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When things didnt go out right...
2 years 10 months ago
What will you do if things didnt go out as you expect?
...u want to have a job, but you got really sick, you want to go out with you boy/girlfriends, but they cant, you want to see your loved one, but they dont have time with you to spend, you want a good ranks in scholl but you didnt get it altough you already study hard....
did you ever felt this??
maybe my questions is really dumb
...altough i have many kind of suggestion from my friends, but when i encounter it myself, i can't still resist it to get angry, mad, wanna explode...arghhh...wanna kick something...
some of my friends told me that i am a perfectsionist one so thats my problem...never satisfied with anything that diddnt go out with my expectation
soo...i want all your opinion bout this, and advices are very welcome...thanks guys!
...u want to have a job, but you got really sick, you want to go out with you boy/girlfriends, but they cant, you want to see your loved one, but they dont have time with you to spend, you want a good ranks in scholl but you didnt get it altough you already study hard....
did you ever felt this??
maybe my questions is really dumb
...altough i have many kind of suggestion from my friends, but when i encounter it myself, i can't still resist it to get angry, mad, wanna explode...arghhh...wanna kick something...
some of my friends told me that i am a perfectsionist one so thats my problem...never satisfied with anything that diddnt go out with my expectation
soo...i want all your opinion bout this, and advices are very welcome...thanks guys!
Do any possible improvision unless you're really in deep $hit.
SAM FISHER: You want to tell me what's going on Lambert?
COL. IRVING LAMBERT: Sorry Fisher... but you're getting too old for this kind of work.
SAM FISHER: Stop listening to Grim. If you go by her definition of old, you'd need to issue diapers with every set of goggles.
COL. IRVING LAMBERT: If I listen to you much longer, it'll be adult undergarments.
SAM FISHER: That was cruel.
Oh I got this one in the bag. I was playing tennis. I had planed out everything in my head playing against my oppenent, but instead of staying back at the base line he rushed ahead, and I had just did my special hit, got him straight in the balls. I thought i was going to win 6-4 but instead he had to forfiet.
Try to dig my way out of it lol try covering it up with some loud music play some violent bloody games to let off the stress..
when i was going out with my friend i was bullied by these guys and asked for money (too scared at that time) so i gave them all i got.
when i got home i was so mad with my self that how much of a loser i was that i dint stand up for myself and that i just them steal my money that i saved up for my precious gundam model kit lol
got home played some vid games went down to the basement to let off some steam by punching this punching bag i got that including a boxing mitts. (real deal) then followed by voilent games and LOUD MUSIC!!
when i was going out with my friend i was bullied by these guys and asked for money (too scared at that time) so i gave them all i got.
when i got home i was so mad with my self that how much of a loser i was that i dint stand up for myself and that i just them steal my money that i saved up for my precious gundam model kit lol
got home played some vid games went down to the basement to let off some steam by punching this punching bag i got that including a boxing mitts. (real deal) then followed by voilent games and LOUD MUSIC!!
Hmm.. Whenever I'm running really really late from work, I just call in and say "Yeah, I don't think I can make it to work today"
But if I'm only a few minutes late, then I work my ass off to make up for my lateness D:
But if I'm only a few minutes late, then I work my ass off to make up for my lateness D:
2 years 10 months ago
It's really annoying when that happens, sometimes I get desperate, like a few hours ago, I just have to fix up my sister's pc, but instead of that I totally screwed up with my brother-in-law's pc :( ... it's like someone wants you fail, kinda murphy's law... but I just have to dedal with it... everyday...
Boku wa boku no...
koto ga shiritai....
2 years 10 months ago
I guess you just have to deal with it and move on. Kind of depends on the situation really.
I'm kind of a perfectionist too, so if things don't go my way, for instance that example you mentioned about not doing well at school even though you studied really hard? I would be disappointed and angry at myself, but there's nothing else you can do expect to let it go and move on. Try harder next time.
But if it was the other example you mentioned when a loved one or your boyfriend/ girlfriend can't spend time with you because they have something else on and are busy, I would understand. I don't expect them to change their schedules on a whim just so I can spend some time with them.
I'm kind of a perfectionist too, so if things don't go my way, for instance that example you mentioned about not doing well at school even though you studied really hard? I would be disappointed and angry at myself, but there's nothing else you can do expect to let it go and move on. Try harder next time.
