Looks or personality?
Personality comes first to me.
Over the years I've realized that there are more rigid, self absorbed, sex obsessed people than normal, polite and kind people. You just have to learn how to recognize them.
Often those self absorbed pricks have gorgeous faces and beautiful bodies and at first they treat you nicely and are very friendly to you. But when you get to know them, when you see what they do, when you hear what they really think, you'll realize what a fool you have been. And at that point that beautiful person becomes the ugliest scum that you won't be able to look at anymore. =.=
You won't notice a polite and kind person. They often look ordinary, plain like every other person, or they have some kind of flaw in their looks. But a person who is honest, friendly and willing to help you anytime, will in my eyes look more beautiful and those flaws if he has them will seem as the cute part of him.
Over the years I've realized that there are more rigid, self absorbed, sex obsessed people than normal, polite and kind people. You just have to learn how to recognize them.
Often those self absorbed pricks have gorgeous faces and beautiful bodies and at first they treat you nicely and are very friendly to you. But when you get to know them, when you see what they do, when you hear what they really think, you'll realize what a fool you have been. And at that point that beautiful person becomes the ugliest scum that you won't be able to look at anymore. =.=
You won't notice a polite and kind person. They often look ordinary, plain like every other person, or they have some kind of flaw in their looks. But a person who is honest, friendly and willing to help you anytime, will in my eyes look more beautiful and those flaws if he has them will seem as the cute part of him.
A man's nature is usually obvious. Our sex-drive is so strong that we do not care about anything else than good looks first. In our hearts we want it, but we do not express it openly for the obvious reasons.
Personallity is to me the most important, because if you don't have any similar topic with this cute one the better is to choose the ugly one and enjoy spending time talking about nice funny things that you both like, and not some gel he use on this "really awesome hair"
4 months 1 day ago
Dunno... I mean it depends on what you wanna do...
I mean, even if you think I'm being offensive or something, if you're just interested in sex then you don't need the conversation, you just need the person to look HOT!
I tend to think that if you want a long term relationship you get to overlook the looks because sex isn't all in a relationship...
Looks are important because they are things you first see. But, you can't get a person's right inside just by looking at her... But again, it depends on what you really wanna do with that person... seriously, can you really make love to someone who is franckly ugly? I know I wouldn't! A minimum is required!
I mean, even if you think I'm being offensive or something, if you're just interested in sex then you don't need the conversation, you just need the person to look HOT!
I tend to think that if you want a long term relationship you get to overlook the looks because sex isn't all in a relationship...
Looks are important because they are things you first see. But, you can't get a person's right inside just by looking at her... But again, it depends on what you really wanna do with that person... seriously, can you really make love to someone who is franckly ugly? I know I wouldn't! A minimum is required!
Let's ask my multiple personalities:
Emo: As long as she loves me...[Personality]
Otaku: If she's into anime...[Personality]
Gamer:" " " video games...[Personality]
Pervert: Looks. Period.{Looks}
Gentleman: A well balanced woman...(Both)
Results: Looks=1.5 and Personality=3.5
Behold my genius.
Emo: As long as she loves me...[Personality]
Otaku: If she's into anime...[Personality]
Gamer:" " " video games...[Personality]
Pervert: Looks. Period.{Looks}
Gentleman: A well balanced woman...(Both)
Results: Looks=1.5 and Personality=3.5
Behold my genius.
3 months 4 weeks ago
I was about to say personality.. until I remembered the guy who was working at Tropical Smoothie Cafe yesterday. I'd rather have a cutie with a good strong personality. I don't want anyone in an extreme.
3 months 3 weeks ago
roxasora
Both are important to me, but unfortunately you can't get to know personality as soon as looks
Word.
You're not going to purposefully approach the person you think is less attractive thinking- I'm sure they have a great personality.
3 months 3 weeks ago
A mixture of both, I suppose.
It's odd - I myself am not at all attractive, and yet I am very picky with the guys I consider attractive. If I were to someday get a boyfriend or the like, he would have to be up to my attractiveness standards. ;p I suppose I watch too much anime. Too many bishies can be detrimental to one's sanity.
But personality is definitely very important to me as well. I consider most straight guys to be douchebags on some level, and no matter how pretty their face might be I wouldn't look at them twice if they seemed too jerky. Though it's hard to judge upon sight, ne? Plus, I have certain... personality qualifications in mind for a significant other - qualifications that are fairly difficult to find. D;
So yeah. Both are important to me.
It's odd - I myself am not at all attractive, and yet I am very picky with the guys I consider attractive. If I were to someday get a boyfriend or the like, he would have to be up to my attractiveness standards. ;p I suppose I watch too much anime. Too many bishies can be detrimental to one's sanity.
