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What do guys really look for in a girl?
Ok people out there in in cyber land what do guys really look for in a girl? I mean do you all just go for looks yes having a nice rack is good and all but is that all that matters.Yes looks do matter I mean you have to be attracted to the person your going with or going after.But you have to share something common with each other. What really makes you say wow Id really like to meet that girl? 
I'd appreciate if she would laugh at my jokes even if they're not funny,a girl who isn't afraid to express her mind and if she likes ponytails.
2 months 3 weeks ago
Looks are always going to be a factor in some sense, but there are some types of attractive that I won't go near.. For instance, the slutty looking platinum blond. These girls are often "attractive", but generally lack substance (yes, I do stereotype and discriminate). So for me, it's the girl who's uniquely attractive -- has an odd taste in clothing, unorthodox hair/hair color, etc.
And I definitely agree with neno2480 - when concerning looks, the face is what first draws me.
But to get back to the question, looks aren't by any means all that matters, not even fifty percent of the equation. Personally, I look for that girl who is able to wow me with her words -- not easy to do. She has to be articulate, intelligent, able to carry on a conversation, and have a real, non-regurgitated perspective on life. And she has to be a bit of a bitch... I appreciate the argumentative type.
And I definitely agree with neno2480 - when concerning looks, the face is what first draws me.
But to get back to the question, looks aren't by any means all that matters, not even fifty percent of the equation. Personally, I look for that girl who is able to wow me with her words -- not easy to do. She has to be articulate, intelligent, able to carry on a conversation, and have a real, non-regurgitated perspective on life. And she has to be a bit of a bitch... I appreciate the argumentative type.
2 months 3 weeks ago
Strong but not forceful Smart but not too much of a know it all. Doesn't try to be my mother has a good sense of humor a real girl down to earth and comfortable being who she is and doesn't take crap from other girls and also doesn't get me into fights with her mouth. A little silly. Some one I can fuckin talk to! o wow am I tired of frikkin ditzes! thats not cute or funny! A good friend supportive and tells me what she really feels you have to tell a guy he usually won't pick up every single thing. Affectionate with me but not too friendly to others you know what I mean? Willing to try new things. Thoughtful and being hot would just be icing on the cake. Main thinkg I want from a girl is good company just to be able to enjoy talking to her. Cuddlers wanted!
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You got it, boobs boobs and bigger boobs are all that matter to men.
All I require is that you're mildly to extremely attractive, fit, dark hair, great eyes, a wild sense of humor, smart but not so smart that it makes me feel bad and huge knockers; srsly a good set
All I require is that you're mildly to extremely attractive, fit, dark hair, great eyes, a wild sense of humor, smart but not so smart that it makes me feel bad and huge knockers; srsly a good set
A good attitude, Fun but not crazy,
Smart but not nerdy, Kind
Understands other persons' feelings and emotions,
Knows how to express herself
Responsible but knows how to have fun
Smiles a lot
Optional: Otaku
For physical appearance:
Cute face, dark shoulder-length hair,
Not lower than my shoulder
Nice shoulders, nice legs
Cute and gentle smile, thin but not stick-like thin
Small to Medium-sized breast (I'm not kidding)
Well, that's me anyway. To put it simply, I don't want someone who walks around basting her beautiful face, big boobs, long silky hair and insane fashion sense and treats anybody she doesn't like as if they were pieces of crap
Smart but not nerdy, Kind
Understands other persons' feelings and emotions,
Knows how to express herself
Responsible but knows how to have fun
Smiles a lot
Optional: Otaku
For physical appearance:
Cute face, dark shoulder-length hair,
Not lower than my shoulder
Nice shoulders, nice legs
Cute and gentle smile, thin but not stick-like thin
Small to Medium-sized breast (I'm not kidding)
Well, that's me anyway. To put it simply, I don't want someone who walks around basting her beautiful face, big boobs, long silky hair and insane fashion sense and treats anybody she doesn't like as if they were pieces of crap
Great answers guys thanks for your comments it just really bugs me that americas view on being beautiful means you have to fit in a size 0 and have huge boobs. Neno2480 its ok to be dorky Im a dork too and Doc Having big boobs is vastly over rated for example say me and you are having a conversation in person and because I I am not lacking in a chest and because you seem to love boobs so much you would probably just stare at my chest correct me if Im wrong.
