Happens a lot in high school. It just so happens that the people whom I am near are homosexual. I tend to play along at times (which is wrong), but some of the times are just outright awkward.

it's happened a few times, kind of scary but uh. i usually just mention i'm not interested and they leave me alone :x

diego72

He kept asking me over and over. It ruined my friendship with him. Not because he was gay, but because I just hated being hit on like that. (It would be the same if one of my girl friends kept hitting on me when I told them I wasn't interested.)

I think that's how anyone would have reacted to being harassed cause that's what it was.

Nucleous

I'm no homophobe

You say that but then go on to say "they should keep their comments and ugly asses away from me" Great way to prove you mean it! Aren't you just brilliant!

amerie1994

I was drinking some coffee and some random girl came you to me and gave me a lap dance.

No way!! I would have so died. I don't know how I would have reacted to that but good for you keeping your cool through THAT!

oldjew

Once in a disco there was some guy I didn't know and we just danced a little bit when I felt something touching me from the back and I heard some guys voice whispering hey sweetie xD. A friend of mine asked me if I could go to the side with him to talk and then he told me that the same guy grabbed his ass xD and he was so scared omg and I just laughed at him because he was so shocked about getting his ass grabbed by some other guy :D:D:D

I side with you friend on this on. It's one thing for someone to come p to you and what ever but grabbing your @$$ is a NO NO! Some people just don't know about boundaries.

kaizzen

it took place @ KFC! Upon ordering @ the counter, the guy made a comment along the lines of "you're really handsome "Then mad ea long pause staring @ me...not being gay came as a huge shock... I was lost for words briefly and simply returned a: "thanks but I'm not into that" and awkwardly continued awaited my order..... emoticon

Damn you must REALLY love your KFC, if you stood there after that and so very polite saying thanks and all. Good for you.

npmaster

Being that I am bi, if people starting hitting on me I like it.
In fact there is a chance that it was me hitting on you - if your are a guy.

More power to you that you know what you want and not afraid to go after it!

Archedenex

A girl of 19years comes to me and asks me with a smile:" Hey, you`re really cute, are you a lesbian?". I explained her that I am not a lesbian, but she tries to persuade me

I get what that's like, the same thing has happened to me a few times. Now it doesn't bother me.

blubirdi

once I was hit on by a drunken, older girl in the middle of the night in an alley (don't ask why I was there) and the whole thing felt so spooky I got scared and ran away emoticon I'm not homophobic, but that girl just scares me.

What were you doing there? Just kidding but at night in an ally and being hit on by a DRUNK person(male or female) would be a bit scary. I know I would be scared as well!

MrPerson

I support homosexuality and bisexuality 100%, but I do NOT support the violation of my comfort zone. emoticon There are things that are OK but then there are things that take it too far.

That is very true. Even if it was two persons of the opposite sex in that situation, there is some called BOUNDARIES! Person these days seem to forget that rather easily.

ladyshadowcat

As much as i want to be, I've never been hit on by another girl.
I've been rejected several times but never the other way round.

Now quite what this thread is about but thanks for commenting and being so honest.

megapowertoday

No, I wish I was though, better to be hit on by one sex then no sex

Ever heard that saying "be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it!"?

dgknight500

actually this dude hit on me once. It was at a Chick-fil-a. Funny thing was that i didn't even realize it till my sis pointed it out... i just thought he was being friendly. Needless to say, i haven't gone there since

Oh you poor naive soul! LOL

mirum-rotter

it was pretty funny. I just sort of adapt to what's going on and act stupid, as if I'm unaware of the fact that I'm being hit on. It doesn't bother me so I'm not gonna lash out at them or play along; it's not my style XD
It was actually a girl I work with, but she's a cool person and I like her so I won't hold it against her. I'm pretty laid back when it comes to things like these, I just don't see the big deal.

This has to be my fav. comment in a while. I think this world could use more persons like you; just take everything in stride and not overly serious when it's not necessary.

