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who do you tell problems with??
I never had the chance to tell my family my problem... i always turn on to my friends but i guess they can't always be there for you... how hard can it be!?... does it always have to be that's it's always up to me!?... yeah i know i have to solve my own dilemma's but it sure is better if you have someone out there who could help you, right!?... how about you guys who do you turn on to!?
"tHe oNLy pERSon YoU cAn AlWaYs dEpEnD On iS gOd aNd YouRSElF"
Both. Friends for little things. Family when it's really serious.
"Fourteen cannibal kings, Wondering blindly what the dinner bell will bring
Fifteen celebrity minds, Served on a leafy bed of sixteen military wives" ~ The Decemberists
2 years 1 week ago
Honestly, I don't really tell anyone. I'd be more likely to tell someone that I talk to online a lot rather than someone that I have met in real life and see on a day to day basis. I've always been that way though, keeping things to myself and such.
To *naquarianna - well yeah... but it's kinda hard if your not close with your family members...
to $pipcorona - wow... you really do keep it to yourself... i think that's hard cuz what if one time and all the feelings youve kept will just erupt... wow that sure is hard...!?
to $pipcorona - wow... you really do keep it to yourself... i think that's hard cuz what if one time and all the feelings youve kept will just erupt... wow that sure is hard...!?
"tHe oNLy pERSon YoU cAn AlWaYs dEpEnD On iS gOd aNd YouRSElF"
It depends on the problem...generally both(always depending on the problem) but some of my problems are unknown to the whole world as I keep them to myself and I don't ask for help or advices...but that's about the 1% of them...but I think that it depends also on the relasionship you have with your family/friends:
if you have a good relashionship with your family you'll be able to tell them that you have a problem- if your relationship is not so beautiful you'll find it hard to ask fot their advices...and I think it's the same with your friends...
if you have a good relashionship with your family you'll be able to tell them that you have a problem- if your relationship is not so beautiful you'll find it hard to ask fot their advices...and I think it's the same with your friends...
I always tell my friends when it's serious and anything that I don't consider to be life changing or so goes to my family; I think it's better 'cause friends don't judge you, they understand you, unlike my family (at least in my case, that's the way it is). Nevertheless, if it were something that I know my people wouldn't have a reasonable solution, well, I'd have to go to my fam.
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It seems you always go for your families... well... for my case i often go for my good friends... its a different matter with my family because i dont know maybe if i told them they wouldn't be that supportive... middle childs...
"tHe oNLy pERSon YoU cAn AlWaYs dEpEnD On iS gOd aNd YouRSElF"
2 years 1 week ago
krampto $pipcorona - wow... you really do keep it to yourself... i think that's hard cuz what if one time and all the feelings youve kept will just erupt... wow that sure is hard...!?
Yeah, sometimes it is hard. Usually if it gets bad I have a friend to turn to, but I only turn to her if I have to. I am usually the one in my circle of friends that is there for everyone else, so people are always turning to me. I don't know why, but I just never found myself turning back to them. I do have pretty good control of my feelings though, so I haven't had an eruption yet. =P
I don't tell it to anybody. i just keep it to myself most of the time. but Sometimes, I can't help but blab and spill my guts to a friend if i really feel pressured.
same here...
krampits a different matter with my family because i dont know maybe if i told them they wouldn't be that supportive...
same here...
Was mich nicht umbringt, mach mich starker
that which does not kill me, makes me stronger
I tell both either. However, I think it depends on the problem. There are topics you should rather talk to to a friend because he might be "closer" to the problem and understand you better, which will definitely be most of the time, as they will know you and your thoughts better, if you talk to them more often as to your parents. Sometimes though you will need an advice from someone who is more experienced in life, an older person. Then you should ask your parents or maybe there is another person that age, who is closer to you. Can be anyone you trust, even for example your grandma;-)
Have you ever tried to talk to your parents about something that worries you and if yes, have they then reacted as you wished they'd do or not? If you haven't and just feel that you can't approach them concerningn problems you should give it a try! Maybe you'll be surprised...
Have you ever tried to talk to your parents about something that worries you and if yes, have they then reacted as you wished they'd do or not? If you haven't and just feel that you can't approach them concerningn problems you should give it a try! Maybe you'll be surprised...
Well, if it is a small problem with no real importance to me, I can tell it to my familly. If the probelm is bugging me and annoying me, I can tell to a friend. However, if the problem is really big and personel, then I can't be telling anybody unless the problem is solved. If that big problem concerns someone else, then I can be discussing it with that person to get it solved.
I generally prefer to not get people involved in my real problems... I mean my family and my friends must already have their own problems to deal with, so I won't be bothering them with my problems too.
But most of the time, I can say that my problems are relatively easy compared to others who confess their problems to me, so I try to take it in an optimistic point of view and go on.
I generally prefer to not get people involved in my real problems... I mean my family and my friends must already have their own problems to deal with, so I won't be bothering them with my problems too.
But most of the time, I can say that my problems are relatively easy compared to others who confess their problems to me, so I try to take it in an optimistic point of view and go on.
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When I have a problem I come online to talk about it to complete strangers who don't care at all about my problems.
Lasciate ogni speranza, voi ch'entrate
Well....if you ask me...I would tell my friends first...I don't know why...
maybe I'm a little shy when it comes to my family...hehehe
maybe I'm a little shy when it comes to my family...hehehe
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I usually don't tell about problems, I'm stupid like that. I always feel that whatever problems I have are so small and insignificant that there's no point in bothering others with them. But when I do talk about my problems, I usually share them with my mother. She's very supportive and encouraging, never belittles me or my problems - in that sense she's different from my older sister who while being very dear to me can sometimes be a little...judgemental.
And if there's something I don't feel comfortable talking about either with my mother or sister, I talk to my therapist.
And if there's something I don't feel comfortable talking about either with my mother or sister, I talk to my therapist.
When love is gone, there's always justice.
And when justice is gone, there's always force.
And when force is gone, there's always Mom.
Hi Mom!
I mostly tell my problems to my friends...I dont really wanna make my family worry about me...
But sometimes I tell my problems to my family. And I also write my problems in my diary, which makes me feel better. And then I look back at those problems and see how silly they were, lol.
But sometimes I tell my problems to my family. And I also write my problems in my diary, which makes me feel better. And then I look back at those problems and see how silly they were, lol.
