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.......... Thewarangel, what is this?? "什麼是AP ？" ....
?? Did you get betrayed?
I agree with gloomfox, sounds like sage advice.
I was recently betrayed by a close friend of mine, it was awful, it still makes me somewhat sad to think about it, but ultimately it was a big learning experience about people and life. I'm only human and still have difficulty trying to forgive, but I'm trying. And I'm not giving up on people either, just more careful.
Just keep in mind that no matter how close, kind, chummy, or forgiving you can be with people, they can still be selfish enough to hurt you. It's important to hold them to your expectations, but it is a real and painful reality that they can break with your standards. That could be a fault of their immaturity or a fault of your standards, but in any case when you've opened yourself up like that it can of course be really painful. I think it's important to forgive, or at least learn to forgive, not just for their sake, but for your own as well. Whether the friendship can continue from there will depend on the circumstances, of how deep the betrayal cuts and how willing everyone involved is in salvaging the relationship.
I was recently betrayed by a close friend of mine, it was awful, it still makes me somewhat sad to think about it, but ultimately it was a big learning experience about people and life. I'm only human and still have difficulty trying to forgive, but I'm trying. And I'm not giving up on people either, just more careful.
Just keep in mind that no matter how close, kind, chummy, or forgiving you can be with people, they can still be selfish enough to hurt you. It's important to hold them to your expectations, but it is a real and painful reality that they can break with your standards. That could be a fault of their immaturity or a fault of your standards, but in any case when you've opened yourself up like that it can of course be really painful. I think it's important to forgive, or at least learn to forgive, not just for their sake, but for your own as well. Whether the friendship can continue from there will depend on the circumstances, of how deep the betrayal cuts and how willing everyone involved is in salvaging the relationship.
3 months 1 week ago
Hi guys again
I'm sorry if this topic caused a little of misunderstanding. I'm not telling you to say what happened to your. That's because it is of course something very personal. So what I'm aiming for is just to share the idea of being betrayed, the feelings and so on. You can just tell by experience the sage advice.
I'm really happy to share opinions with you. That's all.
I'm sorry if this topic caused a little of misunderstanding. I'm not telling you to say what happened to your. That's because it is of course something very personal. So what I'm aiming for is just to share the idea of being betrayed, the feelings and so on. You can just tell by experience the sage advice.
I'm really happy to share opinions with you. That's all.
I have a wonderful best friend who I feel so close to because we've been through a lot together. She is someone I can confide to about everything. Even embarressing moments or things that I could never tell anyone else. Feelings and emotions that I'm not proud to feel I can confess to her, and she helps me solve my problems.
However, I felt very distanced from her when she started going out with the guy I had really really liked for about 2 years. They had gone out before, which she had hid from me and didn't tell me till they had broken up, and just the fact that it was all happening to me again was ironic and heart-breaking.
Since then we've made up. I still feel like I could tell her anything.
However, I felt very distanced from her when she started going out with the guy I had really really liked for about 2 years. They had gone out before, which she had hid from me and didn't tell me till they had broken up, and just the fact that it was all happening to me again was ironic and heart-breaking.
Since then we've made up. I still feel like I could tell her anything.
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3 months 6 days ago
Yap, sometimes
i feel lonely life in earth ^^
can someone help me *for our life*
i feel lonely life in earth ^^
can someone help me *for our life*
Sayounara *see next time in heaven*
Life is about sad moments and happy moments, So I guess there is no-one on earth who has never been down or so.
The feeling when you actually been betrayed is just like the unhealing wound, You feel like the hopes closed its doors right in your face, There is no-where to run to, There is no-one to listen to, Only suffering from the loneliness, Everything for you seem to be so dark and such a mystery, You feel lost and hurt due to the strange place you think you'll be at, This strange place is the heart of the new friend, lover and so whatever that you never make sure for how long you'll stay right inside it, You feel kind of panicked but as long as you set deep in the hollow gently soon those fears and feelings fade away little by little.
That what I have felt when I was betrayed.
The feeling when you actually been betrayed is just like the unhealing wound, You feel like the hopes closed its doors right in your face, There is no-where to run to, There is no-one to listen to, Only suffering from the loneliness, Everything for you seem to be so dark and such a mystery, You feel lost and hurt due to the strange place you think you'll be at, This strange place is the heart of the new friend, lover and so whatever that you never make sure for how long you'll stay right inside it, You feel kind of panicked but as long as you set deep in the hollow gently soon those fears and feelings fade away little by little.
That what I have felt when I was betrayed.
2 months 4 weeks ago
Not really. Probably because the betrayal was so petty I didn't notice it.
Lol, life is always unexpected, and i sometime feel betray by my own parents when they dont stand and take on my side for something i know i was rights, but life goes on and dont realli stop at that point, so just forget them and move on
It's happened to me. and sadly, I've done it before.. I try to justify it, but, I guess everyone does. It's difficult when it happens.
2 months 2 weeks ago
Yea i have been betrayed too... by someone who said they were a friend in need, I was in year 11 and well they did everything you could do to betray someone
1. stole money from my room (I let her live with me stupid I know but I thought she was a friend)
2. lied to my friends and family about me (this was to the extreme)
3. tried to hit on my boyfriend (lucky he was so not interested)
4. lied to the teachers at school to get me in trouble
5. As well as lied to me about ... everything
6. stole more of my possessions >.>
so that's about it, you just need to not make the same mistakes twice this was a very important life lesson for me I guess...
look on the bright side and all that ^^'
1. stole money from my room (I let her live with me stupid I know but I thought she was a friend)
2. lied to my friends and family about me (this was to the extreme)
3. tried to hit on my boyfriend (lucky he was so not interested)
4. lied to the teachers at school to get me in trouble
5. As well as lied to me about ... everything
6. stole more of my possessions >.>
so that's about it, you just need to not make the same mistakes twice this was a very important life lesson for me I guess...
look on the bright side and all that ^^'
1 month 4 weeks ago
Yes. But I must say it's really painful. But I am quite used to it now.
1 month 3 weeks ago
It happened a bunch of times to me.
But I'm not upset because of it. Every time it's happened I've learned from it. So nothing was a loss in the end.
But I'm not upset because of it. Every time it's happened I've learned from it. So nothing was a loss in the end.
I've been betrayed many times over, so these days, and probably for a long time on, I'm not really interested in getting close to people. I made many mistakes letting people get very close to me, and in the end when they did do something bad, it hurt ten times worse. I think the worst part was probably that all of these betrayals were done at the worst possible moments. The moments where I could have used a bit of help or assistance the most, that's when these people decided to turn their backs, disown me or do something else.
Ah well. Live and learn.
Ah well. Live and learn.
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Yes I've been betrayed by my closest friend. She did it right to my face too and not once but twice, I feel really sad and angry when I think about it.The first time was actually worse, I kind of regret giving her a second chance after that. I do believe in the whole "forgive and forget" thing but I found out that unfortunately, some things can't be forgiven or forgotten. We are, after all, only human but I can never hold a grudge against anyone.
Who hasn't been betrayed?This should be your question!The answer is simple.None!
3 weeks 4 days ago
Yeah, i've been betrayed many times, im still in school. My crush and her friends betrayed me in a way that is... bad? I'm used to it now. Though i see more disasters ahead.