But personality is definitely very important to me as well. I consider most straight guys to be douchebags on some level, and no matter how pretty their face might be I wouldn't look at them twice if they seemed too jerky. Though it's hard to judge upon sight, ne? Plus, I have certain... personality qualifications in mind for a significant other - qualifications that are fairly difficult to find. D;
So yeah. Both are important to me.
Hmmm...well it has to be a mixture of both, doesn't it? I mean I think personality matters more (so if I had to answer your question bluntly, yes, I'd take the personality) but you also have to be attracted to the guy you're going to be with forever, you know? Some sort of chemistry.
3 months 2 weeks ago
Wow, that's difficult. I would rather just stay single. I mean having a really good looking person is ideal in a relationship, but mostly for *cough* physical stuff and fantasies. But relationships also need compatibility and someone you can talk to.
In general, I tend to go for looks (but he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous) first and then personality. If he's good looking with a sucky personality, I wouldn't date him.
In general, I tend to go for looks (but he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous) first and then personality. If he's good looking with a sucky personality, I wouldn't date him.
3 months 2 weeks ago
Personality, of course!
3 months 2 weeks ago
Personality all the way! They can look like a statue but if their IQ is less than that of turtle than there is no way! Sometimes the guys who literally look like crap can look the best because their personality is what you notice, not how they look. If they make me laugh with a degree of wit involved than that is the man for me!
People change, seasons change, faces change, time changes, life changes and everything changes.
As we still live, we meet many people with different personalities; we don’t know who is good and who the bad is, who deserves to be friend with and who doesn’t.
Some people go for the looks; those people in fact pay much attention to what other people may say about their friend/lover or whoever, because they actually want other people to say "Whoa! You have got a hot friend/lover" Or perhaps they rather think people will get jealous because of their hot friend/lover.
Some other people go for the personality, as they believe the real beauty isn’t in the look, it is in reality something within the heart and the soul, so as long as you have a good heart and a pure soul then you're beautiful enough to be noticed by others, hence there is no reason for those people to care about the looks and the styles.
So they live their life knowing that looks is not a big reason so they can at least enjoy the brilliant friendship they have!
Some people go for both the looks and the personality, because they probably care about what others say, in the same time they as well care about the heart and the kindness, due to that I can put in the picture of those people that they lack confidence and need to focus on the subject of their own thought of beauty whether if it is really in the look nor in the heart.
Overall, what I myself go for is the personality, since I deem that people might change their look, or I'd rather say people age so they will not look the same forever, on account of that I can't trust the looks and the personality either, yet I have some hope while it comes to the personality because not all of people change their personality as I believe that most of them would like to have their own personality that others identify!
That was my opinion about your question, maybe I wrote a bit too much, but still I will be checking out this topic so as to see if there is anybody agreeing with what I've said.
As we still live, we meet many people with different personalities; we don’t know who is good and who the bad is, who deserves to be friend with and who doesn’t.
Some people go for the looks; those people in fact pay much attention to what other people may say about their friend/lover or whoever, because they actually want other people to say "Whoa! You have got a hot friend/lover" Or perhaps they rather think people will get jealous because of their hot friend/lover.
Some other people go for the personality, as they believe the real beauty isn’t in the look, it is in reality something within the heart and the soul, so as long as you have a good heart and a pure soul then you're beautiful enough to be noticed by others, hence there is no reason for those people to care about the looks and the styles.
So they live their life knowing that looks is not a big reason so they can at least enjoy the brilliant friendship they have!
Some people go for both the looks and the personality, because they probably care about what others say, in the same time they as well care about the heart and the kindness, due to that I can put in the picture of those people that they lack confidence and need to focus on the subject of their own thought of beauty whether if it is really in the look nor in the heart.
Overall, what I myself go for is the personality, since I deem that people might change their look, or I'd rather say people age so they will not look the same forever, on account of that I can't trust the looks and the personality either, yet I have some hope while it comes to the personality because not all of people change their personality as I believe that most of them would like to have their own personality that others identify!
That was my opinion about your question, maybe I wrote a bit too much, but still I will be checking out this topic so as to see if there is anybody agreeing with what I've said.
There are different people with different opinions so please be tolerant. i personaly go first looks and then personality i really don't care if a girl has super personality but is super ugly like chewbaca or monster frankenstein from underground. but i don't like girls with good look and that are stupid pornstars.
2 months 3 weeks ago
50-50... I guess XDD I'm a lil' bit perfecsionist~~~ but I guess the 1st is look, then if he/she have a good personality, get em, but if not, LONG KISS BYE!!





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