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What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty  3 weeks 19 hours  ago

What Exactly Is Pink? by °dalarty 3 weeks 19 hours ago

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Not too much for me to say about this wallpaper that hasn't already been said: Dalarty has provided a descriptive walk through all the way from the concept idea, to its execution and ultimately its fruition. And you can really see how that careful planning paid off. But it just goes to show, good ideas take time---and a whole lot of patience!

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~Ladycathren 45 minutes ago
*at school* It sucks.

°soft-meanie 57 minutes ago
*bangs head into monitor*

°Anime-Girl 59 minutes ago
:3

°soft-meanie 1 hour 1 minute ago
Noo...please stop whispering >_>

$damoser 1 hour 3 minutes ago
go to sleep

°soft-meanie 1 hour 7 minutes ago
*gets coffee*

±angel-voice 1 hour 9 minutes ago
LOL *gives a pillow*

°soft-meanie 1 hour 11 minutes ago
It feels like everyone is whispering to me: GO TO SLEEP

±angel-voice 1 hour 12 minutes ago
Yeah ^^ It's 3:26pm here

°soft-meanie 1 hour 13 minutes ago
Internet...it's common

Does age really matter?

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$theironwarrior
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1 year 9 months ago
AH-HA! Whether age matters or not is mostly dependent on cultural and societal mores. Currently, Western society has a hard-on on "pedophilia" which they often incorrectly label--pedophilia deals with a mental illness wherein someone is sexually attracted to PRE-PUBESCENT males or females. Someone 18 dating a 15 year-old is NOT pedophilia, though in the US, it may violate statuary and age of consent laws.

I'm 40 and my wife is 19 years younger. I married her when she was 18, and age WAS NOT an issue. In her society (Muslim), women marrying older men is quite common.

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~Amrod
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Amrod of the Dale
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1 year 9 months ago
I think 4-5 years difference to my age is what I'd go for, although I prefer someone my age, but hey, we never know who we will fall for.

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~Eruruu88
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"I swear... we'll meet again."
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1 year 9 months ago
Ok cool so that means that if i would go out with that guy i like i wouldn't get in truble? he's like 15 years old but i'll soon be 19...

one of my friends wouldn't stop saying that i would be a pedofile if i would go out with him.. well it's true that she thinks that Inuyasha, Bleach and some other animes are porn.. i don't get why she says that i always thoght it was weird..

but an other thing we don't often see are couples when the girl is older then the guy.. is that ok or is it just weird?

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~hws21c
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To save the day, the night, and the girl too
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1 year 9 months ago
I can go with women way older than me... I have no problem with that.
But young... since I'm only 17, going out with girls younger than me would be kinda wrong.

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$DZeroX
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The guy every mom wants their daughter to date :D
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1 year 9 months ago
Well, the problem is that if you are a minor, it's taboo for you to date an older person, and viceversa. It's just taboo. But, I would only date someone's who 2 years older or younger than me. I don't want her to be too childish, but neither too old. Plus, it's just neat that way ;D

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~Karloz
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1 year 9 months ago
If is just a date doesnt matter im older or younger its just a date not to start a relation
but at love well also age doesnt matter XD if love comes from both

$Kuro
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1 year 9 months ago
Well, I'm Korean.. and I'm not sure how much the age thing matters in our culture. I'm kinda white-washed. heh.

But anyways, I'm sooo bad in relationships. I guess I'll go out on a few "dates" before I get around to sorting my feelings out.

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~devilswing5
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1 year 9 months ago
18 and above but not 50 above duh basta sexy hot and high in sex appeal yum yum yum... regard liu yi fie

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$Emeraldnite
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1 year 9 months ago
I definitely think that as you get older age gaps become less relevant. Currently I am 26 and would be willing to date people maybe within 3 years give or take. It's just a matter of if you have something in common with the other person. Personally I find myself relating to people younger than me more than people my own age, however I have also found myself relating to people older than me as well. The age gap is a hard line to walk on, but it's doable.

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1 year 9 months ago
If you really love them go for it unless they are more than 5 years older than you -_^

~Faramon
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King of Random
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1 year 9 months ago
Well, at 16 i would not want to go out with people 2 years younger than me, but I guess its fine if i go out with a 18-19 year old. I go out with a chick thats younger than me by 2 months, so its all good. But if i went out with a 13 year old, i would look like a... well, you know. :P

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~caufenkamp
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1 year 9 months ago
Reallt if you think about it why should age matter?...i think if you and someone really love eachother the what the hell go for it...if someone has a problem then f#$k them...have fun ;)

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~sacredessence
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1 year 9 months ago
I really don't think age matters in a relationship, it all depends upon the girl and the guy if they make things work... i know that there are consequences, like how will your folks accept the guy or girl, or how people will react to this kind of relationship... but if you really love each other, you'll find a way to make things possible... ^_^

for me, having an older partner is good... you'll be more loved and taken care of, bec the guy has more experience than you are... or vice versa

Right now, my boyfriend and i have a 15 yr old age gap, and we're going strong as we go forward... tomorrow is our 6th monthsarry, and our love continues to grow each day... ^_^

sacred essence

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~RathNatakaru
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1 year 9 months ago
Nope, age shouldn't matter. Minus if your a 21 year old actress dating a 71 year old, and you hate his guts out but only wants him for his money. Cough cough.

But Age shouldn't matter in my opinion. I mean it might feel a little awkard, but it's fine.

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~Kyto
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Amen, halleluja, peanut butter.
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1 year 9 months ago
In love, age doesn't matter. But in the law...

Personally, I think up to 10 years is a good range. I'm currently 23, and I have no problem seeing a 33 year old, but on the flip side, 13 is probably a no no. I think the most important thing in a relationship is to come to a mutual understanding of your feelings.