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10 years now? and still not over her. Too bad she's such a screw up IRL, she's one of the few girls who's mindset and interests I can tolerate. Her new weight problems don't win her any points either.

Mph... Well, the first person that I felt something more than friendship... It took me like... less than a year, hahaha. But the second one was harder, around 1 year of torturing myself. The third one was the worst of all: almost 3 years. Maybe a bit more.

It takes half the time you were together, or until you find someone else. so... 2yrs? it wasn't so bad, though.

It took me a year T^T

It took me about a week, after I found out (a friend told me) that he cheated on me 3 months before we broke up. Keep on thinking 'What the hell' and why does any of my friends didn't tell me earlier.

I don't like talking about it much irl, but what the heck, I've been in love with the same person for the past 6 years and I'm in no rush to 'get over it'. I don't think moving on should be rushed but it should come as it will. I've tried to push it away but really, it just comes back anyway so I'm learning to live with it.

it took a year at most, though i find myself thinking about the person these past few months.

It took me about a month and a half to "get over her", but I don't think I've actually completely gotten over her. It's just that the initial grief has passed. And it's been...three years. She's still kinda my best friend, though, and it's more like a sibling relationship now - with me as a pseudo-big brother. I believe that if one truly falls in love, there's no getting over him/her. That's 'cause good memories are meant to be remembered and cherished. ^.^

I'm still wondering if things could have worked out if i had handled things better... T.T still wondering if i could fix it up. still wondering if i can kill that "some one else" who messed it up. oh yeah. it's been around 3 years btw.

Ah, this is a sweet topic. It didn't take me long, to be honest! he was a jerk and I had always known it. I've had crushes since, but I've recently fallen madly in love with the girl of my dreams!! But i'm pretty sure she isn't interested, and being her friend is more important to me!! So I hope it passes soon....

Three or four months. Hard to remember, my head was all wrong at the time.

Well I was sort of strung along by this person and fueled by own teenage desperation so....too long. It was the worst. I envy anyone able to come away from that on good terms. I suppose it depends on the maturity of the couple. We were not terribly mature

I am still working on that... since a lot of things remind me of her, and I'll see her a bit walking down the hallways of the architect building, so its hard. Im still left there and she knows I like her, and it irritates me that she knew and still got a boyfriend. I know some stuff I did wasnt right but she forgave me and thats that... Im lost now because of this its been 5 months and we dont talk anymore but she still says hi... I dont know anymore and I get really nervous around her now... so now Im just finding ways to let go of her... I can say this isnt really bad... last one had some melt downs because one girl I text daily ended badly and my closest friend moved and I was really just not myself... so yeah the past 3 years arent good so far... just hanging in there, and trying my best to move forward (take whatever Ive learned and the memories Ive had and move along).

Poor kid, I feel sorry for you.

A couple of minutes. It's not worth it. The world is full of other candidates.

Literally one week :D

Yea. Knowing him for 1 year made me love him for 9 years. It's freaking hard to forget him.

Lucky me, now I have a caring, smart, and not too handsome bf.

I like boys who are not too handsome. While they show their personality, we can tell whether he's really ugly / handsome. Same goes with girls :D

Like 3 years. But i feel that somehow, maybe for being the first one, you never really get over your first love , since the good memories remain present and vivid

omg i want to experience hot love with a girl!! but no one would want to make love with me ........