General Discussion

use cam?

picture, he can send picture @ internet anytime, or if you want to meet him personal, meet him @ fastfood because it's safe there

i suggest if you meet anyone you have met from online, that you do so only in a public setting and never alone, bring friends till you get to know that person well enough to determine if they are a risk or not. its too easy to deceive people online. dont get me wrong im not against online dating nor do i think everyone is a pervert, its just a matter of safety and a time to be cautious.

also your age worries me, im not saying you shouldnt socialize online or that someone your age couldnt fall in love online but perhaps its best to stay away from using the internet in that manner till you are a little older.

I saw a lot of shows on TV about things that happened with online perverts. In all of the cases they were all girls your age and they all got either raped/killed/molested/sexualy abused. So, even if that person you met online says he is 14 he can be a 32 year old perv who hunts for little girs like you. So, my point is if you value your life and your safety, you need to stop thinking that this guy online that you see on your computer only in words just like mine are right now, and maybe he sent you a fake picture of himself, when infact it was just a random pic hefound online, or maybe it is realy him, and you go meet him at McDonalds and then he gives you a ride home and he take a wrong turn and then another into a dark alley with no one around and rapes you in his car, or another situation where he meets you at McDonnalds talks to you and he is realy your age and it was relay his pic online, and then you go for a walk and he has some older friends who followed you all day and then they catch you, tie you up and kick you untill they get tired and then they realise you are dead, but realy you just past out, and they panic and decide to throw you in the river to hide your body. After they throw you in the river you wake up and realise that there is water all around you and you can't free yourself and there you are falling deeper and deeper and you need to breath, but you can't, so you open your mouth and all you get is deep dirty water going inside your longs, and you choke for about 10 seconds until your body shuts down, and then your mom calls the police because you never came home. And the police search the river because that is where you were last seen, and they find your body after a week of searching, but its hard to tell if it is you, because it is all falling apart and eaten by fish and algy.

SO, if you still wanna go and try your chances for some litle prick who you met online, who might smell and not brush his teeth, and maybe he don't even own any deoderent, and you be like, man I took a huge risk to meet this litle b*tch. Well, you be stupid to go and meet him. Unless you have a bodyguard, and you have made a full research on him, and you talked to his friends.

putting the fear of god into her gat huh? first you must understand something gat, what you hear on the news or any other program talking about the risks of meeting people online, is refering to a minority of cases, just like most news reports. just because that stuff happens it does not represent the majority of cases, of course thats no excuse not to be careful.

there is absolutely nothing wrong with meeting someone from online. i think my advice is adequate, meet in a public place with friends of yours (group type date), like gat mentioned, do not be alone with that person till you atleast know the person well enough to determine whether or not they are a threat. still thats no gaurantee but life is a risk and we cannot stop living because of fear.

it could even be a good idea to tell your parents, or even meet the person with your parents, embarassing sure but alot safer.

I was just been creative :P