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should freinds quarel a little
6 months 2 weeks ago
Dose anybody think freinds should quarrel??
Well its only right for friends to fight a little
but its extrememly important that you make up after wards ^-^
caus if not then you wont have friends to quarral with lol
but its extrememly important that you make up after wards ^-^
caus if not then you wont have friends to quarral with lol
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i totally agree with DASHIgod
~i totally agree with DASHIgod
It's a given.
People always have differences, so of course even the best of friends will find differences. I've got a friend that I have been friends with for about fifteen years now and we still quarrel or argue. Be it either we don't see eye to eye on something, or we just have strong differences about something. Honestly, I think it's healthy to, not all the time of course. I'd be more worried if friends didn't bicker every now and then. So long as it's not like a huge fight or something, then I'd say it's pretty natural.
People always have differences, so of course even the best of friends will find differences. I've got a friend that I have been friends with for about fifteen years now and we still quarrel or argue. Be it either we don't see eye to eye on something, or we just have strong differences about something. Honestly, I think it's healthy to, not all the time of course. I'd be more worried if friends didn't bicker every now and then. So long as it's not like a huge fight or something, then I'd say it's pretty natural.
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6 months 2 weeks ago
*agrees with CrimsonCyanide*
They say familiarity breeds contempt, so the more you get familiar with a person, the more you find his or her faults annoying, hence the quarrels between people who've been together for a while now. What sets "friendly quarrels" apart, I guess, is that usually afterwards the people involved can adjust to each other's differences. I think it's also a good idea for friends to quarrel, sort of as a way of letting bad feelings out into the open and explaining yourselves (albeit angrily XD). It's better as opposed to putting on nice faces while keeping feelings of anger and hatred inside - later on that will just end up with both of you being plastic with each other.
They say familiarity breeds contempt, so the more you get familiar with a person, the more you find his or her faults annoying, hence the quarrels between people who've been together for a while now. What sets "friendly quarrels" apart, I guess, is that usually afterwards the people involved can adjust to each other's differences. I think it's also a good idea for friends to quarrel, sort of as a way of letting bad feelings out into the open and explaining yourselves (albeit angrily XD). It's better as opposed to putting on nice faces while keeping feelings of anger and hatred inside - later on that will just end up with both of you being plastic with each other.
If friends don't have the occasional tiff, then the relationship won't grow and be healthy. No one likes another person completely, even those people who are in love. We all dislike certain things about other people. But if we don't let that person know, then our feelings will just fester like a tumour and then BAM, we've lost a potentially great friend.
When I was little, my best friend and I would fight a lot, but thirteen years later, we're still friends, and we know of the other's flaws, and we accept them. Not to say that we never get on the other's nerves, but we know each other well enough to work things out and forgive each other a lot more quickly than those who bottle it up.
When I was little, my best friend and I would fight a lot, but thirteen years later, we're still friends, and we know of the other's flaws, and we accept them. Not to say that we never get on the other's nerves, but we know each other well enough to work things out and forgive each other a lot more quickly than those who bottle it up.
6 months 2 weeks ago
Sometimes arguing make our relationship better
I hear that sometimes, when two friends are really close together, and then the other friend finds out something they didn't know about the other friend, they get really frustrated or sometimes mad and can lash out at their friend because they feel they should have known from the start what they didn't. This mostly applies for more serious things though. I'd say if two people aren't too close together and are just regular friends and not close friends, there's always a buffer before an argument sparks, because if you're not that close to the other person, what goes through your mind is a more acceptable response and you tend to forgive the person more, whereas two close friends, something really, really bad happens, and you two could end up fighting, and because you two were so close for so long, and suddenly this happens, it becomes a confusing experience because you don't know what to do between you two because you two hardly ever had this kind of experience. In the end, there's always a way to make up.
6 months 2 weeks ago
I'd say yeah i mean noone is exactly the same there is bound to be some differences and differences generally lead to quarrels because noone in the world likes to be wrong so if someone disagrees with you you will try to change their mind into making them agree with you therefore a quarrel starts and it does not end until they both realize they can live well enough even if they do not share the same opinion about said subject... as mr. smith from the matrix would say, it is inevitable!
That's just a natural thing that happens to friends, especially if you're all really close with each other. My best friends and I have known each other for eight years now and we've had our share of fistfights and arguments through the years
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I think that friends should quarrel if they have a disagreement over something. Its a lot healthier than the alternative in my opinion, and it gives their relationship a chance to grow.
Yes,
a little quarrel is not bad...
a little quarrel is not bad...
6 months 2 weeks ago
I think a little is good, just don't get overzealous about fighting D:
Yeah, I agree with everyone else. Friends that argue just prove how close they are, but like someone else said, you have to make up afterwards of course. O.o
As said before, everyone has their own opinion and differences in thinking, needless to say, opposites attract; therefore you will have your arguements and/or disagreements. Hopefully those arguements will make you closer. ^^
As said before, everyone has their own opinion and differences in thinking, needless to say, opposites attract; therefore you will have your arguements and/or disagreements. Hopefully those arguements will make you closer. ^^
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In my opinion, quarreling between friends is quite normal, as long as they don't get over the edge with it and let a quarrel become a fight, where people will get hurt ^^ Besides, quarreling over anything that is wrong in a friendship is actually better, then letting the matter stay in the dark and evolve into something more serious and potentially damaging o.o
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