This is not quite the same that the "looks or personality" thread?
"En mis tinieblas hay una luz que, al final, arrulla mi corazón"
2 months 2 weeks ago
I look for average looking, someone who would support me, and someone I know who wouldn't ever betray me.
As long as she's willing to spend time with me.
As long as she don't push you away for a stupid reason.
And as long as she's not violent. haha.
As long as she's willing to spend time with me.
As long as she don't push you away for a stupid reason.
And as long as she's not violent. haha.
@MaliciousTenderness
You are wrong. I'm really not that shallow. You would really have to have a super personality because in the end when we are 90yrs old your looks wont matter in the least bit.
If you and I were having a conversation in person I would be more concerned with you jumping my bones. ;)
You are wrong. I'm really not that shallow. You would really have to have a super personality because in the end when we are 90yrs old your looks wont matter in the least bit.
If you and I were having a conversation in person I would be more concerned with you jumping my bones. ;)
Aww how sweet but I think I would have to worry more about you jumping mine
2 months 2 weeks ago
I like someone thats quiet and not all over the place,
the quietness because I am super shy and need someone that isnt going to be shouting at the top of their lungs over minute things... or that talks in too much slang
and what I mean by not all over the place is that I dont really want someone who cant keep their attention to one thing or one person, texting fits in with this I hate when Im talking to someone and their glued to their cell phone and I have to repeat myself 3 times just for them to understand
from what I read in the comments above some of you seem to be obsessive about womens chests... for me I prefer women that have smaller breasts but all in all I really couldnt care less about something as redundant as breast size
also a way to put it hypothetically would be how would us men feel if we were judged as datable on the size of our penises I mean Im not saying that girls dont do that, but what I mean is if women could see our junk before they knew us very well
the quietness because I am super shy and need someone that isnt going to be shouting at the top of their lungs over minute things... or that talks in too much slang
and what I mean by not all over the place is that I dont really want someone who cant keep their attention to one thing or one person, texting fits in with this I hate when Im talking to someone and their glued to their cell phone and I have to repeat myself 3 times just for them to understand
from what I read in the comments above some of you seem to be obsessive about womens chests... for me I prefer women that have smaller breasts but all in all I really couldnt care less about something as redundant as breast size
also a way to put it hypothetically would be how would us men feel if we were judged as datable on the size of our penises I mean Im not saying that girls dont do that, but what I mean is if women could see our junk before they knew us very well
Ok! gotta get it out first! - looks! (wow that was easier then I thought) but! only as a first empration B/C a girl that looks good most of the time has self respect for herself which is an importent factor for me, I believe no one wants to be together with someone that throws herself here and there...
But as I said it's a "first empration" the other qualities are the ones to hook me in, what I look is a girl that is sweet, understanding, must love animels and have a good since of humar, and most of all, my girl must be a "fighter", No, not an amazon queen with ripped muscles, a "fighter", my girl can't be a quitter, and must give every thing she's got in anything she does, that would be my ideal Girl
But as I said it's a "first empration" the other qualities are the ones to hook me in, what I look is a girl that is sweet, understanding, must love animels and have a good since of humar, and most of all, my girl must be a "fighter", No, not an amazon queen with ripped muscles, a "fighter", my girl can't be a quitter, and must give every thing she's got in anything she does, that would be my ideal Girl
Wooo, guys here are so sweet... wishing you were here in my place... 
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2 months 2 weeks ago
The best way to get the girl of your dream is to not have any expectation at all. Better start at zero and get to know her rather than trying to find someone who fits your mental description.