what does this mean?

~smartdeviant

Wed, 05 Oct 2005 23:59:11 -0400

******READ THIS********

remember how i said i was totally clueless about this tyoe of stuff??
well, im going out with this guy.. he's really nice and hes all that...
theres this other guy, david, in the tennis team.. were really good friends and i like him a lot.. :) but not that way...
and the day i started going out with zack, he wouldnt tslk to me.. and even if he did, it was very short and he's trying to pretend like nothungs wrong... one day at the tennis game (im the manager) i was asking the team why david was acting soo weird around me.. everyone said that they think that he likes me..
ive been trying to apologize to him.. as a matter of fact, i did about 3 times in the past 3 days.. hed smile and say that its alright.. but he wouldnt act like it.. he still acted like a stick was up his butt... today, i said sorry again and he completely turned away and ignored me.. i was trying to be considerate and all... but that simple action made me cry... heck, he was an expert of making people feel bad alright.. but what am i supposed to do?? i dont know what he wants out of me.. and im just stupid about this kind of stuff.. he says that he doesnt like me at all, and i believe him.. but why act like this??

please help me.. im confused.. and this time i feel guilty and sad because i hurt someone i like...

$teamfirehawk

Mon, 03 Oct 2005 14:59:29 -0400

One thing to note about guys at that age (18-22). That is the point of transition from high school to real life and also we start to transition in what is attractive. When we were 14-17 and first seriously interested in girls we create an image of what we find attractive. The tricky part is in changing that image to correspond to our own age.

I will give you an example from my life. I am 20 and I refferee youth soccer. Every once and a while I notice that a girl in a game I am reffing (7th-8th grade) is starting to "develope" and I have to smack myself upside the head to be reminded of how old I am cuz I don't feel that old cuz I have been reffing the same age teams since I was 15.

Lastly, the best way to mis-interpret what men are doing is to think about it for more that 30 seconds. Men don't think more that 5 minutes ahead at best.

~Inuyashamania

Sun, 02 Oct 2005 15:30:23 -0400

Maybe, he's just being somebody older, like when I was a little my dad use to hold my hands all the time, but people knew that he's my dad. maybe he's trying to do the same thing. but in this case he is trying to hold your hand like he's your big bro and your his lil sis, and he let go of your hands when people see, is maybe because he doesnt want other people to think something else is going on between you and him<you know what Im saying by"something else" right?? if not pm me> thats all

~pongchan

Sun, 02 Oct 2005 09:16:01 -0400

He is 22 man he should know better that you are 14 and thre is a 8 year gap between you two. He should not try anything funny like this to confuse you in anyway by holding hands. For guys that is like showing a liking to someone that is more then just friends. I think the reason why he let go of your hand when people were around because he know that is wrong for a 22year old going out with at 14year old. And i know girls right now that are 14 seem more mature and well feture for their age and some time guys forgot that about the age differents because you girls look so mature some times. Bottom line he is older and he should know better not to do anything funny with an under age girls because if i'm not worng i believe in most states is illegal to date younger girls

~AgoNxRuS

Sun, 02 Oct 2005 09:04:09 -0400

Smartdeviant, be ready to accept a PM i got a little something for ya...
you said he has a serius Face...
that means (1 of these options...)
1: He wants you...
2: he Was sad leaving you...but didnt Expressed himslef
3: he tried to tell you something... but it didnt went out well
p.s: annex( why are you Such an Anti-male kind)

~smartdeviant

Sat, 01 Oct 2005 13:53:31 -0400

Lol.. are you sure your not high right now? :lol:

~BioXVirus

Sat, 01 Oct 2005 02:13:09 -0400

There is only one reason he would text "lil fella" HE WAS HIGH! lol cuz i text'd something like taht to my gf to before and when i seen her she looked at me very very weird but then stoped after i told her i was high :D Buuuut wait you said karate sooo i guess maybe he was'nt high :D Natural high! yeah! i don't know w/e! byes! or maybe he just awnted to see what u'd say to lil fella i don't care don't know Sleep time later! P.S your lil fella question hurts my brain! and i don't even got one!! :O

~smeegle

Sat, 01 Oct 2005 00:06:19 -0400

Ummm...I'm not really sure about myself that what does it mean...?? perhaps it might be some sort of "code of practice"...?? find out more about it and you might get the solution you are after one day...: )

~smartdeviant

Fri, 30 Sep 2005 21:16:08 -0400

Weeeirrrd.. i wouldnt know anything about guys.. lol. but, i guess you guys would, so... lol.

thanks...

but this still creeps me out. and i still feel really bad...

~EternalRequiem

Fri, 30 Sep 2005 20:28:19 -0400

Hmm... as for the little fella... maybe he was just trying to say that he is older than you... or possibly that's how he treats other girls that he likes lol...

~smartdeviant

Fri, 30 Sep 2005 20:26:04 -0400

Easier said than done..

and i still dont get the lil fella thing.

~EternalRequiem

Fri, 30 Sep 2005 19:36:55 -0400

Wow... I never saw that coming... well for now just forget about it. You won't see him for a while so there is no reason to feel so bad. Just remember to live life with no regrets. Oh and also what's done is done. Feeling bad for yourself won't make things any easier.

~koreanchick

Fri, 30 Sep 2005 19:33:19 -0400

I still don't get the lil fella thing at all O_o? But glad to see that everything worked out ok.

~smartdeviant

Fri, 30 Sep 2005 18:54:08 -0400

Well.. i asked him.. he said he was only 19 and he thought i was 16.. but still. thats disgustin..
i felt really bad.. he said that he thought that i was flirting..
and he said that when i called him senpai, he thought that was because he had a higher belt...
but still.. this is crazy. i dont understand any of it..
why would he call me lil fella??
seriously, now im happy that it would be a long time before i see him again...
its all my fault!!!
i feel really really really bad, almost to the point of tears!! ALMOST.

`chichiri1907

Thu, 29 Sep 2005 19:12:09 -0400

I think he treats you like a little sister..if you know what i mean, its nothin bad but like you said you think of him as an older brother and he thinks of you as a little sister,..........makes sense?

~benducati

Thu, 29 Sep 2005 18:49:34 -0400

Lol. stay far away from that man. far far away.