But if it was the other example you mentioned when a loved one or your boyfriend/ girlfriend can't spend time with you because they have something else on and are busy, I would understand. I don't expect them to change their schedules on a whim just so I can spend some time with them.
2 years 10 months ago
Uh...yeah...being a perfectionist is not too good too dont you think?
sometimes i felt tired and exhausted too, for being worrying at every inch of my work or sumething... ^^!
sometimes i felt tired and exhausted too, for being worrying at every inch of my work or sumething... ^^!
Ohh im a bit of a perfectionist too-_-" drags my life down becuase im bad luck so nothing ever goes the way i want it too,but if you like to look at life in a bright way i guess you would say "life is full of surprises" so its not always so bad,
and some situations can even be a good experiance that could help you later on ^_^
and some situations can even be a good experiance that could help you later on ^_^
2 years 10 months ago
If things doesnt go right...i would think again and asked myself "why did it turned out like this?" and think positively...or think whoz right or wrong...maybe even relax abit and things will turn out good at the end...im for sure of it... there will always be forgiveness, or anything GOOD will happen in the end ^^ so i wouldnt panic or anything or be upset about it...
I think that I am a kind of perfectionnist too... It is not always easy then...
When things go in an unplanned way, or just out of control, I was always like desperate... I was getting mad and trying to find someone to make as a responsible for all what happened...
I'm not saying that I'm not doing all these things anymore, I would be lying...
However, I'm working on myself if we can say it that way...
Let me explain...
When something does not go right, I try to not give up to anger. I try rather to cool myself down and simply think instead of acting with no precise idea in mind...
I also try to not get angry on someone; it would only make people set me apart and classify me as a hysterical person...
I have already lost a friend because of that, that is why I'm trying to be better and avoid any negative responses to unexpectable events...
Actually, I even feel much better inside of me...
It is quite nice I guess to feel the change and to be able to control one's feelings.
When things go in an unplanned way, or just out of control, I was always like desperate... I was getting mad and trying to find someone to make as a responsible for all what happened...
I'm not saying that I'm not doing all these things anymore, I would be lying...
However, I'm working on myself if we can say it that way...
Let me explain...
When something does not go right, I try to not give up to anger. I try rather to cool myself down and simply think instead of acting with no precise idea in mind...
I also try to not get angry on someone; it would only make people set me apart and classify me as a hysterical person...
I have already lost a friend because of that, that is why I'm trying to be better and avoid any negative responses to unexpectable events...
Actually, I even feel much better inside of me...
It is quite nice I guess to feel the change and to be able to control one's feelings.
Chire, Senbonzakura
Simple: Learn from it, move on, and try better next time. Dwelling on it for too long won't get you anywhere.
Be not afraid of greatness;
Some are born great,
Some achieve greatness,
And some have greatness thrust upon them...
2 years 10 months ago
There're times that not everything goes in the way you planned, but you have to do your best, and if it wans't enough, maybe you didn't push yourself at the limit, the key it's to stay calm, not to loose your head, there's always a solution, the problem is that you don't see when you're in the middle of the trouble, you just have a new perspective of the paradigm
Boku wa boku no...
koto ga shiritai....
Everything that can go wrong will go wrong!
- murphy`s law
man, i keep screwing up everything ^_^i keep breaking shit at work, im clumsy and pretty dumb when it comes to handling fragile stuff, and my hands are Huge (and im not high). over my 22 years of life i`ve broken so many things that i got pretty good at covering it, making it look like an accident (someone else`s accident ^_^) or replacing it / fixing it before someone notices. Still if its really fucked up, i just give up and say it... no point in trying and getting yourself in even deeper shit.
wierd is i`ve broken so many things and never got fired for it, but i got fired once for drinking a cup of cofee and not paying for it -__-
- murphy`s law
man, i keep screwing up everything ^_^i keep breaking shit at work, im clumsy and pretty dumb when it comes to handling fragile stuff, and my hands are Huge (and im not high). over my 22 years of life i`ve broken so many things that i got pretty good at covering it, making it look like an accident (someone else`s accident ^_^) or replacing it / fixing it before someone notices. Still if its really fucked up, i just give up and say it... no point in trying and getting yourself in even deeper shit.
wierd is i`ve broken so many things and never got fired for it, but i got fired once for drinking a cup of cofee and not paying for it -__-
I would just make the best of what I have left I guess. There are some things that can be fixed. And who knows, maybe life will improve better in the future if you give it a chance.
