There is this girl, who is (at least she said) crazy bout me. She can't get enoughe of me, she wants to be with me every minut of the day, and i feel like, i have no space of my own. This is really troubeling :S She sends me messages 'n stuff, when ever she can, suffacating me.

It all began, when she asked to be my girlfirend, and i said yes (oh god, i should have thought abut it a bit longer, my fault :'( ) Any way, This is not the only problem - She is totaly different in perosn, then when i read her messages (behavor, peronality), and its so frustrating, i guess, shis just shy in person.

So plz, can you help me, give me advise what to do, how to make things better,how to cope with the situation. This is the first encounter with that kind of behavor from a girl, and i'm really new at that kind of thing, so plzz lend my you're thoughts of the matter, thanks :/

Talk to her! if your getting suffocated then, it isn't good anymore.
Tell her about the the way you really feel.

If she insisted strangle her! LOL just joking. Make her realize that you don't want her in anyway possible...
or do the things indicated in Yumi-kirei's post. haha

Seriously, you should make her see that you are not happy. and that you need your own space

ecLipseDelacroiX

If she insisted strangle her! LOL just joking.

Hehehe,

well yes, thats a problem too, i dunno know how to Approach her in this matter, And i dunno how i feel, am i just afraid, or waht, i don't wanna act like Ranma did either, so at the time being i'm just avoiding her,

Gotto clear my head too, oeh, i'm such a weak person in this matter :'(

As Roman Dirge said in Lenore:

-If you love someone set them free, if they come back, then put several 8 inches baldes on their head... If they come back, run, just run.

kieselgurgh

As Roman Dirge said in Lenore:

-If you love someone set them free, if they come back, then put several 8 inches baldes on their head... If they come back, run, just run.

lol...those kind of girls can really be annoying sometimes.

First of all you have to clear your head and be sure of how you really feel about her.

Thats the First thing i'm going to do just after my graduation party, oh god, this time i really have to face the reality :(

soduruu

There is this girl, who is (at least she said) crazy bout me. This is really troubeling :S She sends me messages 'n stuff, when ever she can, suffacating me.

It all began, when she asked to be my girlfirend, and i said yes (oh god, i should have thought abut it a bit longer, my fault :'( ) Any way, This is not the only problem - She is totaly different in perosn, then when i read her messages (behavor, peronality), and its so frustrating, i guess, shis just shy in person :/

firstly, do you like/love her? if yes, there is no point in helping u...cause obviously you said "suffocating"...means that the things that you don't wan or not willing to...do...which means that you don't love/like her @@!!, if you love/like her, at least, you don't say suffocating >.<

Make her see that you're uncomfortable with what she's doing!! If that idea doesn't work, then just TALK to her. Explain that you can't always have time for her, you also need to do something, but tell it to her in a nice way.

All you need to do is tell her how you feel . Give her your piece of mind!haiz ...
Tell her you need to hv private time!Everyone does ...! =.="
But of curse , tell her in the nicest way you can ...
Gals get hurt very easy!-.-"
And of course, asked urself wheather you liked her or not ...
Find a place and tell her how you feel ...
like ...
erm ...
tell her like this " i luved you but i need private time . Everyone does, rite? hope you understands what i'm tryin to tell u. "
hmm ... =.=" mybe it's not quite a good way of saying it ...
but if she reli cant take it , then ...
i think you should juz let her go ...
dont you think so?
And i know you are afraid of telling her the truth tat she is makin you feelin miserable, but , if you wan to hv a better life and work things out between you two , i think you should juz say it. reli ... you don't hv to think too much ... if she's hurt , tell her you are sory ....
It's easy ... reli ... i've tried bfore , ntg to be afraid of ... get urself some courage!YOU are A MAN AINT U!!
^^
so ... hope to hear from you soon !

Before you do anything, think about things in overall. If she shy, then both of you need time together. Together to just get to know each other better. And meet her in person more often rather than messaging and all.

At the end of the day, text can't tell you the personality of a person better than meeting the person in person. So take your time...

And girls don't ask guys like this very often (at least in the country I live in). So take things slowly and don't jumo into any conclusions yet.

All those advises are wise, i will act abon them- thou i need the time, think about it as you said, this is not an easy task for me, i'm quite sure, but i think i'm the one whos making to problems grow bigger, as you said i need to clear my head, think about it, face my feelengs and talk to her, i just hope i won't mess it up :S

Well if you haven't confronted or done anything yet.. like many others have said, think about it all.. if you DO care for her, if it's a "suffocation" that can be eased or not with some time, etcetc

granted maybe i shouldn't be proud of it, but i was one of those types of girls, i still can be i guess O.o. i tend to shower to one who has my affection with notes, anime pictures, calls, texts, etc.. while i know it can be annoying as hell, it was my way of showing them how happy i was and how much i liked them.. plus at that time i hadn't been in many other relationship ((*cough* like none lol)) so i was just so plain excited that i kinda "burst" with happiness that i had someone who liked me and was with me. i didn't really realize how to tone myself down, plus i thought my bf loved that i was so "dedicated" and always thinking about him.. plus, if i showered him, maybe then he'd stay and i could really have my first love LOL..

lol. that was kinda an insight to how i was at the beginning.. and usually at the very beginning of the relationship i'm quite overbearing with cuteness and wanting attention.. O.o

so if you do wanna consider having a relationship with her, that you like/love her.. then be kinda soft on her.. more then likely she had good intentions, but it's just too much ((right?)) she may take it hard, that you "don't like her", but try to just let her know that you'd like to have some moments to yourself. and as for the calling and notes, say that you like getting them, but you'd rather talk TO her then through paper.. ((which could cut the notes down some)). let her know when the Suffocation line is crossed, since she likes you so much.. she'll probably try her best to do what you like.. just be sure to notice when she does things you ask.. that way she has some reassurance that you're not JUST blowing her off or don't care..

and if it's something that cannot seem to get any better.. or you've realized you don't really like her.. then sometiesm it's better to just let her go.. some girls that are easily made to be more open and outgoing when they talk or have fun, and sometimes it's just something so deep that it will cause more pain then pleasure trying to help her through it when you're not REALLY into her..

either way..good luck to ya

Date around -_^

Do you really like her? If not, you should probably tell her^^;; If you do you should tell her what you're feeling, I'm sure she'll understand.

Well as i said, i have to clear my head, becaus, the thing is i don't know if i'm feelin fear or dislike, so hold on, i'll post if, i have the answer.