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fake friendship
Well i'm just going to share my experience when i was betrayed by a certain friend of mine that i really looked up to...
Ok here it goes...
i was still in kinder 2 i was a newbie i just transfered from Japan. I was really excited to see a lot of very different people. A bunch of hours befor the class started i inrtoduced myself and she introuced back. since then became best friends she trusted me and i trusted her. she even introduced me to anime (yes anime even if i was born in Japan i never knew anime). every weekend i would so to her house and play with her. this lasted until grade 2. i became an honors student so i was placed in a much more advanced class while she was placed in a lower one. every recess time i would meet up with her but one day... I was outside her class room. when they went out she totlly ignored me and went with her new friends. i called her for about a million times (not exactly but i did call her all over again) and at the last time sh stopped and she said, "(i translated this in english) hump, you really are pathetic. you didn't even notice a thing i never needed you you are just my little guenia pig in my experiment." and so on... i didn't really remember what she really said but it was some thing like this. so after that i became aloof, sillent and my heart was frozen until today.
so who wants to share!
Ok here it goes...
i was still in kinder 2 i was a newbie i just transfered from Japan. I was really excited to see a lot of very different people. A bunch of hours befor the class started i inrtoduced myself and she introuced back. since then became best friends she trusted me and i trusted her. she even introduced me to anime (yes anime even if i was born in Japan i never knew anime). every weekend i would so to her house and play with her. this lasted until grade 2. i became an honors student so i was placed in a much more advanced class while she was placed in a lower one. every recess time i would meet up with her but one day... I was outside her class room. when they went out she totlly ignored me and went with her new friends. i called her for about a million times (not exactly but i did call her all over again) and at the last time sh stopped and she said, "(i translated this in english) hump, you really are pathetic. you didn't even notice a thing i never needed you you are just my little guenia pig in my experiment." and so on... i didn't really remember what she really said but it was some thing like this. so after that i became aloof, sillent and my heart was frozen until today.
so who wants to share!
Well in this world there are a lot of people who are so-calle "user-friendly"... people who they treat you as friend because they need something from you but they are never there when you its your turn you seek help... every once in a while, I do encounter these kind of people but I made a point where I only build camaraderie... you'll easily know when a person is worth giving your trust when you experience betrayal or being ignored but your friends way back then...
well its really a big deal when you put all your trust in a person and they let you down... for me, I'm content in a having a small group of friends who are trustworthy than mingling in a large group where in the end, you don't know that you've being used or is being backstab by false rumor...
well its really a big deal when you put all your trust in a person and they let you down... for me, I'm content in a having a small group of friends who are trustworthy than mingling in a large group where in the end, you don't know that you've being used or is being backstab by false rumor...
UmUm*nodds head* that's exactly it!
Wow that really sucks.. hmm well you just gotta remember that your a better person than people like that and you wouldnt ever do that right>? Just be carefull when choosing friends but dont allways be looking out for somebody to betray you. I hope you make some really good friends who will like you for who you are not for what they can use you for.
Here's a warning to these fake friendships:
The more mature you become, the less likely this will happen. But when it does, the more impact it will bring to your life. :P
The more mature you become, the less likely this will happen. But when it does, the more impact it will bring to your life. :P
Seems that girls are often the ones who do this more, but then maybe not. Doesn't the girls also wanna be popular in school so they try to hang around the cool girls and propably will do anything to join it. My friends have been good to me when I met them in second and third grade. So this really hasn't happen to me and I'm happy about that.
2 years 11 months ago
Thankz god i never felt like this....i better watch out for something like this
When i was younger we moved to the country side and i lost a lot of my good friends but i thought maybe you will find new friends so i tried but all these "new friends" betrayed me in everyway that is possible in a way they only used me when they had noone else! And for nearly 7 years i had no real friends and i was really angry with my mother that she brought me there! But when i was 15 we moved again to my old city and now i have a lot of good friends and i know that they are good friends they never betrayed my trust or did anything else that would have hurt my feelings and i am happy about it!
And i recognized that i am a city child :)
And i recognized that i am a city child :)
bad boys for life
Here's a warning to these fake friendships:
The more mature you become, the less likely this will happen. But when it does, the more impact it will bring to your life. :P
there would always be plastic people in life. but there would be more in the future, and trust me, they can be far worse than backstabbing.
I guess the saying goes "what ever doesn't kill you makes you stronger".
Ive always been told, when you grow older, the only person you can trust is youreself!
right now i only people i trust , is probaly not even half of my family,
its easy to say you trust someone, but its a whole different thing to mean it,
and why do you think its so hard to gain trust but so easy to loose it?
right now i only people i trust , is probaly not even half of my family,
its easy to say you trust someone, but its a whole different thing to mean it,
and why do you think its so hard to gain trust but so easy to loose it?
ive always been told, when you grow older, the only person you can trust is youreself!
right now i only people i trust , is probaly not even half of my family,
its easy to say you trust someone, but its a whole different thing to mean it,
and why do you think its so hard to gain trust but so easy to loose it?
ditto well you can't blame me i was still a kid back then and i am nearly a kid now.
ive always been told, when you grow older, the only person you can trust is youreself!
right now i only people i trust , is probaly not even half of my family,
its easy to say you trust someone, but its a whole different thing to mean it,
and why do you think its so hard to gain trust but so easy to loose it?
ditto well you can't blame me i was still a kid back then and i am nearly a kid now.
and you'll eventually be a teenager one day. don't let one rock stop you from befriending other people. there is so much out there waiting, instored for you.
I personally don't want to share my story because it is wayyyy too personal. However, I did have a time, god for like the past 6 years of my life, wherein I never really had the nerve to get out there and befriend anyone.. and now I somewhat regret that.
But like what they say, if you've never been in the darkest hours, you will never know what it really means to be happy.
All I'm saying is, you can still stand up from this. Don't let one event, that happened in Kinder, out you down. Well, it IS your choice, but as long as you have the baggage, you will be the one to carry it.
And I'd say release it somehow, slowly accept people in your life. Maybe through that, you would actually be healed. :)
Someone who uses you. that can be family or aquateince
Seems that girls are often the ones who do this more, but then maybe not.
It seems that way because most males are easily seduced by the appearances of a female. Females are the symbol of sex. Most guys get all wild when they see a hot girl and start fantasizing, "Man, I wish I was with her." Then when they finally meet a hot girl, they get hypnotized by appearances and can't see beyond the shell. That's what I think, most guys are too easily lead on. I know some people (even guys pretending to be girls) that would log on AIM, and then message their friends saying something like:
Jill: hey :) one of your friends gave me your sn.
Bob: o kewl, a/s/l?
Jill: 17/f/FL
Bob: o cool, I live in florida 2. have pix?
And then it goes all down hill from there... lol. 17 always seems to be the lucky number.
I can relate to your experience. I was a real fool when I was younger and learned from it. It went all the way to the point of my person becoming my GF and I ended up with a broken heart. : / Sometimes it is really hard to tell who are your real friends. They can act like your friend, make good conversations but when the time comes they might abandon you. This is life and how some people are, it really sucks.
2 years 11 months ago
I think fake friendship is when someone pretends to be your friend to get to something else they want like a girl or item or popularity.