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this new style is wierd i might chane it back...oh well bye for now i be back later! Looks or personality?
Personality.
Sorry but a prettty face wont last forever.
I greatly dislike vanity.
Sorry but a prettty face wont last forever.
I greatly dislike vanity.
3 weeks 3 days ago
Definetly personality :)
When you're looking for a girlfirend you want to have someone that you can get along with, and you want to be with her all the time. Furthermore when you've good personality it will shine and when you look at the person , you'll realized that she is very beautiful haha.
When you're looking for a girlfirend you want to have someone that you can get along with, and you want to be with her all the time. Furthermore when you've good personality it will shine and when you look at the person , you'll realized that she is very beautiful haha.
This will burn some people but let's be realistic. Everyone wants to get laid and would often choose looks over personality.
One thing to be mindful of is that we must not think of it in extremes. Yes, person A might have a more pleasant body to look at than person B--but person B can counteract his/her "deficiency" by grooming themselves and to at the least look presentable.
Looking like a bum or an unwashed otaku would be one of the biggest turnoffs ever--and it doesn't take much to groom yourself so why not do so?
The answer for me is both. I have certain standards for looks and personality, and thankfully I've achieved that.
One thing to be mindful of is that we must not think of it in extremes. Yes, person A might have a more pleasant body to look at than person B--but person B can counteract his/her "deficiency" by grooming themselves and to at the least look presentable.
Looking like a bum or an unwashed otaku would be one of the biggest turnoffs ever--and it doesn't take much to groom yourself so why not do so?
The answer for me is both. I have certain standards for looks and personality, and thankfully I've achieved that.
True, but
Many of us have self control.
Its a wonderful and terrible thing ^ ^; believe it.
Triste
This will burn some people but let's be realistic. Everyone wants to get laid and would often choose looks over personality.
One thing to be mindful of is that we must not think of it in extremes. Yes, person A might have a more pleasant body to look at than person B--but person B can counteract his/her "deficiency" by grooming themselves and to at the least look presentable.
Looking like a bum or an unwashed otaku would be one of the biggest turnoffs ever--and it doesn't take much to groom yourself so why not do so?
The answer for me is both. I have certain standards for looks and personality, and thankfully I've achieved that.
Many of us have self control.
Its a wonderful and terrible thing ^ ^; believe it.
I kinda agree to Triste to some extent...
I mean, usually our first instinct to go with is how good looking a person is. I mean, doesn't crushes usually start that way?
I think the pretty looks = bad personality & ugly looks = good personality is too much of a stereotype; so I don't think it's necessarily true anymore. I had crushes on a lot of good looking guys back then; I got to know them better and most of them were pretty cool to know. I never dated them, but I became good buddies with them for awhile.
But yeah, just like the majority, I'm more towards the personality of a person. What's the point if we have absolutely nothing in common to talk about? BUT, good looks is on a plus side as well.
My hubby can be such a dork and nerdy at times, to the point that I'd totally be embarrassed being with him. He may not have a body shaped like Jin Kazama from Tekken or Dante from Devil May Cry 3, but he's still pretty good looking. We have quite a bit of stuff in common, and we play online and console games together. All in all, I love the guy no matter what. XD
I mean, usually our first instinct to go with is how good looking a person is. I mean, doesn't crushes usually start that way?
I think the pretty looks = bad personality & ugly looks = good personality is too much of a stereotype; so I don't think it's necessarily true anymore. I had crushes on a lot of good looking guys back then; I got to know them better and most of them were pretty cool to know. I never dated them, but I became good buddies with them for awhile.
But yeah, just like the majority, I'm more towards the personality of a person. What's the point if we have absolutely nothing in common to talk about? BUT, good looks is on a plus side as well.
My hubby can be such a dork and nerdy at times, to the point that I'd totally be embarrassed being with him. He may not have a body shaped like Jin Kazama from Tekken or Dante from Devil May Cry 3, but he's still pretty good looking. We have quite a bit of stuff in common, and we play online and console games together. All in all, I love the guy no matter what. XD
3 weeks 1 day ago
In all honesty, for me it goes more towards personality. From a personal experience, looks can be everything but if they don't have the personality then it's really not point unless you're really into someone with a bad one. For a person to have a great personality it's easier to connect more and understand each other and even care for each other a lot but with someone who has a bad personality then it's like saying "Do we really care for each other?"
The way I really see it is that all looks do is give you the first impression on whether or not you will approach a girl. After that, if they don't have the personality to boot I'll get bored. You can only last so long with looks alone if you ask me. Another way I see it is that when the personality is good attraction to that person will eventually grow.
3 weeks 1 day ago
Mmm...Tough question ta be sure...Nah not really. Personality comes first of course. Sure good looks are an added bonus an' all but substance is what's important right...Errr...right? *Swiftly produces a looking glass from outta nowhere* Dude...I ROCKETH...*
Both, but looks come first 
of course, you have to have both of them
of course, you have to have both of them
my little asian bunny 
For me, it's about the personality.
But yeah, a lot of men and women count on the looks. Looks also gives a hint of what is inside. o-o
But yeah, a lot of men and women count on the looks. Looks also gives a hint of what is inside. o-o
I would put personality first, since you would want someone who you can understand, but good looks are a plus over personality. But then again, I judge by looks first to give me an impression, since it can indicate the personality, but not always... :P
3 weeks 4 hours ago
Mmmm i dunno i think i am not attracted to the most pretty girls dunno why. i think i find other girls that aren't very pretty but pretty in a other way, way more attractive. but on first i go after looks, but personal is more important.
Greets
Irritated Pizza
(male)
Greets
Irritated Pizza
(male)
I am a liar if I said that personality matter most... I think most people will judge someone from their looks rather than their personalities in their first met...
Looks is important but having good personalities will make someone looks better or maybe almost perfect... but, I guess each person opinion about perfections is different...
Looks is important but having good personalities will make someone looks better or maybe almost perfect... but, I guess each person opinion about perfections is different...
Always in my mind^0^b
Being honest I wouldn't make my girlfriend someone who I'm not attracted to physically at all. Average looking with personality would be good.
But If I had to choose one, it would be PERSONALITY!
But If I had to choose one, it would be PERSONALITY!
2 weeks 5 days ago
I don't think I can really imagine wanting to be with a girl that I thought had a bad personality.