Looks or personality?
Personality above all else. If you and your significant other can not even get along due to personality conflicts, it doesn't matter how beautiful she might be.
More than looks, I see intelligence as the strongest point on a person to find him atractive. Also, there must be chemistry for things to work out and, well, being honest, he must be good-natured and his looks has to be if only a little acceptable to me
So, a little of both are a good combination.
So, a little of both are a good combination.
They are one in the same in my opinion. I don't go for high maintenance girls so that knocks them out of the running right off the top. The way you look tells me almost everything about your personality. There are two girls in my MWF class, and neither of them is beautiful, but their both cute in their own way. What sets them apart is their personalities and how that is displayed in their own style. One has a very relaxed and easy going personality and a funky style. The other is almost as cool, but is hesitant about everything and doubtful of herself and it shows in her behavior.
The power of personality makes itself known in one's looks and behavior.
The cool thing is that everyone has a different type. Some girls like a strong guy who takes charge. Some girls like guys who are passive and they can play mother to. Some guys like fragile girls that they can protect. Some want a girl who will challenge them. One thing I believe though is that no one likes a person who has no social grace. No one likes a person who is overly boastful or incredibly insecure. Well, thats not true for everyone, just for me.
The power of personality makes itself known in one's looks and behavior.
The cool thing is that everyone has a different type. Some girls like a strong guy who takes charge. Some girls like guys who are passive and they can play mother to. Some guys like fragile girls that they can protect. Some want a girl who will challenge them. One thing I believe though is that no one likes a person who has no social grace. No one likes a person who is overly boastful or incredibly insecure. Well, thats not true for everyone, just for me.
4 months 6 days ago
I am the kind of person who goes mostly for personality, drop dead looks are just a bonus's. At the same time i do tend to avoid the utterly hideous looking people, and many of the heavy set ones.
I think it's hard to choose a girl just by seeing her personality.. After all,chosing a girl wasn't from her personality but from her feeling to us..(anyone agree..
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So don't choose a girl from her personality.. Since you ask me, I can give you 1 answer
If the girl is hot,got a poor personality,but love you from her deep heart,u can have her as your girlfriend..
If the girl is ugly,got a best ability,but don't love you from her deep heart, it's no use for taking her as your girl friend
)So don't choose a girl from her personality.. Since you ask me, I can give you 1 answer
If the girl is hot,got a poor personality,but love you from her deep heart,u can have her as your girlfriend..
If the girl is ugly,got a best ability,but don't love you from her deep heart, it's no use for taking her as your girl friend
4 months 6 days ago
Some people will say looks doesn't important, but in my opinion i choose someone from its looks first, cause personality can be changes as time goes by.
To me, personality is more important.
When it comes to a relationship you have to have a pull between two people before they actually knew each other. If you haven't noticed, good looking people usually date good looking people, normal people date normal people, and weird people date weird people, if you go by appearance. There are those few exceptions like someone got lucky, but the real issue is when someone has gotten to know the real you. So in the end, appearance doesn't matter and only personality.
But that was just my own preference and opinion, but reality is not as black and white as the theory.
When it comes to a relationship you have to have a pull between two people before they actually knew each other. If you haven't noticed, good looking people usually date good looking people, normal people date normal people, and weird people date weird people, if you go by appearance. There are those few exceptions like someone got lucky, but the real issue is when someone has gotten to know the real you. So in the end, appearance doesn't matter and only personality.
But that was just my own preference and opinion, but reality is not as black and white as the theory.
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4 months 6 days ago
Its all bout Connection ^^
Whats the point in having someone thats "HOT" if there isnt much connection
So yea...Personality
Whats the point in having someone thats "HOT" if there isnt much connection
So yea...Personality
4 months 5 days ago
Looks, but if they were idiots/incompetent, then, I dunno.
I value intelligence... So I'm not sure. Usually I'll go for the ones who are weirder than the rest. Still, I have no experience in these type of things. Looks are important, and so are what they are wearing, but I think if they wear somthing weird or ugly, I think it's because they like it, it's their personality. I'll take the smartest. :P
4 months 3 days ago
Personality is definitely what matters. Looks are just a bonus till you get to be about 20 years older. ;D
Id have to go with personality cause looks comes with a price sometimes , and sometimes id want to strangle those kinds to death , but luckyily i have a girlfriend with both looks and personality =D
The only point to a relationship is to actually have a relationship with someone.
I for one cannot and will not let myself go for someone who has a poor personality but has a great body, because would there be a point to that in the long run?
It wouldn't go anywhere. They're just eye candy to me, nothing more.
If I fall in love with personality, or who someone is when they're painfully ugly, sure it'll suck that they're ugly (because it'd be nice if they looked good), but in the long run I really did fall in love with *them* and the only way i can fall in love with someone is if it is really just, *them*. So, there would be no point to complaining about looks right? They don't matter in the end.
And like other people have said, to add to that, when you get older you ain't so pretty :p
I for one cannot and will not let myself go for someone who has a poor personality but has a great body, because would there be a point to that in the long run?
It wouldn't go anywhere. They're just eye candy to me, nothing more.
If I fall in love with personality, or who someone is when they're painfully ugly, sure it'll suck that they're ugly (because it'd be nice if they looked good), but in the long run I really did fall in love with *them* and the only way i can fall in love with someone is if it is really just, *them*. So, there would be no point to complaining about looks right? They don't matter in the end.
And like other people have said, to add to that, when you get older you ain't so pretty :p
Hard one, since you are attracted to someone looks in the first meeting. Later on the personality is going to do it's part but I think that the personality part goes faster for girls instead for boys.
Boys keep looking to the girl firts, body, eyes etc he doesn't do that in 3 sec but all the time. Girls are different with that.
But in the end both parts take the same role, fifthy fifthy. Girls want a good looking guy though they say not, they do. Same goes for boys, what we all claim to know so well and that they hardly care about the personality, which I think is a sad thing that has come into the world :\
First look then talk, after that you shall know if you like that person or not ;)
Boys keep looking to the girl firts, body, eyes etc he doesn't do that in 3 sec but all the time. Girls are different with that.
But in the end both parts take the same role, fifthy fifthy. Girls want a good looking guy though they say not, they do. Same goes for boys, what we all claim to know so well and that they hardly care about the personality, which I think is a sad thing that has come into the world :\
First look then talk, after that you shall know if you like that person or not ;)
Personally, I think personality outweigh the looks...
Good looking person without good personality looks bad...
So, I prefer good personality than looks..
If she/he has both, that's better...
Good looking person without good personality looks bad...
So, I prefer good personality than looks..
If she/he has both, that's better...





@Hina : lol maybe you're right xDDD 







