day when I hate loneness,I should find a good guy.
So,I was a lone boy for three years.
Perharps some day when I hate loneness,I should find a good guy.
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I always like guys I can't have, or that are taken, or that I have never spoken a single word to...There's this guy, codename...Ska, let's call him...Well, many people like him and it's unlike me to like someone unless I know them...And then there's his best friend- gah><, think I like him too...I haven't spoken to any of them ever...pathtic, I kno...But there's this school trip coming up and I think they're going...Well, actually, I don't think I like Ska very much anymore...
Well maybe you shouldn't try so hard looking for a boyfriend. In this one post, you've gone from liking Ska to not liking him anymore.
It's like the cliche "A watched pot never boils." If you keep obsessing over how to get a guy that will just drive guys away. You should find activities that really interest you, painting/sports/going to music shows/movies, when you start doing things you eventually start meeting people that already share an interest with you. That way when you do meet a boy you like, maybe you'll have something cool and interesting to talk with him about. I hope this helps ^_^
Your not pathetic
you cant control who you like or the resons you like them
you dont have to give up
although it might save you a lot of pain
but its what you think is best
if you want to persue him then keep at it
you cant control who you like or the resons you like them
you dont have to give up
although it might save you a lot of pain
but its what you think is best
if you want to persue him then keep at it
I do not think that you are pathetic... maybe just a little bit lost in your feelings... It happens.
I think that you should think carefully before doing anything...
I would say that you can even try to establish contact with Ska (never heard this name before in all my life... is it for that that it is a code name?) and his friend... I do not believe in love at first sight... maybe that if you talk to them and get to know them a little more, it would help you to know the one that you like the most, in the case that you like someone of them really... On the other case, you would have new friends anyway... which is really nice !
I think that you should think carefully before doing anything...
I would say that you can even try to establish contact with Ska (never heard this name before in all my life... is it for that that it is a code name?) and his friend... I do not believe in love at first sight... maybe that if you talk to them and get to know them a little more, it would help you to know the one that you like the most, in the case that you like someone of them really... On the other case, you would have new friends anyway... which is really nice !
Chire, Senbonzakura
Haha... I've been through that so many times! I personally never took the initiative. You will probably find that you can get over this small crush fairly easily, and the chances that you and the guy will connect and really get in a relationship that will last are slim... but I guess giving up would be sad... losing all hope, even though the chance is slim is just dashing away a dream or a possibility for love. if the feeling is really strong, like you think about him all the time, even with nothing to remind you of him (aka. seeing him in the hall or hearing his name), then I would really give it a shot. try to talk to him, through his friends or whatever way is the least awkward. whatever you do, you shouldn't have to stretch too far out of your comfort zone. Don't go over the edge to try to make him like you or something. seriously, the right guy for you should think you are amazing without you having to do extraordinary things. Patience, you're still young; the right guy will come.
Another love topic? Well i cant contribute much to this, i say, dont go out to fish, just wait for a fish to jump in your boat. Yeh i made that up just now, but somehow it still works... If i could snap my fingers and never have to worry about "love" i would, i'd be richer, and concrentrate on my future more.
How about starting with friendship? The best romances can be found from two life-long friends establishing a bond and building from it. And after all, don't you want your lover to be your best friend as well? Just don't mourn over something if you don't plan on doing anything about it - crying over spilt milk, the phrase applies.
#210189 Quote Report Edited by `Almighty-Baka 2 years 7 months ago
I give up before i start.........then again never get to start as i have been told i have a creepy stalker look about me.
sods.
sods.
I give up before i start.........then again never get to start as i have been told i have a creepy stalker look about me.
sods.
sods.
2 years 7 months ago
You should just think what will happen if you ask the person you like and then ask.
Because asking the person will not kill you, right.
so just do it.
(results may vary)
Because asking the person will not kill you, right.
so just do it.
(results may vary)
Supernatural Society
You need to think before acting, or you will lose your life.
In more ways than one.
When you look into the abyss, the abyss looks back into you.
You can not live forever, but your name can.
2 years 7 months ago
I never really give up, just take breaks every once in awhile. I am sure I am determined enough to find it one day, but enjoying bachelor hood too much at the moment to worry about never finding it at all.
Exactly true. Don't fret, you're still very young and you have plenty of years ahead of you to find the guy that's right for you. While I don't agree that you should absolutely just sit and wait for a guy to jump into your lap, you shouldn't worry and try so hard to get one either. As a person mentioned before, some of the most rewarding relationships start as a friendship or just two people getting to know each other.It's like the cliche "A watched pot never boils." If you keep obsessing over how to get a guy that will just drive guys away.
And absolutely never give up hope in love...even when you believe you may never experience it or keep it, love pops up in the strangest places and circumstances. Patience is the only key. Until then, live and enjoy life; have fun; make friends; do the things you enjoy. These are the best ways to meet the people you may one day end up with, and there's plenty of time ahead of you.
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If it was so, it might be; and it were so, it would be; but as it isn't, it ain't. That's logic. ---Lewis Carroll
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2 years 7 months ago
I think you actually have to decide who you like first. I don't think you'll get very far liking more than one person. For one you can't be with two people at once, and you can't act on your feelings either.
And yea, you could always try to be friends with them first, then decide if you do like them.
Then you could always ask them or talk to them.
And yea, you could always try to be friends with them first, then decide if you do like them.
Then you could always ask them or talk to them.
If your pathetic then that makes me a......XD
So you said that uve never talked to either of them? Then I suggest that you start now!
If you want to start a relationship with a person, then what better way than to talk?
What should you do?
The answer lies entirely in you.....
What do you really want?
If you want to get close to him, then make advances, start talking, spending tym together.
You are unsure? Then gather up the courage! A small "hi" would be a BIG step! Remember, everyone else has felt like this when they started too.
And if hes not the right guy? Well, dont be all sad and depressed for the rest of your life like some of the people I know. Hes not the only guy in the world, and if hes not meant for you, then hes NOT meant for you. Uve got plenty of years ahead to get to know other people, and then maybe finally find the right one. If you rush love, it might never come. Make sure you get to know the guy first, that makes a strong relationship.
So you said that uve never talked to either of them? Then I suggest that you start now!
If you want to start a relationship with a person, then what better way than to talk?
What should you do?
The answer lies entirely in you.....
What do you really want?
If you want to get close to him, then make advances, start talking, spending tym together.
You are unsure? Then gather up the courage! A small "hi" would be a BIG step! Remember, everyone else has felt like this when they started too.
And if hes not the right guy? Well, dont be all sad and depressed for the rest of your life like some of the people I know. Hes not the only guy in the world, and if hes not meant for you, then hes NOT meant for you. Uve got plenty of years ahead to get to know other people, and then maybe finally find the right one. If you rush love, it might never come. Make sure you get to know the guy first, that makes a strong relationship.
