one true love
1 year 2 months ago
Do you think that each person has one true love? Someone who they are meant to be with, or do you think that each person has a number of people that could be their true love depending on the choices they make in life? Kinda the same as saying do you believe in destiny in love.
I personally believe that there's someone(s) out there for everybody. I don't believe that if you miss your chance with someone you thought was "the one" that you'll never have another special someone in your life.
It's also possible to love 2 people at one time. Love isn't something you have one of and it can only go to one person. Faithfulness is important, but one can still be faithful and love another at the same time while still loving the one you're faithful to. Platonic Love and Romantic Love are completely possible at the same time.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that if someoen can love 2 people at one time, it's proof that there's not just ONE someone for you out there.
It's also possible to love 2 people at one time. Love isn't something you have one of and it can only go to one person. Faithfulness is important, but one can still be faithful and love another at the same time while still loving the one you're faithful to. Platonic Love and Romantic Love are completely possible at the same time.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that if someoen can love 2 people at one time, it's proof that there's not just ONE someone for you out there.
1 year 2 months ago
Hmmm... I do believe in both. Because you are the one who leads your life and you are the one who bends your destiny. So the right one for you should be one single person here somewhere on earth,but people are similar and people are hard to find... you must have a lot of luck and knowledge of something that could never be explained to find your way to that one person... In the end I think you make that person to be your only one by yourself and so it could be roughly everyone ^^
I totally think there is someone out there for everyone. You just have to look for that special someone.
1 year 2 months ago
Yeah, I think it'd be a good idea. :) To be realistic, we might not find that special someone in our lives; we might not be able to even meet him or her, much less spend our lives with him or her...But yes, I believe there is someone out there for each of us. You can call it destiny or compatibility; I believe there's someone out there who'll be our perfect match. :D
I think so...i heard a story before bout people who use to have 4 legs and 2 arms...and then the Gods struck them with thunderbolts and they then separated with their other half...and since then people spend their life searching for the missing part of them...

True love..izzit easy to find it? if can find it, will you appreciate it?
1 year 2 months ago
True love, is just an ideology. Not saying that it isnt possible, just saying you probably will never find true love even though you think its true love. Should you be able to ever reach this ideology good luck and congratulations.
I would have to say yes, we all have one true love some place...lol...Even if the person if not real...I have one crazy friend that is in love with an anime girl...lol...But not counting that I would still say yes...
I believe that there's one true love for each person. I think love's something that's eternal. So one couldn't possibly love a number of people eternally. Well its my thoughts though. May be it takes many people to find that one true love.
I can relate to this, because my big sister has found it. The first time she tried to find somebody, that guy wasn't there for her, and it really didn't turn out very well. The second time she tried to find someone that she liked, they dated for about year, and then they broke up by agreement because he wasn't strong enough, and while he was a fraternity brother of mine, it just didn't work out for her.
And then a few weeks after they broke up, as they say, "The third time's the charm." Now this guy turned out to be what oneechan ordered: cool-looking, a person who knows his Japanese, and is just compatible with her interests. He was relevant, and did what the other two couldn't do. They started to consummate their commitment to each other.
Just yesterday, I found out they were engaged. And that comes from finding their "one true love." But they aren't officially married yet. And a lot of things can happen between yesterday, and the wedding day. I just hope that it doesn't turn out to look like one of those romance anime/manga series that we all know about relationships, etc. But it could happen.
And then a few weeks after they broke up, as they say, "The third time's the charm." Now this guy turned out to be what oneechan ordered: cool-looking, a person who knows his Japanese, and is just compatible with her interests. He was relevant, and did what the other two couldn't do. They started to consummate their commitment to each other.
Just yesterday, I found out they were engaged. And that comes from finding their "one true love." But they aren't officially married yet. And a lot of things can happen between yesterday, and the wedding day. I just hope that it doesn't turn out to look like one of those romance anime/manga series that we all know about relationships, etc. But it could happen.
I had one, we were 100% compatible with eachother, but for some reason, it just didn't click for her. Killed me to have to let it be, because she was everything i wanted and nothing i didn't. Oddly enough, it was the same for her from me, but there was a lack of a "click" for her, so we graciously parted ways and moved on. Sad, i still think about her a lot, i know she's having some rough times, and i'd love to help, but to keep from getting sucked in I've decided to keep my distance.
The girl i'm with now is great, i care for her deeply, but she's not perfect for me. There are a couple things about her that i would change, and I don't believe that's right. You should either be 100% compatible or not at all, otherwise those differences will prevent you from being as happy as you could possibly be. They're not big things, but things non-the-less. It's hard to explain, I guess i wouldn't notice it had I not already felt that 100% compatability notion.
I'm still going to work my best to make what I have now work, as she is a great woman. Still, something about not getting that flood of emotion every time i see her, like I once did, leaves an empty feeling at times. I don't feel emotion much anyways, so it's hard not to cling to that which does occur.
Best of luck to you all.
The girl i'm with now is great, i care for her deeply, but she's not perfect for me. There are a couple things about her that i would change, and I don't believe that's right. You should either be 100% compatible or not at all, otherwise those differences will prevent you from being as happy as you could possibly be. They're not big things, but things non-the-less. It's hard to explain, I guess i wouldn't notice it had I not already felt that 100% compatability notion.
I'm still going to work my best to make what I have now work, as she is a great woman. Still, something about not getting that flood of emotion every time i see her, like I once did, leaves an empty feeling at times. I don't feel emotion much anyways, so it's hard not to cling to that which does occur.
Best of luck to you all.
Probably there is a real love for everyone, but I'm sure that it will never happen to me to find that special person. And if I really like someone I act like an idiot so I never have the chance to establish a relationship.
Well you cn't have a one true love sometimes beause..the feelin may not be neutrall..but if you feel like your meant for each other deeply..then what the hack...u r.if at a point you want to establis a relationship..gain courage first
I think that there's one person out there who's meant to be with you. your soulmate, so to say. I know it's kinda icky, but...yeah ^^'
but actually I think it's really hard to find that person...
and yes, you can have relationships with various persons, but maybe, if you find the one, you now what's the difference between the previous ones.
but actually I think it's really hard to find that person...
and yes, you can have relationships with various persons, but maybe, if you find the one, you now what's the difference between the previous ones.