Shaifs

there was this regular who I knew was gay but it never came up. Anyways he told me to make him a pizza and if it was good he'd give me oral. I was so freaked

And you had every right to be. You didn't even know this person (even id you did) that still a bit much!

sakemonster

This has been happening a lot lately actually.
One of my closest friends is gay, and he's been taking me to a lot of the functions/parties, except I guess everyone just assumes I'm a lesbian, and all the other girls start hitting on me. It's awkward, but kind of funny so

Well since you are hanging out with your friend and he is gay the just assume that you into that king of thing as well. The thing about persons is that the tend to assume a hell of alot even if it's not true. So be prepared for it to continue but you seem to take it pretty well.

ecristy85

Not as yet, but then again I don't look like the ideal female for a lesbian relationship.

There's a "look" now? Trust me when I tell you that you would be surprised at some women that are actually into other chicks!

SaiyukiGS

Never happened to me before...but honestly i'll be flattered..i dont mind experimenting too..eh don't think dirty..i meant platonic-ly...but i enjoy yaoi so i dont mind seeing guys hit on guys...especially when its gay on straight...haha..

I'm a yaoi fan myself so I love that comment especially the part about gay on straight! LOL

ZigZag88

Since I'm a dude (and a straight one at that), if I get hit on by another guy, I am socially expected to either act highly offended and reject hardcore or just beat the crap out of the other guy.That being said, I just te4ll the other guy I'm straight and leave without changing my composure so as to avoid any public enbarassment for either of us.

That is so much better that how most straight guys react to being hit on by another guy, so good for you. Doing that; you leave an unwanted situation and the other person doesn't feel that bad but know there is nothing doing.

Regatta

Happened when i'm in shower in fitness center.. He stand outside my shower and i thought he just wait to use shower but he peeped me.

And when i want to go out, he gave me his phone number

What a total FREAK! Poor you.

As usual thanks to all those who commented and keep the comments coming!

Yes, I have, numerous times. The most recent one was kind of creepy, though. I was at the movie theater with my friends and I started to not feel so good, so I left the movie and went to sit outside on the bench and wait for them to get out. Then, these two girls that I didn't even know came and sat with me out of no where and started flirting LIKE CRAZY. They even started talking about me when I was right there saying 'flirty' stuff about me.. I was like "uuhh, y'know I can hear you right?", I didn't feel good still so I just smiled and left n' went into the mall that we have right next to our movie theater. Guess what? They followed me.. What the hell? That's kind of scary, although they were obviously not meaning it in a stalker way, more of a "fun" flirting way. =P

The movie was then almost done, so I went back into the movie theater and waited outside their movie for them to get out and, of course, the two girls were right behind me and ended up asking me for my phone number. I hate hurting people's feelings so I gave it to them, yes. But my number sounds fake, so Im pretty sure they thought I gave them a fake number and didn't add it anyway. xD

I then left with my friends to go home, they were all joking around calling me a playa for getting asked my phone number by two girls, was a weird, but funny night LoL. :D Sorry for the length of my story.

I wouldnt like guys hitting on me..unless i get something out of ir :/

Haha yes. Though it was by one of my friends. We're both bisexual, but she didn't know I was at the time. I really don't know if she was doing it to freak me out or what, but it didn't bother me.

Possibly, but I may have convinced myself otherwise. I would not react kindly to it if it were blatant.

I havent been hit on by someone by the same sex.

just i think i would just take it as a joke and ignore the person

Yeah! I'd play with him, I'm not gay but i'm not serious with it too
I have a feeling that i should threat well with anyone that say some kind of "like me"
Be friend...

I worked at a restaurant for about 2 yrs so I got hit on by chicks and dudes...here're my worst stories, though:
I got hit on by a regular of mine: a 45 yr old balding cane-using fat guy at a restaurant I was working at...he offered me alcohol and was creepy so I had him kicked out.
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Inversely I was hit on by a Filipino kid who was 2 yrs younger than me a couple months later and told me he was "mad at me for being straight."
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I have no problems with the homos, but why is it that they ask for respect yet they disrespect me because my sexual orientation isn't the same as theirs?