Do you deserve happines?
2 months 3 weeks ago
What is it that makes you feel that you truly deserve to be happy? An if you don't what makes you think that you don't?
I think that if I make my parents smile then I have achieved true happiness for myself.
2 months 3 weeks ago
Happiness is far too subjective a word... One that I have never been able to fully comprehend. Is happiness defined by one's degree of satisfaction with their current state of existence? If so, then no - I am not happy. Do I deserve to be happy? I'm not really sure.
Perhaps it's not a matter of entitlement, but rather a goal to be achieved.
Perhaps it's not a matter of entitlement, but rather a goal to be achieved.
Well yes, Everyone should believe they should be happy and have a happy life. If you do not odds are you are clinically depressed and should be heavily medicated
Well I really dont know I mean Im a good person but Ive been bad and sometimes I feel like because of my mistakes I might not be truely happy in the end I think about it from time to time If Im even happy now. But I just bottle it up and try to be happy for the moment.
Tricky question, because, according to who do I deserve happiness? Everybody that cares about you surely wishes that you are happy every day of your life, but you are not a game-show host, you are a human-being and we tend to have a very complicated way of handling our feelings. Then, I personally think that a major part of happiness lies in the way you see things, depending on how you see things makes you feel differently. If you are a negative person that can only see the negative perspective of everything, then I can guess that you are sad pretty often, not very optimistic. But if you are optimistic then you live with some hope and it can still bring some happiness.
I think that everybody deserve happiness, because to make mistakes is a part of life and to realize how wrong you were at some point or what a huge mistake you did back then is not a crime and I don't think that we should punish ourselves to believe that we don't deserve happiness just because of the way we were or acted or whatever. We are not perfect and neither is the world we live in. Then again, what makes you happy? perhaps is the next question. Is it something you can achieve, something you have to wait in order to get, a combination?
I think that everybody deserve happiness, because to make mistakes is a part of life and to realize how wrong you were at some point or what a huge mistake you did back then is not a crime and I don't think that we should punish ourselves to believe that we don't deserve happiness just because of the way we were or acted or whatever. We are not perfect and neither is the world we live in. Then again, what makes you happy? perhaps is the next question. Is it something you can achieve, something you have to wait in order to get, a combination?
tifa988
Tricky question, because, according to who do I deserve happiness? Everybody that cares about you surely wishes that you are happy every day of your life, but you are not a game-show host, you are a human-being and we tend to have a very complicated way of handling our feelings. Then, I personally think that a major part of happiness lies in the way you see things, depending on how you see things makes you feel differently. If you are a negative person that can only see the negative perspective of everything, then I can guess that you are sad pretty often, not very optimistic. But if you are optimistic then you live with some hope and it can still bring some happiness.
I think that everybody deserve happiness, because to make mistakes is a part of life and to realize how wrong you were at some point or what a huge mistake you did back then is not a crime and I don't think that we should punish ourselves to believe that we don't deserve happiness just because of the way we were or acted or whatever. We are not perfect and neither is the world we live in. Then again, what makes you happy? perhaps is the next question. Is it something you can achieve, something you have to wait in order to get, a combination?
Gotta say, Truly a brilliant answer. I agree completely, Every person has his own image on what happiness is, and how they see things, If it's the "half empty" or "half full" glass will determine how full of happiness their life's are.
2 months 2 weeks ago
You deserve happiness once you start thinking about other person's happiness instead of your own.
Everyone should deserve happiness, in a since, it is part of positive-light emotion. Happiness allows people to open their eyes to something anew, exciting, etc. Any type of emotion that has a piece of light may experience something that may cause happiness. In a way, this is called "True Happiness", which is pure and is not full of false illusions.
Self-satisfaction, lust of greediness, and, thinking that you belong there instead of where you truly belong. Those, are not True Happiness a person should deserve or even need. Those types are only illusions. The reason why they make people feel happy in the inside is because they are just in the moment where those types feel real. But they're not. False Happiness does not last forever, True Happiness does last forever and for the right reasons for why we want to keep on living for a reason, to search for that pure happiness.
Self-satisfaction, lust of greediness, and, thinking that you belong there instead of where you truly belong. Those, are not True Happiness a person should deserve or even need. Those types are only illusions. The reason why they make people feel happy in the inside is because they are just in the moment where those types feel real. But they're not. False Happiness does not last forever, True Happiness does last forever and for the right reasons for why we want to keep on living for a reason, to search for that pure happiness.
tifa988
Tricky question, because, according to who do I deserve happiness? Everybody that cares about you surely wishes that you are happy every day of your life, but you are not a game-show host, you are a human-being and we tend to have a very complicated way of handling our feelings. Then, I personally think that a major part of happiness lies in the way you see things, depending on how you see things makes you feel differently. If you are a negative person that can only see the negative perspective of everything, then I can guess that you are sad pretty often, not very optimistic. But if you are optimistic then you live with some hope and it can still bring some happiness.
I think that everybody deserve happiness, because to make mistakes is a part of life and to realize how wrong you were at some point or what a huge mistake you did back then is not a crime and I don't think that we should punish ourselves to believe that we don't deserve happiness just because of the way we were or acted or whatever. We are not perfect and neither is the world we live in. Then again, what makes you happy? perhaps is the next question. Is it something you can achieve, something you have to wait in order to get, a combination?
I agree completely. My deserving happiness depends entirely. If I see a small gesture, just a small gesture of respect, I am already happy about it. Even if someone accidentally bumps me, I would always give them a smile.
2 months 2 weeks ago
Well i think that happiness is relative . what is good for me can not be for you
Who don't deserve to be happy? Maybe not everyone in this world are happy, but all of them deserve to, even those who have done things wrong (if they were happy surely they'd stop to do the wrong thing). Every sentient person deserves happiness, no matter what concept of happiness each person has. If somebody thinks he/she does not deserve it, she/he really needs help.
Im a firm beliver in the The right to Pursuit Happyniess stated in the 10 ammendents. (bill of right) Wich means we are't promised to be happy but you can chase after happyniess. So no we don't
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2 months 2 weeks ago
Wow hellpanda! that is a really good outlook on that I like that! ...Why did you choose the name hellpanda by the way that's really interesting.
Everyone has the right to be happy.
It's that simple, you have the right the tougher parts come from if you choose to fulfill that right or not. As well as the world around you putting obstacles from keeping you happy. In the end it's your choice to pursue that happiness.
This actually makes me think of a poem by Frederica.
Everyone has a right to pursue a happy life.
The difficult part is to be given that right.
Everyone has a right to pursue a happy life.
The difficult part is to fulfill that right.
I too have a right to pursue a happy life.
The difficult part is to work out a compromise for that right.
-Frederica Bernkastel
It's that simple, you have the right the tougher parts come from if you choose to fulfill that right or not. As well as the world around you putting obstacles from keeping you happy. In the end it's your choice to pursue that happiness.
This actually makes me think of a poem by Frederica.
Everyone has a right to pursue a happy life.
The difficult part is to be given that right.
Everyone has a right to pursue a happy life.
The difficult part is to fulfill that right.
I too have a right to pursue a happy life.
The difficult part is to work out a compromise for that right.
-Frederica Bernkastel










