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Looks or personality?
2 months 3 weeks ago
Both obviously. can't have one without the other. anybody who say personality is the only thing that matters are wrong, not only are you lying to yourself but you're lying to your significant other (if that's the case). Physical attraction is just as important. and of course beauty is objective, so it's all good. understandably some people will seem more attractive the more you get to know them, so that can also work in your favor
For me personally its all about personality i think when you want to be with someone it should be because you like them for who they on hte inside... okay yea he may not be the hottest guy ou ther but he maybe cute to you and who cares what other people say about him, he's for you not them. you shouldn't be looking for anyone's approval... that's just something i do when i look for a guy and yes ill addmit that they look cute to me when others say they're not...
2 months 2 weeks ago
I prefer personality .. whats the point of a relationship if you can't even have a proper conversation with them? and I just find it more attractive to have a witty guy ready to come back with a smart-ass response XD
2 months 2 weeks ago
Both of them are necessary for me but more the personality.. I don't like to be with a good-looking girl who talks only about others lifes or theirselves or the yesterday night party. I am sort superficial...
2 months 2 weeks ago
Both with high preference to looks.
2 months 2 weeks ago
For me, looks are significantly more important than personality. I look for girls with both, but if I had to chose between a 10 with no personality, or a 6 who’s awesome as a person, I‘d take the 10. It’s a moot point anyway. I’d never ever find myself attracted to a woman’s personality unless I’m attracted to her looks first. However, if I could take a high 7, or 8 with good personality over a witless bombshell, I’d take the 7/8 girl.
I’m shallow. At least I’m honest, though, and I’m not a hypocrite. I don’t condemn women who value looks either. They deserve no more scorn than us shallow men, and to be fair, most peoples’ perspective on the matter is shaped entirely on whether they have looks, or don’t. A lot of times, people who are ugly are self-righteous hypocrites who believe looks shouldn’t matter… to the sex they wish to attract, that is.
I’m shallow. At least I’m honest, though, and I’m not a hypocrite. I don’t condemn women who value looks either. They deserve no more scorn than us shallow men, and to be fair, most peoples’ perspective on the matter is shaped entirely on whether they have looks, or don’t. A lot of times, people who are ugly are self-righteous hypocrites who believe looks shouldn’t matter… to the sex they wish to attract, that is.
2 months 1 week ago
It is hard to say.
The appearance is important at first look.
But personality is also important~
The appearance is important at first look.
But personality is also important~
2 months 6 days ago
I think that its about half looks, half personality, OR , more commonly, something like 60/40 [looks/personality]. Be honest with yourself; isn't looks one of the first things you look for in the opposite sex? Even if their personality was the first thing that drew you in, and got you interested in them, their looks must have also been a factor to consider when making decisions such as taking your friendship further, etc. Someone cannot just be all looks or all personality, there has to a mix of the two, not necessarily in balance, of course. Hopefully though, people appreciate personality more than looks, because looks can only get a person so far; personality is much more 'real' and connects people more. As for myself, I won't lie; I'd say it's 60/40 for me [looks/personality].
Honestly, i would look at the looks first, but in the end it would eventually all come down to the personality. i would never stay with someone with a crappy personality. But at the sametime...i can't handle with a person with looks thats "all the way down there" (no offence) > its just a turn off most the time.
1 month 3 weeks ago
Well yea I agree with most of you i tend to prefer personality over looks , cause they might be hot but if i cant stand them theres no point in it.
Personality is more important to me than what the guy looks like but I'm first often attracted to a person by their looks, most people are. It's not 'til I get to know what they are like though do I develop more of a liking for them.
Looks don't matter to me as much as hygiene does... I'd rather date someone clean & ugly/average-looking than someone good-looking & dirty. XD I mainly go for personality, but looking good isn't a bad bonus. ;)
1 month 11 hours ago
In today's society look counts most amen.
I won't be a hypocrite, looks are far more important to me considering my gf.
And I know plenty of people (especially girls), who only go after looks.
I won't be a hypocrite, looks are far more important to me considering my gf.
And I know plenty of people (especially girls), who only go after looks.
1 month 10 hours ago
Can't ever have the full package... not usually
So I'd have to go with looks. I'd rather have someone I could look at when I'm talking to, rather than look away from in every conversation. Heck you have to go out in public too... Don't you want to be proud of what you have?
So I'd have to go with looks. I'd rather have someone I could look at when I'm talking to, rather than look away from in every conversation. Heck you have to go out in public too... Don't you want to be proud of what you have?
4 weeks 2 days ago
Neither. I do have "standards" though: Good personality to begin with but at least with looks that isn't like some monster. >_<