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Morbidity by `sjade1  1 week 6 days  ago

Morbidity by `sjade1 1 week 6 days ago

Black and white at it's best with a dash of red to keep things interesting.

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$damoser 19 minutes ago
Or a thing that some people are subjected to because their area is too rural for them to get broadband.

~fangking 34 minutes ago
Ain't dial up conn a thing of the previous century?

~fama-chan 1 hour 21 minutes ago
AAAAAAAAAAHHHH HATE MY DIAL UP CONN!! Hey uu...

~uufhd 1 hour 34 minutes ago
Lalalalalaa...

~fama-chan 1 hour 37 minutes ago
Oh by the way kai, in time perhaps you will find where i am from but not now.

~uufhd 1 hour 43 minutes ago
Hiya guys ^_^

~thebigfatwhale 1 hour 46 minutes ago
You girls know nothing D: Lols, only joking. No, I live in Australia, but I'm asian. =)

~BlueShadowX700 1 hour 47 minutes ago
Haha xD fama-chan is right. LOL xD Well, I'm referring to those general vampires. ^^ Do you live in souteast asis, whale?

~fama-chan 1 hour 47 minutes ago
There is nothing sexy abt them!

~thebigfatwhale 1 hour 49 minutes ago
@blue: nuh uh, vampires are the sexiest creatures of the night (unless you're referring to the vampires from 30 Days Of Night, they were thugs.)

R U Affraid???

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~KopyKat
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Well i think people are scared to talk about thier feelings, especially the boys i mean why are you affraid it's not like they're gonna kill you, and you want to grab them with your words not how you look, really i myself love to listen to people(boys) talk about thier feelings, and when you realize that they like you or some one else you want to love them or help them to the one they love^^
so don't be affraid and speak loud^^

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~gaara248
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1 year 2 weeks ago
So KopyKat is there anyone that you like off of AP? I wanna hear about who your crushes are also. We're not the only one who is suppose to talk about that. The admin can talk about it too. So is there?

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~KopyKat
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1 year 1 week ago
Well if you wanna know then PM me <3 emoticon

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~Nightingale-Spica
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I think the real truth of the matter is the fear of denial. The truth is some people are so entangled in their feelings that just being near the person they like, they start to sweat...feel their heart start to pound on their chest, feel light headed...ect. These kinds of emontional reations start to make a person feel afraid or even foolish about their reactions and the idea that telling the person the truth can make them unsure of their love's reaction.

The whole fear of rejection the "WHAT IF..." questions. All of these can make a person back off.

However, I will agree that getting it out will inform the person how you feel or let them know that you like them as well.

I even had an experence something like this, except I wasn't the one letting out my feelings.

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~KopyKat
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1 year 1 week ago
Well if you have a strong character and can still stand tall even if things go south, then you have gutts and you will make them realize that you're the real deal^^

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~gaara248
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Yeah I know what you mean Night. I had the same feelings. I just kept everything in and didnt say anything. I was pretty hard though to see that person everyday in school.

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~KopyKat
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1 year 1 week ago
When you don't speak to someone about it, you're only hurting your self.

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~gaara248
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Yeah I know that the only thing that im doing is hurting myself. But I made the right choice though. I relized that I only liked her for her looks not her personality. When I got to know her even more it turned out that me and her didnt have much in common. She listens to rap and hip hop while I listen to rock/techno/jpop. She thinks that anime is for kids and its dumb. So I decided I should actually look for someone that has more things in common with me instead of looking for beauty. Thats when i found my gf. She listens to almost the same type of music I listen to. She reads mangas and watch anime. Her favorite color is purple and that is my second favorite color. So i decided to give her a shot and what do you know its working out for me and her.

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~KopyKat
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1 year 1 week ago
Hope you two are ment to be, as i said when you love you can't be apart^^

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~gaara248
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Yep I hope that we are also ment to be. So far its seems that why and I hope that what me and her has will never change.

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~KopyKat
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1 year 1 week ago

the timeless mystery of love^^

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~Nightingale-Spica
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Well I am glad there was/ is someone special for you and it seems to be doing great.

I hope I didn't get you guys mixed up on the feelings. I wasn't the one with the crush on my last relationship. I was... well let's call him John... he had the feelings for me. I only saw him as a friend. ... this is tough to talk about it...

But everything turned out ok, so I guess it's all right to talk about it.

The day he told me that he like me was in front of my friends at lunch. He was well dressed... I mean realy well dressed: like bussiness casual. Anyway he came towards me while I was eating a sandwich... I will admit I wasn't exactly ladylike because there was extra mustard coming from my sandwich.. Then he went down on one knee and confessed all his feelings towards me and handed me a locket with matching earings and asked me to be his girlfriend.

I didn't know what to do at that moment! Talk about verous reck!

Long story short I decided to give it a try and it turns out we were better off as friends. It's just what happened after the "break up" that worried me. It seems that John couldn't stick to anyone and I wasn't sure that his future with other women would have been bright.

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~gaara248
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(KopyKat) Yep its full of mysteries alrite. You never know when it might take a turn for the worse or it just goes crazy.

(Night) Wow you must have felt pretty embarrased cause it was lunch time and Im sure that everyone was around you just looking to see what was going on. Well at least you two gave it a shot. You dont know what will happen until you give it a shot.

Wow it seems as though Im the only guy that is active in this group lol.

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~KopyKat
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1 year 1 week ago
That is just like the movies Night^^
that must have been really romantic.
but i must say he did have the upper hand there, cause it was infront of everyone and you didn't want to imbarres him did ya!
hehehe^^

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~Nightingale-Spica
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Yes that was true. He did have the upper hand when it came to that. I'm a sucker for that kind of stuff.